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Blogs > rm_bevila1 > Fun in The Sun

Am i Kidding myself  

rm_bevila1 47M
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4/12/2009 12:49 pm

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4/28/2009 9:10 pm
Am i Kidding myself

Hello
Well i want to run something by everyone i want to tell you what i want out of a woman and then i would like to know from you guys am i just kidding myself ?????
I want someone that i get along with someone with whom i can share all my thoughts and also with whom i can enjoy life with someone that is a great deal of fun to be around and finds being with me a great deal of fun someone i can learn from and who can learn from me,these things i have found no problem finding some qualities more successfully than others but generally it is not that difficult.So Whats my problem do you ask ???? Well the problem is that when i see the person i want to feel that i need them that i want them and that there is no other for me out there this is something that i find a problem generally i find that most woman i meet are not attractive to me.Now now i do not mean for them to be supermodels and when i talk attraction in this context it is something that is personal to me when i look at them i want to wake up next to them every morning and i know and when i come back from work i know when i see them in the street out of the blue i know.I have never found this since my ex wife with her i felt that way and yet look where that ended up.But even thou that did not last the distance i feel i will be unfair to myself and any future partner if i do not see them in the same light because that will mean that i settled and that i do not believe is worth it both for myself and whoever i choose to go into a serious relationship with.Now a great deal of people tell me that i do not get there because i still hooked on the ex but to be honest this does not do me any favors because it will not be until i find someone that does it for me that this problem will not go away.So after all that rambling please i implore you give me some advice i really need it because it is one of my greatest stumbling blocks and it feels as if i am hitting my head against a wall .....

rockgirl2008 51F
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4/22/2009 3:32 am

 Alice I so agree with you.

When you go out atively looking for "The One"you miss the ones in between and they are normally are the reason you are able to find the one.

You meet diffrent people and like or dislike them for diffrent reason, but that is how you build up your ideas of what works for you and what does not. This also allows you to have fun, and not thinks of every interaction as this must be the one.


rm_bevila1 replies on 4/27/2009 11:45 am:
i agree you are right there is no point in sitting here getting myself down when all it means is that there is more fun to be had and that the emphasis has to be on being happy and living life to the full!!!!

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