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crs7sm 51M
6 posts
2/12/2009 4:15 pm

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2/22/2009 11:36 pm

confused


I watched Chris Rocks HBO Comedy special, the other night, and was intrigued by some of the things he said about the difference between men and women in todays society. I don't remember the exact words, but he talked about how a woman today, basically wants everything, and her mentallity is, who can I get to get this for me, whatever this happens to be at the time. When women look at men they look for certain things, job, has his own place, car, security, etc.... Now I understand that most of this is very important, but not having one of these things, does not make him a loser,"Job, and Own place are probably the two most important things to have,though" Anyway, I guess my point in all this is what are the important things a man should have or do to make an impression? I mean a man who busts his ass to get ahead in this world, who reallly tries to be a gunuine person, is this no longer enough?

rm_UmTasty2 52F
130 posts
2/12/2009 4:43 pm

Well, I guess this goes both ways. Men look for certain things in a woman as well. Generally, all of these things vary depending on the person. I am sure that a 'job' and a 'place' is plenty for some women but what about actually 'clicking together?' Does that matter at all or will any woman who is will to settle for a man with a 'job' and a 'home' be okay? Do you want a girl that goes to church, drinks excessively, enjoys three-somes, has her own job and career goals? What about kids,,, do you want them or does she? Should she have a brain or let you think for her? Should she have all of her teeth or can she just lay around on the couch naked watching Opera and eating cheeto's all day?

You will not find the answers on this site but I wish you the best of luck in finding the girl that fits with your personality and life goals.


wtbtouchedbyu 66F
9 posts
2/13/2009 10:40 am

Sweetie, you need to come back to AZ!!! you ARE the GENUINE article!! miss ya


wittychicjh 55F
17 posts
2/13/2009 10:09 pm

While I think some women are attracted to that bad boy image...that devil may care kind of attitude, I think that more and more they are looking for the combination of the two.
I personally like a man that has a job. Does he have to be a millionaire..no. But having a job and the ability to pay his bills means something. I do not like that uncertainty of someone who has no idea where they are gonna get the money to put gas in their car.
Now if he has a job...is responsible...and has that naughty side to him, then I say he would be perfect. If he can bring home the bacon and throw my legs over his shoulders and make me moan...he is perfect.


{=}Witty


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