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Too Long to be Nice Anymore
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Too Long to be Nice Anymore I think I have been on this site for too long. At first it was to meet people and to be able to explore all the fantasies I had and to make them a reality. Been there, done that. And once I had done those things, some I liked, some I didn't. But I had done them and was not sure if I still wanted to. I had some health issues, my sex drive was dwindling, and just was not up playing right now. I toyed with the idea of leaving the site after that. I had done the fantasies I wanted to. Why stay? I decided to stay for the friends I had made and to keep in touch with them through chat. But as time went on, I had less and less time to go into chat. I found out right away who really were my friends and who were friends only when I was playing. I finally stayed to blog. I really enjoyed blogging, even though I had never written for others to read before this. I loved the idea I could make people laugh, or think, or feel sad, or get horny. But as work increased to 60 hours a week, my health kept going down, and the excitement of moving to the country and all the horses and adventures of the country took over, I had less and less time to blog. I changed my profile to say I was not meeting anyone right now. Did not want to be misleading, that would be unfair. As long as I stated it clearly on my profile, no problem. Right? But now, when I come onto the site to check other's blogs and to put up the occasional one, I have tons of letters in my inbox. Almost every one of them says...... I HAVE READ YOUR PROFILE AND DECIDED I WOULD LIKE TO MEET WITH YOU. Some say they are from out of town. Some are not. But they all seem to think that my profile says I want to meet with them. I could not have made my profile clearer. I am not into meeting right now. But for some reason..... and this is why I say maybe I have been here too long..... I just want to write them back and ask if they can actually read, or if they are learning disabled, or just an asshole that they waste my time with letters asking me to meet with them. If you are actually too stupid to read the profile or too fucking cheap to have a membership so you can read it..... do not put me on the list of the other women you are spamming with an invite to meet, in the hopes one of us are dumb enough to meet with someone who spams. Now if your letter said that you are not a paid member, so you cannot read all profiles, but are sending the letter anyway in the hopes of hearing something back, that would be fine. I understand that, I am not an unreasonable person. BUT DO NOT SAY YOU READ MY PROFILE AND SO YOU KNOW WE ARE A PERFECT MATCH. Do not insult me and then then be all hurt when I write you back and tell you what an imbecile you are! I no longer have patience for this. It just pisses me off these days. I almost wish I could physically slap them upside the head. And that is how I know I have been here too long. Do you ever feel that way? That it is time to move on because you just want to tell people off? I think that just may be my final hint. Or maybe I am just in a bad mood these days. Or PMS?   |
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I get that way occassionally. USA and I took a break from swinging for a while. We had to step back and reevaluate why we are here and what we wanted. As it turns out after many conversations we are back on track of knowing what is best for us. We also have made awesome friends, yourself included hun. We don't want to give that up either. But as far as people understanding what we are looking for........it's hard. Not everyone understands. But we'll beat to our own drum. Do what we do best.........each other. Keep It Real 
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You know a funny thing happened to me too. It is that my experience here has been almost exactly like yours too. I got to the point where I have left the site for a couple of different reasons at different times (met someone and wanted to give it a chance, got pissed off at the bots and some of the moronic rules here, etc.). And I always came back. Mostly because of the friends met over the years, some to chat with new ones that I hope to have for a long time too. And like you my profile says NOT MEETING ANYONE AT THIS TIME but that does not seeem to matter just like has happened to you. So is it coming to my end here? Not sure. But I have to say the other sites are too vanilla and don;t have the same entertainment as I have always found here.
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10/25/2009 6:19 pm |
Well, you know hun, I get that way at times, and I find myself backing off from things for awhile. It usually helps. I know you are very stressed, and have a very full plate right now. Hopefully once your health issues have been resolved, you can then concentrate on YOU again. I will do everything I can, along with Mr Hooligan to be there for you, and help you with anything. But I think you know that already!! Love Ya Girl!!!!!!!!!!
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10/26/2009 5:16 am |
Great post! I've read your profile and we'd be perfect for each other. ...but only because I'm too far away to get smacked.  You're probably not aware that I once made a spurious profile on this site as a drop-dead gorgeous redhead female, for my own amusement and education. You have my deepest respect for standing your ground, and my sympathies both for your difficult decision to remain and for having to put up with the same dweebs I did as "Sandy".Be well James
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Hey I know people don't read profiles fully. But you do what you want to do. That is the way it should be. People who like and liked you for who you are and how you think are all that count. Take care and never do something you don't want to.. I'm glad to have had the chance to talk with you and just laugh at crazy things and find that we thought alike about some things. Happy trails always Able202
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1/20/2011 5:00 am |
Hey Jewels... I read this post and smiled... its been awhile and I'm glad you had the experiences you did and it seems you have moved on.. so its how it should be.. AQ, Senior Sizzle and all ... are stepping stones in this adventure we call life... it was great to see you have animals and a new place to live it... I am one who is glad to have met you and I'm also glad to know your doing new things... I hope your health is good and all is well with you... It's all good... Don I love being good at being bad.... 
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Wow.... popped in after quite awhile and was surprised to see comments. I have not been forgotten!!  Sometimes I miss my old life, sometimes not..... but I sure made some wonderful friends and some great lovers. Seems I must be considering the 'coming back' part again tho.... or I would not even be here. They say life is cycles.... maybe a new one is starting again. And maybe I will be lucky enough to meet some new and interesting people again?
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