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Learn All About Sex Toys - Vibrators Vibrators They are electrical or battery powered devices that vibrate providing sexual pleasure. The secret to vibrators success is that they increase the blood flow and energy to whatever part of the body they are put up against. They are wonderfully versatile, used on the internal or external genitalia. The most popular fallacy about vibrating toys is that they are for women only. Men can also enjoy vibrations on there genitals. It really is a shame that adult toys have been so repressed and frowned upon. Sexual play is about mutually consenting adults having fun. There's nothing politically incorrect about pleasure, just as long as it's arrived at safely, sanely and consensually. This is why I provided this section, to educate adults about the different possibilities that are out there. Vibrators - Different Kinds Okay, so you want to vibrate yourself into sexual ecstasy or you and your partner are ready to vibrate each other into sexual ecstasy, but now you have to choose a vibrator. And there's so many out there you don't know what they all are or what the difference is between them. So I present to you this guide explaining the possibilities. Electrical/Plug In Vibrators These are the body massagers that you see in the health and wellness section of most catalogs. Most are very strong and well made. They are usually used for external genital stimulation because the head is not large enough for penetration. Although, attachments are available for anal and vaginal penetration and some even have a cup like attachment for penile stimulation. This type of vibrator is a great first vibrating toy, they don't look like a sex toy and if you decide not to use it during sexual play, then it's still useful on other body parts too. But it's not that simple, there are several types of electrical vibrators. Let's explore: Coil Vibrators These resemble a hairdryer with the vibrating tip at a right angle to the handle, like the Wahl 7-in1. It's not run by a motor, but an electromagnetic coil, so it's almost completely silent. But beware, the coil may become hot during long periods of use. It usually comes with four to seven attachments: 1 knobby for clitoral stimulation, 1 long shaft for vaginal penetration, 1 long shaft with a shorter nub protruding from the bottom at an angle for simultaneous clitoral and vaginal stimulation or anal penetration and 1 that looks like a tulip to apply over the head of the penis. These vibrators are known to be faster, more intense and provide more tightly focused vibrations. Coil Vibrators are also the less weighty of the electrical vibes. Wand Vibrators These vibes have a long handle with a head at one end of it and the electrical cord on the other end. Usually it has 2 speeds, high and low. Unlike a coil vibe, it has a motor so it makes a low humming sound. The large head allows for the vibrations to be more spread out. The high speed is usually really high, sometimes almost too intense! Even though they're big, they're not too bulky to use with a partner. Attachments are also made for them, but have to be purchased separately. All attachments have a teacup like bottom so they can be attached to the ball-like head. The attachments fit really securely too. The attachments are basically the same as coil vibes. As far as anal penetration goes, you can pretty much use all the attachments because the teacup bottom will stop any attachment from being lost in the anal cavity (See Anal Toys for more detailed information). The most sought after wand vibrator out there is the Hitachi Magic Wand. It's been dubbed as the "Cadillac of Vibrators," that's when Cadillac's were the hottest cars to have. I'd say now it's the Porche of Vibrators. Hitachi's reputation for the best vibrator still remains strong. And it's my favorite too! I've had my original Hitachi Magic Wand for over 6 years now. Recently, Adam & Eve has come out with a more affordable massager type vibrator called the Adam & Eve Magic Massager. I plan to have a massager bake-off in the future to compare the two. Rechargeable Electric Vibrators Lots of electrical vibes now come in rechargeable versions, like the The Ideal Massager. They offer similar power of the Hitachi Magic Wand, but now it's cordless and portable. So don't let the cord and nearby power outlet stop you from trying these divine vibrators. The toy manufacturers are also becoming more stylish and fashionable with the rechargeable vibes they're desiging. Something like the Form 6, is very discreet, pretty to look at and offers a variety of vibrations with very little sound. I think we're going to see more and more of these types of vibes in coming years. Eroscillator Made famous by Dr. Ruth, this looks similar to a Wand Vibrator with the long handle and head at the end, except the Eroscillator oscillates. The head moves from side to side instead of moving up and down like a vibrator. The oscillations are known to be gentler than vibrations. It comes with 3 or 4 attachments. Here's a little trivia for you...it's the only massager that is outwardly advertised as a sexual product. Battery Operated Vibrators These consist of the smaller, most portable and most popularly known vibrators. It used to be that they were not as strong or intense as the electric vibes, but technology is giving some of them a fighting chance. They come in a variety of colors, styles and materials. There's definitely something for everyone. I think they make a good first penetrative vibrator because they're much more affordable than electric vibes, as long as you choose a simpler model. Extra features will usually make it more expensive. Unlike electric vibes, some have a dual purpose: vaginal penetration and clitoral stimulation. Their life expectancy is not as long as the electrical vibes and they don't come with warranties like electrical vibes. Let's explore: Slim Line Vibrators These rocket resembling vibes are the most popular of all battery operated vibes. The hard plastic ones are the cheapest available. They come in a huge array of colors, prints, metallics and materials. They are sized from 4" to 8" long. The batteries slide into the plastic casing, so if it's just a plain ole, hard, plastic vibe, it can be rather noisy because the batteries vibrate against the hard plastic. However, if you get something made of a jelly, cyberskin, rubber, elastomer or phthalate-free material, that should muffle the sound a little more for you. Also keep in mind that these kinds of materials are more expensive to use, making the vibrator more expensive for you. So you can obtain a hard plastic slim line vibe for as little as $6.49 or a more luxurious vibe for $62.00 and up. Phallic Vibrators These vibes are made to resemble a penis. Some are just penis shaped and come in a wide array of colors and materials. While others are very clever in their appearance. Still others don't try to disguise anything at all, they look like an actual penis complete with skin coloring, veins and even testicles. Most are sized from 4 " to 7" long. G-Spot Vibrators These vibrators can look like or resemble curved penises or curved slim line vibes. The curve at the end is intended to stimulate the g-spot when inserted. It works best when inserted with the curve facing up toward the stomach. These vibes are helpful during masturbatory play because for some, it seems impossible for women to stimulate her g-spot to orgasm by herself. These are also sized from 4" to 7" long. A newer vibrator to use for this is the new bendable vibrators that have a flexible spine so that you can bend the vibe in just the right spot to reach your g-spot. In this case, new technology is much better...it gives you more control to personalize the vibrator just for you. Multi-Purpose Vibrators Over the years, these have also become much more popular. They look like phallic vibes with a nub protruding from the base at an angle. The purpose of these vibes is to vaginally penetrate while the nub stimulates the clitoris. There are separate controls for the long shaft and the nub. Some controls are at the base of the vibe, making it all one unit, like the I-Vibe Rabbit. And others have a separate control unit attached by a cord, like the popular Jack Rabbit. They all have various speeds and settings. Some have a unique feature, the shaft is stuffed with little beads that twist and turn to stimulate the g-spot, our most popular being the Jack Rabbit. These offer the feeling of penetration and fullness in the vagina, g-spot stimulation and clitoral stimulation all at the same time. Lately, they've been getting real high tech by offering more than just vibrating. Now you can experience pulsating, escalating, surging and roller coaster ride! This is one of the hottest vibrators available to date. As much as people have cheered for the invention of these multi stimulating vibes, just as many have regarded it as a good attempt, but not quite there yet. The major complaint is that the protruding nub does not reach the clitoris when the shaft is inserted all the way into the vagina. And some think it's too much going on at the same time, a good toy, but very overwhelming. Egg/Bullet Vibrators These are the 2nd smallest & most versatile vibrators available in two styles. The egg vibes are egg shaped, made out of a variety of materials. There are also vibes that look like 1" to 3" long tablets called bullet vibes, also made out of a variety of materials. The cheaper eggs/bullets can cost you as little as $10.99, offering a surprisingly powerful vibrational experience, while the more technologically advanced in function and/or material can cost $65.00 or higher. Egg/Bullet vibes are best when pressed up against the clitoris. Egg/Bullet vibes with an attached cord can be inserted into the vagina, however, I don't recommend pulling it out by the cord because you can easily break the cord. Don't let their size fool you. They are very intense for being battery operated. The reviews for these vibes are also mixed. Some people like to pop them in and leave them inside all day, others find them to be rather annoying and still others say they feeling nothing. Strap-On Vibrators A bullet vibe encased in various jelly rubber holders (butterfly, heart) strap around a woman's waist and are designed to stimulate the clitoris. The harness is made out of thin leather or nylon straps. You step into them like you would a pair of underwear. The straps are usually adjustable so you can position it over the clitoris. A strap-on vibe provides hands free clitoral stimulation. All are attached to a small battery pack controller. It's wonderfully unobtrusive for intercourse. A male partner may find the subdued vibrations pleasurable as well. Some variations are great for masturbation because they not only offer clitoral vibrations but a small shaft to insert into your vagina as well, like the Hands-Free Micro Clitoral Tickler or one that offers anal penetration. Waterproof Vibrators For those that love to play in the tub, Jacuzzi, on the beach or anyplace that has water, the adult industry has heard your pleas and invented a vibrator that is water friendly. These water friendly vibrators come in an array of colors, styles and materials. The one concern in the beginning was that the heavy outer covering would subdue the vibes down to nothing, but that's just not true! These vibes are still really powerful. And now multi-purpose vibes are available in a waterproof version, I really enjoy the Waterproof Wabbit Vibe. It's the similar to the jack rabbit vibe, but water friendly! Mini Massagers Mini massagers, like the famous Pocket Rocket, are much smaller than the electric massagers and much more portable. They can easily and discreetly slip into a purse or even pocket to take anywhere. They do not look sexual and therefore can be bought almost anywhere. Don't let them fool you, just because they're tiny doesn't mean they lack power. Most are surprisingly powerful for clitoral stimulation. These are used for external genital stimulation only. These massagers have gotten so small that they measure a mere 3.25" long, like the Love Bullets. Some even look like shavers. Remote Control Vibrators If you love technological advancements, you'll love the remote control vibrators: Panties, Strap On Vibes and Eggs. These products are great for so many reasons. They've gotten rid of the cords that you have to try to hide while using the vibrator. Now you can just slip it in or on, throw the remote in a pocket or purse and activate whenever you're ready. They're also fun for a night out on the town with your lover. Surrender the remote control to him/her and let him/her buzz you when you least expect it. Talk about the ultimate tease and reminder of what's to come. The only complaint we've heard is that sometimes the vibe overheats if you activate it for long periods of time. So make sure you're in constant communication if you surrender the remote to someone else. So there you have it, most of the vibrators available for your every need and desire. Are you too overwhelmed? Don't worry my Shopping for a Vibrator section will help you sort through your likes, needs and desires so you find the kind of vibe that's right for you. The only thing you'll have to do is pick out the one that looks the most appealing. Vibrators - Shopping Tips Picking out your first vibrator can be a blast! Looking through all the shiny, colorful and pretty toys. For me, it's a matter of saving my bank account and eliminating things I shouldn't be buying...and that's what I want the shopping experience to be for you. I want you to be excited about buying your first vibrator...or new vibrator. So here's some questions to ask yourself. What is the main area you want to stimulate? G-Spot Many women feel it's impossible to stimulate her g-spot by herself to orgasm. A vibrator can help here. If you want to stimulate your g-spot, you need a penetrative vibrator with a curved tip designed to reach the g-spot like the Silicone Slims G-Spot. Penetration Some women simply enjoy the feeling of being penetrated and having the feeling of fullness in their vagina. Something like the Penthouse Duets - Rhapsody II is a great first vibrator because it won't break your wallet and allows you to play with external clitoral stimulation by holding it against your clit and internal vibrators by sliding it into your vagina as well as providing a sleeve so you can also play with thickness for penetration. Clitoral Stimulation Some women can only achieve orgasm from clitoral stimulation (I'm one of those women. If youare too welcome to the group!). Electric vibrators like the Hitachi Magic Wand provide very intense vibrations with multiple speeds. The Hitachi Magic Wand is also rather quiet making a low humming sound. Another nice feature is it doesn't vibrate your hand off after long periods of use like some other vibes. Various attachments are available so can turn your external electric vibe into a wonderfully powerful penetrative toy. Egg Vibes like the I-Vibe Egg allows you to choose from very intense vibrating, pulsating, surging, escalating and roller coaster sensations, all in one little bullet vibe. This is a wonderful advancement in technology because it allows you to select what type of vibrations you want. If you don't want constant vibrations, than choose the pulsating feature, where it vibrates intermittently, giving you time to enjoy the vibrations without too much all at once. For something a little simpler, the Jelly Egg, it packs a lot of punch for a mini vibe. Maybe you want hands free clitoral stimulation, like the Micro Butterfly which straps around your waist, leaving your vagina totally accessible and providing very strong vibrations to your clitoris. This vibe has become very popular with women and men, because it's really tiny, really powerful and the new harness design leaves your vagina totally accessible making this strap-on vibe totally unobtrusive during intercourse. Vaginal and Clitoral Stimulation The most popular toys out there are the Multi-Purpose Vibrators, like the famous Jack Rabbit Vibrator as seen on HBO's "Sex and the City". These vibes have cleverly combined the vaginal and clitoral stimulator into one unit, so while you're experiencing that pleasurable feeling of fullness, you're also experiencing intense clitoral stimulation at the same time. They are the least amount of work as far as juggling toys for the greatest amount of pleasure. Some women say it's pleasure overload! Multi-Purpose vibes with pearls in the shaft are packed together in the shaft, so that when they spin they provide constant pressure around the vaginal opening. This is exquisitely pleasurable because the more aroused a woman becomes the looser her vagina gets. With the pearls in the shaft spinning they are providing constant pressure type stimulation around the vaginal opening. These vibes are definitely way above the rest! Do you want strong vibrations or more subdued vibrations? Most vibrators have an intensity control on them for you to adjust to your liking. But generally electric vibes, like the Hitachi Magic Wand, deliver the most intense vibrations because it's powered by 120 volts of electricity. The rechargeable also deliver a lot of intensity, but keep in mind, they will lose steam after prolonged use and will need to be recharged. Strong vibes, whether battery or electrical, can deliver such intense vibes that some women are unable to use them directly on their clit, it's just too powerful. But don't fret, if the vibrations from any vibe are too intense, according to Betty Dodson, the Mother of Masturbation, they can be subdued by placing a small towel or washcloth between you and the vibe. Do you want to take your vibrator on the road with you? Battery operated vibes are the most portable vibes available. Small Discreet Battery Vibes like the Twisted Hearts are rather quiet, portable and provide discreet clitoral stimulation. But if you must have the power from an Electrical Vibe, then you'll want to try a rechargeable version, but you'll need a large bag to take it along. Are you concerned about your neighbors hearing your vibrator? An electrical vibe, like the Hitachi Magic Wand tends to be the quietest during operation, making a low humming sound. As long as the battery vibe isn't made of hard plastic, they're usually pretty quiet too. If a vibe is powered by a Japanese motor, it tends to be very intense and very quiet. I have also found that vibes molded in the thicker material are quieter too, so there's not a loud banging of the motor or batteries. Are you concerned about people accidentally seeing your vibrator? What you have planned for later in your day or on your trip is your own private business. So if you're taking your vibe with you, a very discreet vibe would be the Hanky Pankey Kit. It doesn't look sexual in any way, but still packs quite a punch. If you want to be really discreet and clever, there's a new vibe available. If you want the ultimate in discreetness, the Flashlight Style Vibe is the way to go! Do you want to play in the water? Most vibes, unless they specifically say they're waterproof are in no way water friendly. You're talking electrical shock, motor shortening or burning out, battery pack corrosion and all kinds of nasty things that will make your vibe unusable. But the adult manufacturing industry has heard your pleas and offer a variety of water toys. Now you can really take your vibe anywhere! Are you unable to decide and want to try a few things at once? All this information is very overwhelming and you just can't make a decision. Don't fret, there's help for you. You can visit sex toy review sites that give you the low down on specific toys. My site AllSexReviews.com has a large selection of sex toy reviews that gets updated regularly, along with Freddy and Eddy. Whatever review sites you visit, just make sure they give you details and not just rehash the product description. Reputable online shopping sites like AllSexReviews.com allow customers to come back and give their thoughts on a toy. So you're getting info from fellow shoppers. You can also visit message boards like mine (shameless plug) AllSexReviews.com and ask the other members about their experiences and what toys they recommend. You're not alone in your search. But also realize that it's basically trial and error. I became so knowledgeable about toys because I've used so many over the years. I have a box full of toys that I don't use anymore because they were duds or just didn't suit my desires. Unfortunately, not every toy purchase will be a winner, but the more research you do, the better chance you'll have of buying something that you'll like. Is there something that I can use with my boyfriend that he'll enjoy too? If your boyfriend likes to see you getting off, any of these vibes will do. Some guys like to see their woman penetrated or like to penetrate them with a toy, it allows them to get that up close and personal view that they can't get when he is penetrating you himself. There is also a toy out there that both man and woman can get pleasure from simultaneously. The Diving Dolphin is a couple's intercourse toy that my boyfriend and I enjoy and have for years. It's a jelly cock ring with 2 bullet vibes attached to it. The cock ring acts as an erection enhancer and prolongs erection for the guy and the bullets, 1 on top and 1on bottom, deliver pleasant vibrations to the testicles and the clitoris. It's powered by a corded battery pack with two separate controls for each bullet vibe, so each partner can get the pleasurable amount of vibrations they desire. You've received a lot of information here. I hope you're ready to look further into your possibilities. Remember, there's lots of resources available to you and you don't have to decide right now. Even the cheapest and simplest of vibrators will bring you additional excitement. So go for it...don't break the bank, just get started. Vibrators - Why Use One? Vibrators are my favorite of all the sex toys! They're available in a variety of colors, styles, shapes and materials. You can have a different one for different days and different moods...I know I do. They range in price from really cheap to rather pricey, so whether you've got the bucks to spend or not, there's a still a vibe out there that you can get pleasure from. A vibrator has a reputation of being a woman's only toy, but that doesn't mean that men can't use it on a woman or with a woman. And you know what? Some men also find vibrators pleasurable for their own use. Let's explore: Women Clitoral Stimulation A vibrator is a great toy to use for clitoral stimulation. Some women can't achieve orgasm without clitoral stimulation (I'm one of those women) and most positions for vaginal intercourse do not provide adequate stimulation to the clitoris. Vibrators provide that constant, consistent stimulation that a hand or tongue may not be able to provide after long periods of time. Vibrators are known to bring about the most intense orgasms. Some women, depending on the type of vibrator used and the sensitivity of the woman, can bring a woman to orgasm in 60 seconds or less. That does happen to me. Talk about a quickie! Vaginal Stimulation A vibrator isn't only pleasurable on the clit. Feel free to move it around the entire vulva, taint and anus. Over the years, I have found that some days, direct clitoral stimulation is too much to handle. However, if I move the vibe down over my vaginal lips or even on my taint, I'm brought to a very strong orgasm. Our entire gental area is super sensitive to those luxurious vibrations. So don't hesitate to explore and move that vibe around a little. A Lover's Place Holder Some women also have long fuses, by this I mean that some women really need a lot of stimulation, for a long period of time before they can achieve orgasm. A vibrator is great because even after her partner climaxes and may need a period of rest, (don't worry it's okay to say you can't continue right away) the vibrator can keep going and keep stimulating her until her lover is ready to come back into the game or until she climaxes herself. There are many nights that my boyfriend climaxes first and I know he can't continue thrusting immediately, it's just not possible, many men need to recharge, and that's fine. In that case, we just grab a vibrator and he uses it one me. This keeps me stimulated while he recharges or brings me orgasm, finishing off our sexual play. It's actually heaven sent for some men. They don't have to worry about keeping an erection or ejaculating prematurely, just grab the vibe and continue the play. Multiple O' Generator Vibrator use has also helped some women achieve multiple orgasms. Women have been known to be able to have different orgasms from different types of stimulation and each one gives off a different sensation. While all orgasms originate in the clit, an oragasm from vaginal penetration/stimlation feels different from an orgasm from direct clitoral stimulation and an orgasm from anal stimulation. So when Betty Dodson, the Mother of Masturbation, says, "No two orgasms are alike," she's absolutely right. So if you have an orgasm from direct clitoral vibrations, then maybe you'll want to move the vibe down to your vagina and penetrate yourself with it...if it's a penetrative vibe. Your clit may be too sensitive for more direct stimulation but that doesn't mean that you have to be finished with sex. Some women also need more intense stimulation after their first orgasm and a vibrator can provide that intense pleasure to bring her over the edge again. Stimulation For Different Times In Life Some pregnant women find that a vibrator is great for sexual stimulation later on in their pregnancy. Just because they're pregnant, doesn't mean they don't want to be sexually pleasured. It has also been used to relieve pain, tension and soreness. As some women get older they experience a decrease in sensitivity in their genitals. Although this is a natural fact of life, it doesn't have to stop a woman from experiencing sexual pleasure. A vibrator can provide that more intense stimulation to bring an older woman to orgasm. Men Vibration Pleasures Vibrators can also help men achieve orgasm when held against their testicles or pressed up against their perineum. By applying vibrations to the perineum, you will be externally stimulating the prostate, which many men find pleasurable and even more men don't realize they like until they experience it. Pleasure For Two There are even vibrating toys out there that can provide pleasurable vibrations for both man and woman at the same time. The Diving Dolphin is our favorite toy. The jelly cock ring helps my boyfriend maintain a stronger, longer erection and the two bullet vibes provide separate testicular and clitoral stimulation. Sharing this type of stimulation provides a special kind of excitement that can bond couples even closer during lovemaking. A Soft O' Some men that have trouble becoming erect find that a vibrator can help them to achieve orgasm even though they're not erect. Safe Sex Using a vibrator alone is the safest form of sexual pleasure you can receive. Convinced yet? No? That's okay, lots of people have been conditioned into believing that sex toys of any type are bad or abnormal. So don't give up! Keep reading, there's still a lot more information for you to absorb and digest before making a final decision. There's lots of information within this site that can make your vibrator play more pleasurable, because adult toys don't come with instructions. Vibrators - Tips On Using This section is designed to give you some information for successful vibrator use because they don't come with instructions. Remember there is no right or wrong when it comes to using a vibrator. Just do what feels good. If you don't even know where to begin, then start here. You will notice that this section is written for solo play, that is the best way to learn about yourself and vibrator play. But if you would like to experiment with your partner, this article can be applied to you as well. Experimenting With Your Vibrator Alone Time To Play This is not something you can rush into so make sure you set aside a few hours or a whole evening, afternoon or even morning. Don't do this if you have to meet someone in an hour. Experienced vibrator users know what they like and can pleasure themselves quickly. They even like quickies, but for the first few pleasure sessions, you need the time to explore your body to find out what you like. And keep in mind that different moods may call for different types of stimulation, which is why it's good to own more then one vibe. I have at least ten myself. Relaxed And In The Mood To Play Try taking a nice warm bubble bath, set a warm comfortable atmosphere in the room that you'd like to do this in; light candles, play relaxing music. If the bathroom is the only place, then make sure you have a waterproof vibe so you can play in the tub. Read a dirty book, one of my favorites is Naughty Stories from A to Z, watch a dirty movie or just kick back and visualize yourself in your favorite fantasy. Once You Start To Play Explore all the different parts of your genitalial. Make sure you have a bottle of lubrication available and apply a generous amount to your genitals, toys, hands, fingers or whatever you'll be inserting or rubbing against your body. It causes less friction when any vibe is touching the genitals and it's absolutely necessary when penetrating vagina and anus. For Women Touch your clit with it, apply more pressure if you'd like. Rub it between your vaginal lips. Press it against your perineum (taint), the small area between your vagina and anus (I LOVE this!). Try holding it against your anus. If it's a penetrative vibe, insert it into your vagina. Wiggle it around in there, explore your vagina. Try different depths of penetration. Hold it just at the opening of the vagina. If there's a larger head at the tip of the vibrator, try very shallow penetrations with just the tip. If you have a g-spot vibe, experiment with twisting it around in your vagina to hit all the different spots. For Men Try running it down the shaft of your penis. Hold it against and between your testicles. Hold it up to your anus and press it against your perineum (taint). That will externally stimulate your prostate. If you have a cock ring, experiment with the different speeds. Stroke your penis and squeeze your testicles. If you normally masturbate, do it the way you usually do and see if the vibrations enhance it at all. If you're using a vibrating sleeve, make sure you use a good amount of lube so you don't rub yourself raw from thrusting in and out. Try Different Positions Lay on your back and hold the vibrator on your genitals or penetrate yourself while your on your back. Lay on the vibe, straddle the vibe. Put the vibe on your genitals and squeeze your thighs and butt cheeks together, then release. This causes quite an erotic buildup. Some women use this method to climax. It could be very powerful. You can lay still just holding it against your clit or you can move your hips sort of riding it. You Don't Have To Use On Your Genitals Only You can move the vibrator around to other parts of your body. Relax and breathe deeply. Concentrate on what you're feeling. The genitals aren't the only erogenous zones. This is also good to do, if you don't want to climax right away. Use Other Methods For Stimulation At The Same Time Use your hands, fingers or other toys to stimulate yourself. If you have an external vibe on your clit penetrate your vagina with your fingers. Rub your anus, stroke your penis, squeeze your nipples, rub your vaginal lips, squeeze your testicles. It's very enhancing to incorporate other forms of stimulation with a vibrator and it's a great way to get to know your sexual likes and dislikes. Remember, it's your body, you're in charge and experiment. It's not brain surgery, it's fun sexual play. Sometimes just moving your position or vibrator slightly, you'll find something that really feels good and gets you off. There's no right or wrong, there's just safe, sane and consensual and those take common sense and we all have that. Have fun! Vibrators - Common Misconceptions About Use I bet most of the things you've heard about vibrators and vibrator use is not true. Even though vibes have been a getting more attention lately, people still have issues with using them, so unfortunately, these myths and misconceptions still exist...but I'm here to eradicate them! I'll become addicted to it! You say that as if it's a bad thing...it's not...really! The purpose of any kind of sexual play is to give and/or receive sexual pleasure. If a vibrator is what stimulates you the best, it should be used regardless of whether you're engaging in self pleasure or partner play. There are so many different kinds of vibrators out there: battery, electric, strap-ons or cock rings with vibrators, that there's one to fulfill every one of your needs in all situations. So don't worry about it getting in the way of partner sex. Small discreet massagers like the Pocket Rocket work perfectly with partner sex. For hands free use, try a strap-on vibe like the Micro Butterfly. These vibes are attached to a thin harness that holds the vibe against the clit. With it being held against the clit, it in no way interferes in intercourse. My girlfriend won't want me anymore! Nothing can ever replace the love and affection of another human being. Never feel threatened by any toy that your lover wants to use. If it's something that he/she likes and using it is within your boundaries, embrace it. By using the vibrator with your girlfriend, you'll be respected more because you're fulfilling her desires. You'll be seen as a better lover for it. By feeling threatened and insecure, you'll only start building a wall between you and your girlfriend. Love is about compromising and understanding your lover's needs. A vibrator is only an enhancement to sexual play, it's not a substitute. So hear your partner out before dismissing the idea. By embracing this toy you'll be a more confident lover knowing that your satisfying your girlfriend and ultimately, you'll be more secure in your relationship because there's no reason for her to go anywhere else for satisfaction. A toy can be your best friend or your worst enemy. Think of it like this, if the toy is enjoyed that much and is that important and you shoot down the possibility of using it, who do you think is going to stay with her the longest, you or the toy? Don't panic, usually ultimatums aren't given over a toy, but I can assure you that it will still be used, so why not get in on the fun? I've heard that once women start to use a vibrator, they can't achieve an orgasm without one. I don't want to be caught in a rut like that. You will not need a vibrator all the time. But a vibrator is very pleasing to a lot of women because it provides that constant, consistent stimulation of the clitoris that some women need to achieve orgasm. You have control over your use of it. If you don't want to use it all the time, then don't. Leave it stored in your toy box or drawer periodically when you play. The fear of thinking you'll need it all the time, is part of the belief that using one is wrong in the first place. Do you have a favorite band? Do you have any of their songs on your player? Have you listened to those songs more then once? twice? five times? a dozen times? If you answered yes, then what's wrong with using your favorite toy more then once, twice or a dozen times? Absolutely nothing! Use your vibrator as much as you'd like. If you like it and it makes you feel good adding it to partner sex will make it feel even better, physically and emotionally. Physically, the pleasure of the vibrator is intensified when combined with your lover's physical affection and touch. Mentally, knowing that your lover has embraced this toy with you and wants you to feel the ultimate pleasure every time he/she is with you sexually can be very arousing. If your fear is of it getting in the way, there are a variety of different kinds of vibrators. The moral of the story, finding your vibrator very pleasurable and wanting to use it often is not wrong, nor does it make you a bad person! I'm very happy with the orgasms I have from intercourse alone. That is absolutely wonderful! You're one of very few. There are so many women out there that would love to be in your shoes. Some women have been having vaginal intercourse for years without ever really experiencing an orgasm. Vibrators provide that constant stimulation to the clit that a hand, tongue or intercourse can not adequately provide. The clit has 8,000 nerves in it. Just think of how a vibrator might intensify your already fulfilling orgasm. Using a vibrator means I'm inadequate or abnormal. Another big 'no' on this one. If you're concerned about your partner using a vibrator during sex or even for masturbation when you're not around, it just means that she likes the sensations it gives her. It doesn't have to mean that you don't give her enough of pleausure. Not at all. This your own insecurities taking over here. If you're concerned about being abnormal because you want to use a vibrator, don't...stop...right now. Did you know that the adult industry makes like 8 billion dollars a year. That number includes the sale of sex toys too. That's a lot of money, so a lot of people are using them. Vibrators are fun and they feel good and that's what sex is about, making yourself and your partner feel good! Constant use can cause loss of sensation down there. Actually, some women feel an increase in sensation by using vibrators because they learn about the different sensations that they like. By opening themselves up to different sensations, some women can achieve orgasm more easily. With the acceptance of such a toy, there's less anxiety during sexual play allowing one to relax and enjoy the experience more. Usually the desensitizing that is experienced is after using a very powerful vibe, but after a few minutes all sensitivity will be fully restored. If you're still concerned, stop using your vibe for awhile to retrain your body to enjoy other types of stimulation as well. Either way, loss of sensation is not gone forever, your body will acclimate to what it's given. I used a vibe and it just numbs me. There's more information in my (Tips on Use Article), but my quick answer would be that it was probably a very high powered vibe or your genitals are very sensitive. There is an easy solution, thanks to Betty Dodson, the Mother of Masturbation. Place a towel between your genitals and vibrator or place your hand between genitals and vibrator. The towel or your hand will absorb the vibrations causing them to be less intense and hopefully more enjoyable for you. If you're using an electrical vibe, maybe you should try a battery vibe, in which you have quite a range of control over the vibrations in order to make the vibrations less intense. So stop worrying and get vibing! There's nothing wrong with using a vibrator if it feels good and if all partners are consenting to its use. Want to chat about your concerns or experiences? We have a great group of members over at AllSexReviews.com that are willing to hear you out and share their stories. Vibrator - Accessories The following can spice up your already way cool vibrator. These items aren't necessary, but hey, we women tend to accessorize everything else we use, why not our sex toys? Vibrator Sleeves If you have a slimline vibe, you can spice it up with vibrator sleeves. They're made of many different materials and come with a variety of textures: ribbed, with nubs, with prickles, with anal attachments, phallic and phallic with testicles. Sleeves make your vibrator more versatile, providing you with different sensations. They are a less expensive way to try different types of stimulation. Extensions If you have a short slimline vibe and would like to make it longer, these sleeves will help. They are also made out of many materials: jelly, cyberskin, silicone and technoskin. Lubrication Lubrication is a necessity more than it is an accessory, especially when your vibe is a penetrative vibrator. As long as you use a water based or silicone based lube, you'll be okay (See my article on personal lubricants). Oil based lubes will eat away at latex and some silicone products. So if you're using a condom or latex toy, it will be ruined. Silicone lube will also destroy silicone toys. Lube is vital for all penetrative vibes. The easier it can slide in and out, the more pleasure you will receive. The jelly and cyberskin vibes and most cock rings absolutely need lube! If you're using your vibrator in conjunction with oral sex, you might want to try a<b> flavored lube. </font></b>Regular lube, just doesn't taste good. Wet makes a<b> flavored lube </font></b>that tastes rather yummy! Vibrators For Men The most popular misconception about vibrating toys is that they are for women only. That's simply not true. Men can also enjoy vibrations on his genitals. The following are vibrating toys made for male pleasure. Some can be used alone or with a partner. Vibrating Cock Rings Some men find cock rings to be an invaluable tool when having sex. The cock ring fits snugly around the base of the penis and scrotum restricting blood flow out of the penis. This results in a stronger and longer lasting erection. It also results in a more intense orgasm for men. Since vibrations can enhance masturbation or intercourse it's no wonder that they combined the cock ring and the vibrator. Available in a variety of materials, they come with a bullet vibe attached at one or both ends. A cock ring with 1 bullet vibe, like the Crave Vibrating Ring, on the underside can deliver stimulating vibrations to the testicles. Some men find this very arousing. This kind of combination cock ring/vibrator(s), like the Diving Dolphin, also enhances intercourse with a female partner. You'll get the benefits of a prolonged erection and intense orgasm while she benefits from the vibrations against her clitoris. To receive constant vibrations to the clit, the woman on top position is best because she can bump and grind against you getting the vibrations she needs. Man on Top position generally provides intermittant vibrations. She feels them only when you thrust in. But moving around just a little can change any position enough for your woman to get the vibrations she desires. Vibrating Sleeves/Pocket Pussies/Masturbators These sleeves, made of vinyl, jelly, cyberskin, technoskin, latex and many other materials, have been developed to enhance masturbation. The penis slides in and out of the sleeve, simulating penetration of a vagina, anus or mouth. They come in a variety of colors, styles and some even have fruity scents. Some look like a tube, others like lips, vagina, anus and some are nondescript with a bullet that slides into one end. A man can either thrust in and out of it or just slide his penis in and let the vibrations do the rest. The key to its pleasure is that the canal is lined with ribs and as your penis slides in and out the ribs create a sucking sensation, so make sure it has ribs in it like the Adam & Eve 5X Solo Slider. These wonderful jelly toys are also available in a non vibrating version and are extremely pleasurable as well. I recommend the Adam & Eve 2-Tone P*ssy. It has the all important ribs/ridges to create that oh so heavenly suction. Vibrating Pumps Men can also experience the combination of vibrators and pumps. Pumps create a pleasurable sucking sensation for men that help to pull blood into the penis, engorging it and making it temporarily thicker. You can get a pump with a bullet vibe, like the Power Pump, to enhance the the sensations. Usually the bullet vibe is a separate addition that you add if you want, they're not always a permanent, necessary part of the unit. Some pumps like the Cyber Cyclone Pump, come with separate jelly, vinyl or cyberskin sleeves that you can slide into the pump for additional penetration or oral simulation. Vibrating Vaginas, Anuses and Lips Made out of various materials and usually molded form a woman's genitals, these products give you the best part of the person without the whole body. The vibrating bullet can be located in the center of the Vagina or Anus to bring some life and suction to the genitalia. It can also be located at the opposite end of the toy that you penetrate. Now, you can have sex with Marey Carey, Kirsten Price, and Jessica Drake. Vibrating Butt Plugs This has to be one of the greatest toys for men and women. The anus and rectum have so many sensitive nerve endings that adding a vibrating butt plug can be an orgasmic addition to sex and masturbation. Not only will the vibrations be arousing, but a butt plug also stimulates the prostate. This is basically a butt plug with a bullet vibe in it. The vibe can be cordless with no separate controller, like the Tantus Zing, or come with cord and separate controller, like the Rump Shakers. If it has a separate controller, you'll have more control over the intensity of vibrations. For more information about butt plugs and anal toys please see the anal toys section. Love Machine This ingenious toy is making hands free masturbation more affordable. This small unit comes with 5 different attachments, including a masturbation sleeve that provides hand-free stimulation. It's still quite expensive at $521.00, but new developments in technology will soon make them even more affordable. So as you can see, vibrators are not just for the ladies. Guys can receive just as much pleasure from them, if not more. Vibrators - Common Questions About Vibrators are definitely getting more positive media attention these days, but people still have questions and concerns about them. If you're one of those people...Welcome! This section is definitely for you and chances are, the answer you seek is below. When I use my vibrator I climax very quickly, but I'd like to enjoy it a little longer. This can most definitely happen depending on the type of vibrator used and the person using it. It happens to me as well. Some women are more sensitive than others, just like some vibrators are stronger than others, especially electrical vibes, like the Hitachi Magic Wand. Most women can't use it on the high setting. The feeling is so intense that orgasm is achieved almost immediately. I timed it once and I was able to reach orgasm in as little as 23 seconds! Many Multi-Purpose Vibes like the I-Vibe Rabbit Vibrator, have a whole lot going on at once. Think of it like this, now you know you can give yourself a very satisfying quickie when you're in the mood. Next time, what you might want to do is use the vibrator on less sensitive areas of your genitals. Instead of going right for the clit, move it around on your vaginal lips, mons, anus and nipples. Use it intermittently on your genitals. Move it around to other parts of your body too, that will give your brain time to register the sensations but not overload yourself so you climax right away. Over the years, I have found that holding my Hitachi Magic Wand against my taint area is extremely pleasurable. I last much longer and my orgasm feels more intense, more full bodied. Another method to last longer is that you can try turning down the speed or intensity. Sometimes the highest setting is good for a quickie but not for those more laid back events. If the low setting is still too intense, try placing a small hand towel between your genitals and the vibrator. According to Betty Dodson, the Mother of Masturbation, the towel will absorb most of the vibrations, making them less intense before they reach your genitals. This does work, I know from experience. When using the Hitachi Magic Wand, I can climax in less than a minute. It's a great quickie when I need it. You can also stimulate yourself with your own hands or penetrate yourself with a dildo and use the vibrator at the end to finish yourself off. While using a vibrator, sometimes I feel like I'm struggling to have an orgasm. There are a couple of reasons for this, but don't fret, you can achieve orgasm every time you use a vibrator. If you're using a really strong vibe, your genitals might be getting a little numb. I have experienced this myself too. You're not losing your sensitivity forever, you're just getting a little numb for the moment. I would suggest that you put the vibe on it's lower setting or use the vibe on other areas of your genitals and body. If that doesn't help, you should shut the vibrator off completely and spend a few sessions without the vibe, getting to know your body again. You're not sexually broken, but chances are you've become extremely accustomed to the vibrator. When you're not using it, you'll learn about other sensitive places on your body. Don't worry sensitivity will return, you just have retrain yourself to enjoy less intense forms of stimulation. If you're using a weak battery vibrator, you may need more intense vibrations. Sometimes a battery vibe is just not in sync with your body's rhythms. I had this trouble one night myself. I was using a battery vibe and it was getting me so close to climaxing, but I just wasn't getting over the edge. I struggled for a while and just before I was ready to give up, I grabbed my Hitachi Magic Wand and my frustration was over. So you may need the intense vibes that a stronger vibrator provides. Have a couple of different vibrators handy. Different days mean different moods and different moods may call for different types of pleasure. When you engage in sexual play with your lover, do you always do it the same exact way every time? I doubt it. That's why you need to have different vibes to choose from. If one isn't doing it for you that day, don't panic, don't get frustrated just grab another one. I bought a Jack Rabbit Vibrator about 4 or 5 months ago. I use it often, but now the penis part only swivels intermittently. Is there any warranty on this item? Most novelty products, that's what they're called legally, have no real warranty. These toys are not made to last forever. And because it's a penetrative toy, you can not return them for health reasons. Usually there's a warranty on the brand-name massagers. The Japanese made vibrators, like the Rabbit Pearl, tend to last a lot longer due to being a better quality vibrator. A good way to learn about what vibrators people are having good experiences with and which ones they're not is too look for quality websites that have this sort of thing. There are different sex toy review sites like mine, AllSexReviews.com that give you the low down on the vibes. Just make sure that the reviewer is actually giving you information and not just rehashing the description. There are also great sex toy websites that allow customers to submit their comments with toys, like our friends at AllSexReviews.com that should be helpful as well. And then there's different message boards where members post their thoughts, like AllSexReviews.com So there's lots of places to get information before you buy. Is it safe to use my vibrator with another woman? Yes it is. The safest way to play with another woman is to put a condom on your vibe, especially if it's a penetrative one. Make sure you apply a new condom before a new person uses it. If your lover really likes that particular vibe, save the hassle and get her one of her own. Just make sure you label them so you can tell them apart. If you won't be sharing your vibe during the same play session, then make sure you clean it after you play. See my sex toy care article for the down low on that. My vibrator is very loud. It sounds like the battery is rattling around inside and it's very annoying. Is there anything I can do to silence it? Well, that's exactly what's happening. This usually happens with cheap, hard, plastic Slimline Vibes, like the Hot Pink Leopard Vibe, because they're made of hard plastic and there's no insulation to stop the battery from vibrating against the hard plastic casing. So here's what you can try...Wrap a few pieces of paper around the batteries to take up the extra space. It won't silence it completely, but it should get rid of that loud knocking sound. I just bought a body massager and in the instructions it says do not use on genitals and on areas where I have pain, what's this about? First of all, companies put the genital warning on their packaging to be politically correct, since it's still taboo to use for sexual pleasure. The pain warning is to avoid breaking a blood clot which could travel to the lungs or brain, causing serious damage or even death. Do the cyberskin vibrators really feel like real skin? Yes, they are the closest material to skin as we can get right now. Not only does it feel frighteningly real, it feels really good too! They're not easiest toys to clean though, please see my sex toy care article for full details. These are the most common questions I get about vibrators. There is one more important one that's not answered here...how to incorporate the vibrator into partner sex. Since that answer is not quite as simple to answer as the ones here, I dedicated an entire article to it. Feel free to visit How to Introduce my Sex Toy to my Lover. LOVE U ALL.  |
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