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HOW LONG  

pussylover0692 61M
10 posts
5/20/2017 6:00 pm

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9/24/2020 6:06 am
HOW LONG

So I have question for you ladies so how long do you think a man should stop sending you flirts or emails before he decide that she is not instered. It seems to me some ladies do not no how to tell a man that but I have more respect for ladies that do vs ones that do not. So I ask what is a good reason not to reply back so far it seems to be a color thing but it is not mention in there profile just wandering, p/l0692

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
5/20/2017 11:46 pm

 Man to man, on this subject, I'd tell you send email to a woman only , "Once", and keep on fishing for other women, don't wait around for a reply. But if she is really hot, which is rare on this site, so there will be more competition for that catch, then I'd suggest "Twice" about a week apart. No more than that.

It seems to me some ladies do not no how to tell a man that .... Women shouldn't have to tell a man that. In fact, asking women what a man should do, is weak.

but I have more respect for ladies that do vs ones that do not. ... Don't respect women for that. Raise the bar a little higher.


what is a good reason not to reply back ... There really is no good reason , just "Reasons". Mostly the reason being that she is flooded with flirts and emails from all kinds of men. Or if she isn't very attractive, she may just not be interested in you.

so far it seems to be a color thing ....Never let that stop you from sending just one email.

You have to take chances to get what you want. .....So if she says, "White men only"?
Tough.
Send her one email anyway. Take your chance.

but it is not mention in there profile ... Then no way for anyone, especially you, to know. ...So take your chance.


AngelaNoyd 49F
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5 posts
3/23/2018 11:29 pm
    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Man to man, on this subject, I'd tell you send email to a woman only , "Once", and keep on fishing for other women, don't wait around for a reply. But if she is really hot, which is rare on this site, so there will be more competition for that catch, then I'd suggest "Twice" about a week apart. No more than that.

    It seems to me some ladies do not no how to tell a man that .... Women shouldn't have to tell a man that. In fact, asking women what a man should do, is weak.

    but I have more respect for ladies that do vs ones that do not. ... Don't respect women for that. Raise the bar a little higher.

    what is a good reason not to reply back ... There really is no good reason , just "Reasons". Mostly the reason being that she is flooded with flirts and emails from all kinds of men. Or if she isn't very attractive, she may just not be interested in you.

    so far it seems to be a color thing ....Never let that stop you from sending just one email.

    You have to take chances to get what you want. .....So if she says, "White men only"?
    Tough.
    Send her one email anyway. Take your chance.

    but it is not mention in there profile ... Then no way for anyone, especially you, to know. ...So take your chance.
Heathen_G makes a good point...raise the bar higher. For whatever reason they're not answering, don't take it personally or assume it has anything to do with you. If anything, do consider sending actual messages over flirts or any indirect contact. Consider raising the bar on the messages you're sending too.

In my experience, men do not feel compelled to offer any explanations. Regardless of what it leaves a woman to wonder about herself. You have to learn to not take that personally and consider what kind of person he is. Maybe apply that same rule to women on here.

I see very little consideration on this site for living up to...any...bar, high or low. Do not expect more from women that you hope to deliver when given the chance. Be honest with yourself about what that is. Consider all the experiences she has had up til now.

In my own experience...answering someone just to say "No, not with you. etc." is a dick move, not a respectable one. It could be a person who gets pleasure in saying no to someone before there is even a reason to. (Just food for thought.) To reply at all also attracts more unwanted attention. It is sometimes expedient and better to leave it alone.


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