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Embarassing hook ups?  

xdraconusde 51M
5 posts
8/28/2009 5:24 pm
Embarassing hook ups?


I was told something today, by a couple of different people, and the stories were close enough for me to believe the hub of the tale, and I'd like to relate it to you.

Firstly, to avoid abuse and confusion the last time I mentioned sexuality, I am not gay. I have never been gay, and I cant see me ever being that way.

BUT....

I have ALOT of gay friends. When it comes down to it, I couldn't give a shit who you sleep with at the end of the night, it has fuck all to do with me, and it has nothing to do with what I think about you. If I think your a twat, it's because your a Twat, not because of your sexuality. (the person I mean Knows just who I mean).....

Anyways...onto the tale...

One of my closest friends has been in a relationship for about 4 years, and is, not to put too fine a point on it, looking for a night of dirty lovin. He love's his boyfriend, he doesn't want to end it, he just wants a one night stand (his words, not mine).

So he joins an online dating site, this online dateing site. And he joins some local groups, and starts chatting to someone, and after a few weeks he has got to the point of arranging a meet. His boyfriends away at a works do, he's all alone, so he makes the arrangements. He's never seen the guy, only his online pics, and the guys never met him. But there both local, and they agree on a place.

So comes the big night....

He goes to the bar they arranged to meet, and unfortunatley for him, it's the same bar that his BF's works do is taking place. Many quick thinking thoughts, and he's explaining how he decided to surprise his BF etc etc etc. He gets away with it.

Here is where it gets funny (I think). When he talks next to his prospective one nighter, the stories are somewhat similar. He got there, only his BF was in the same pub, and his potential one nighter had not gone ahead cos he was waiting at the bar, and his BF turned up....anyone else noticing the plot line.....

So I was wondering, has anyone else ever had a meet with someone, only for it to turn out to be someone you know.....or have you met anyone and they are 100% different to the pictures on their profile.....

It's ok to fall 7 times, as long as you stand up 8


OhBabyYeasss 67F

8/28/2009 5:49 pm

how uncanny is that!!! they were both wanting and planning the very same thing!! a little communication goes a long way... they could have been enjoying a third party amongst the themselves.

time to rethink this arrangement.


Esme47 61F

8/28/2009 10:25 pm

What happened to honesty and communication in a relationship. IF it is the couple in question what wants to meet other people without each other ... then they are obviously not THAT happy with each other!

Time for them to move on, I reckon.

Words without ideas is like sails withoout wind


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