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Blogs > brwn_eyed_grl2 > But this one goes to 11...

What a Brwn Wants, What a Brwn Needs...  

brwn_eyed_grl2 34F
61 posts
8/31/2016 8:23 pm
What a Brwn Wants, What a Brwn Needs...

So it's not a secret that some people who have to have a lot of control in their everyday lives could possibly enjoy losing some of that control in and out of the bedroom. I'm not special, I can definitely be one of those people.

I am, in real life and when it comes to sex, a notoriously impatient person. When it comes to people, or my orgasms, I know what I want and I want it NOW.

But that's not always what I need. I have a job that is very stressful and I have to be in control of a lot of different variables all the time. I can sometimes be a little bossy and as a general rule, I tend to overthink.

Sometimes what I really NEED is for someone to help me shut off my brain, to give me something to focus on and feel something other than the events of the day that are generally on my mind from sun up to sun down.

Sometimes what I really need is for someone to take control, to tell me what to do because they know it's going to make me feel good. To make me focus, not on my work or my life, but on the feel of hands on my body, their voice in my ear coaxing me closer and closer to completely letting go.

And then there are times where I just need to talk about nothing and about everything. To do something mindless and silly, like, watch cartoons at midnight on a work night before I'm sent to bed with a smile on my face. That can be just as satisfying for me.

It's pretty great when you find both of those things in one person. It's even better when you find those things in one person that you genuinely, kind of, really like.

genghiskhan1985 39M
23 posts
8/31/2016 9:04 pm

 I found that with myself.
I am my own better half.

Easier that way


brwn_eyed_grl2 replies on 8/31/2016 9:17 pm:
Sometimes. I haven't seen you in awhile, hope you're well.

CeriosEros 39M
642 posts
8/31/2016 11:52 pm

 That seems like a dream relationship. I wish I could find someone that I could explore my dominant BDSM impulses with, talk about politics and cats then watch steven universe with but sadly there's no one out there like that for me.


brwn_eyed_grl2 replies on 9/1/2016 5:33 pm:
Nice to meet you Cerios. I'm not really interested in a BDSM lifestyle or relationship but definitely respect those who are interested in finding such a thing. I hope you find what you're looking for! Talking about cats is always a good time!

Mr_CN 58M
5 posts
9/1/2016 10:17 am

 I find that's a common situation. Women with responsibility in everyday lives often like to sub in private so they don't have to make decisions or think about anything. You describe it perfectly.

It may be the same for men, but I don't actually care that much about the men.


brwn_eyed_grl2 replies on 9/1/2016 5:28 pm:
It's not even exactly being a sub. I mean, I've never really been a sub but sometimes it's nice for someone to just...tell me what to do haha

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