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Ok Girlies, this RANT is for you...(Amy's Blog)
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Ok Girlies, this RANT is for you...(Amy's Blog) Why. That’s my question. Why are some women completely insane!!??!! Do we as females not have enough shit to worry about that we have to inflict even MORE pain on other people, especially our guys? I find it incredulous that there are women out there who rule their husbands with an iron thumb. WHY? Are you that worried about them straying or cheating on you that you need to know where they are 24 hours a day? Are you that controlling that you actually tell your husband NO he can’t do something, as if he is a ? Maybe that’s it, these women are in Mommy-Mode and since I have never been there I don’t know how to react to that. Whatever the reason, just STOP, its insanity that you can not allow an adult man who has committed himself to you, to do as he pleases. I first started noticing this when Greg and I first got married and we had our very first Lan Party in our home. 20 guys and their computers, all playing video games, all night long. To some, pure hell, to those that are gamers like us, nirvana, or as I prefer ”Nerdvana”. Yet every half hour or so some crazed wife would be calling their husband telling him to come home or that “he has played enough games for one night and it was time to leave” or questioning if he was “really” at a computer party. I couldn’t believe it. And even worse, some wives show up, sit there, and bitch the entire time that they want to leave, asking when it’s going to be over, etc. GET THE FUCK OUT ALREADY YOU WHACKO!!! Now obviously I didn’t say that but the whole time I see this sort of thing happening that’s what my “inner dude” is screaming. I just don’t get the whole controlling thing. I could never in a million years think about telling Greg he couldn’t do something, couldn’t go out, play games or couldn’t see some of his friends (yes even girlfriends). Those thoughts are not part of my thinking process so when women start doing this I just don’t get it. I especially don’t understand chicks that get so angry when their guy plays video games. I mean wouldn’t you rather have him home sitting on his X-Box or playing computer games instead of out at a titty bar if that’s what you are worried about? I mean fuck, he’s gonna spend A LOT less on games than he would drinking & sliding dollar bills across the stage to some nameless chick just to get her to wiggle her ass in his face. Now granted I can get the whole money thing. You have to draw the line at expenditures at some point. Greg and I both have told one another “No we really can’t afford that right now” but to flat out deny him something just because you can, makes you come off as a Vicious Blood Sucking Shrew and not just to him. His friends do notice and believe me, they will give him NO END OF SHIT about it, which in turn just makes him resent you for making him feel even more like a pussy whipped little boy asking for Mommy’s permission or will make him do things even more under the table so he doesn’t have to deal with the crap you put him through. Either way, YOU LOSE!!! Do you honestly think it’s healthy for either of you? Don’t get me wrong, I know men can do the same thing to women but lately it’s just been more on the female side saying NO that I have noticed, mostly because I hang out more with the guys then the girls. Again, I just don’t get it. Whew ok, just had to get that off my chest. Poor guy in my office has one of these wives and it just amazes me that he has to actually SNEAK around to play Guitar Hero for fuck sake lol. I mean sure I wanna scream Man Up and get some balls but in all reality, I know how hard it is to love your wife and try to make things work and there just comes a time when its just easier to give in. I’ve been there, the path of least resistance is much better than the path loaded with land mines that could go off at any moment…especially when the mine pattern changes depending on her mood, time of the month or wind patterns in Belgium. All I ask is that we women take a look at how hard we are on our guys about stupid shit. Realize what he has to go through just being “the man of the house” and dealing with wanting to take care of his family, be the provider and HUNTER OF MEAT (its that left over caveman DNA…they all have it no matter what we ladies think). So give him some space, let him have his down time. Try NOT treating him like a , and you might actually get the response you are trying for. You get more bees with honey than with vinegar and some of ya’ll are big fucking bottles of balsamic gone bad!!! Now, in other news…I hit my head on Monday and have been recovering the past couple days so if you have emailed me or sent me a text I will get back to you I promise. I was at work, in our copy room and bent down to pick up something that was on the floor and as I stood back up I caught the corner of the overhead cabinet right on my left temple, above my ear. They thought I might have given myself a concussion but turns out I didn’t. I do still have a nice big bump on my noggin’ and there’s still a scratch but no stitches were needed. So, there’s my Dumb Ass Move for this week all done lol. I hope you all are having a good week and for hells sake BLOG PEOPLE!!! It helps to cope with anything and everything. Plus it keeps me entertained and THAT’S what’s important hehe. Much Love to my Peepage!!! WE AIM TO MISBEHAVE |
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OK - I am single - and I have worked with men, been friends with men and I have often thought that unless I am stupid and helpless, Needy and nagging, Judging and controling one cannot ever get married. More than I can count have I wondered how in the hell or why in the hell did you marry this ..... I am none of those things and hence SINGLE still...lol(present comapny is excluded) in my views of some married womaan .. so that is my rant to your rant..lol    Star light, Star Bright, First star I see tonight, I wish I may, I wish I might, have this wish I wish tonight: Find me the man who when he sees me, his heart fills with joy, a man who wants to tell me about his day, a man who will text me just say, Hi - I was thinking about you, a man who knows I make his life better by being a part of it.
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Man you mean I was doing it wrong instead of trying to make him go to the tittie bar and hang out with friends??? I was supposed to make him wanna be home?? or was he doing it wrong for wanting to be home and me trying to make him go with friends and the tittie bar??? now I'm all fuckered up... Oh wait no I'm not anymore  hahaha the single life for me 
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Damn Amy your poor head please heal well and if needed I can kiss that boo-boo or anythingelse that needs kissed this weekend. Can't wait to saee you both. Have Fun RR
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2/2/2008 12:27 am |
All I can say is AMEN! and do you guys still have lan parties and what game do you guys play? I've been hooked on a couple myself LOL You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose. You're on you own. And you know what you know. And YOU are the guy Who'll decide where you go. Dr. Seuss 
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4/12/2008 7:07 am |
that seems to be so true for me at least
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Tequila 
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