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Why is it so difficult to meet on this site?
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Why is it so difficult to meet on this site? This isn't eHarmony after all. Single business professional just looking for casual, safe fun from time to time. Married guys, If you are a novice and need a teacher, I can help you out. Non threatening safe environment. Flexible day time schedule. |
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There are several reasons why it is hard to meet. For me, it because I have been burned before a few times. From someone stealing to someone not taking no for an answer. Also some folks wanna to develop some kind of chemistry before meeting. Lastly nothing wrong with feeling comfortable with someone before meeting them. Also nothing wrong with being safe and safe doesn't usually mean quick. This is a Copy of My Profile Want to know even more about me? Read my Introduction Post. Feel free to drop me a line here: Give me All the Messages. Don't worry it is private! Check out all my rambles here, BlackRayne74!!   Desire becomes surrender, surrender becomes power. -Joker
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It is hard to meet on here I have only meet one lady, have sent emails to other ladies n couple on here but have not heard any thing back.
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Slow and safe. Respect and courtesy is an indicator of how one treats others. An opening line with "F" in it is tacky Quality sex comes with having some chemistry and familiarity Best sex involves the brain.
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From looking at your profile, it seems like you are looking mostly for men and for couples. There are a lot less men on this site than there are women so you've got that stacked against you...same with couples who just want to share with a guy, not another couple. It's hard enough for a female to find a man to meet up with. Good luck with your search. btw, you might want to note on your profile what your sexual identity or preference is...it's a bit unclear until i read the whole profile. Are you straight, bi, gay...etc Read RESPECT WE all NEED to do Better and Re Petition to Stop Transsexuals from Using Female Profiles
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80% fakes or timewasters, 10% no shows so ya have a 10% chance of actually hooking up. You can thank Penthouse for making Senior Sizzle just another BS site. Penthouse, check out how cool this site was before ya all took it over. VENT OVER,  for now, 
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It's all in how you promote yourself. Most ladies aren't interested in meeting a guy who's as indiscriminate as your profile/blog makes you out to be. It reads like you'll fuck anything that moves... so realize that that makes you quite unattractive to women and probably to more than a few men as well.
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As a gay man, searching for men only, I find that most of the men who respond to my profile are curious married guys. Once they find out that I'm a decent chap who doesn't mind having a conversation, some of them just need a sounding board for what they're feeling, even if they have never acted on it. Lots of married guys just like the thrill of talking about having sex because it's just not happening at home, but between wife schedules and work schedules and their own nervousness, they never actually make it out to act on their urges. With the guys who decide to hook-up, there's still the last minute something-came-ups and the no-shows. After a lifetime of being gay, I am certain of one thing: the majority of men absolutely SUCK at communicating.
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I agree with freefall. My problem seems to be scheduling and hosting.
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