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FUCK IT!!!!!!! IT's ABOUT JEALOUSY!!!!!!
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FUCK IT!!!!!!! IT's ABOUT JEALOUSY!!!!!! I have always thought of myself as a "protective" person......yet I never thought of me being a "jealous" female. Today, I was talking to a friend of mine, and I actually stated before I even thought about it that I get jealous! I stopped for a minute, then kinda laughed; but then I asked her: "What's wrong with a little jealousy as long as you don't go all psyco?" There are individuals, who claim to not experience jealousy, yet I do not know many! I believe people do not like to use the term jealous, or jealousy, because it makes one seem insecure with oneself. Maybe, maybe not......... but what is the big deal? I have been in a relationship for nine years, and as much as I say, that I do not mind a female eyeing my man, I do not want it to go any farther than that!! PERIOD!!! I know that he loves me....but yeah, I would be upset if I walked into the club and seen him bumping and grinding all up on some female. Yeah, it's just a dance, but I find dancing a form of intimacy, when it comes to a slow jam!! Some call it dry humping, but whatever! I am not the female that gets jealous of my man looking at a female.........if someone is beautiful, how could you avoid it? Do you think that jealousy can harm or heat up a relationship? There are some deeper issues if it goes to psycho stalker, but can someone be driven over the edge by jealousy or insecurity? Is it possible for someone to be neglected to the point of insanity? What type of things cause jealousy or insecurity? The person who feels the jealousy, are they insecure, or is it because of his/her lover's actions? Just a little thinking going on in my mind, right now!! So what do you think? Do you think a little jealousy in your mate is a turn on or a turn off? Speak up and Out!! (* Just trying to get u guys riled up!!! I am not a jealous person!!!)  |
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1/26/2009 4:10 pm |
I don't know about jealousy between couples, but I think alot of the fights that go on here in this site ARE about jealousy. Someone is jealous that some guy is paying attention to someone new, not them. Someone is jealous that what you printed was not well received and starts attacking ppl. I even heard one rant cuz there was some disagree column and the blogger had alot of ppl disagreeing with their blog! Maybe that's not jealous but insecurity. Sure, I'd be jealous if some girl was humping on my guy's leg. LOL That's only human nature I think!
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I don't feel jealous. I've felt envious that someone has something that I do not (a cool hair-do, outfit, vacation, whatever) and I've experienced insecurity - but I call it insecurity and envy and not jealousy. Very rare do envy and insecurity meet in my head and turn into that lil thing called "jealousy". The only thing I HAVE to do is eat, shit, and die. Everything else is a choice.
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