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Blogs > 13hammertyme69 > Always look on the bright side

Will the hurting ever end.  

13hammertyme69 59F
104 posts
3/1/2011 5:15 pm
Will the hurting ever end.
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musicman4u42 73M
4 posts
3/2/2011 8:25 pm

 I really can't say; I haven't had to deal with that. But my guess is that it won't really end, but at some point the edge will wear off and it will change from a sharp pain to just a nagging sort of pain. Unfortunately, that's the way some things in life work.


resant78 45M  
3326 posts
3/3/2011 8:28 pm

 eventually the hurting will end, at least I hope it stops hurting sooner for you.

take it one day at a time, and as your blog is titled, "always look on the bright side"

take care hammertyme


13hammertyme69 59F
95 posts
3/4/2011 4:52 pm

 My husband and I were not swingers, we were both cheated on by our prior spouses and discussed it a lot over the years we were together, he always told me he would leave me if I ever cheated on him.

I think this last person hurt the most because he is like a father to me, I grew up without a father and he and his brother were the men who raised me. I think that's why it hurt worse than some random friends.


13hammertyme69 59F
95 posts
3/8/2011 5:59 pm

 jimz43, I thought I had moved on, I have been able to deal with the other person in the relationship, I see her quite a lot. It was just my godfather bringing it up brought it all back to the front.


beebopp 67M
297 posts
3/12/2011 10:21 am

 Let me talk about the last part of This blog.
If everyone knew about it, you should of too. Your talking about the vanilla world. If your turning a blinds eye to your husbands affair, they did too.
It's not easy to talk about, especially, if they are your friends. Most would not approve, if not all of them. If you asked them why, it sounds like their answer would be, I thought you knew. Someone else must of told you. They didn't want to add to the drama.
Your husband was an ass! The double standard, I can do it and you can't makes him a double ASS!
I see you as too trusting, this makes you a good person. You believed in your relationship, with your hole heart.
It sounds like you have some Very good friends. Even with something they didn't condone, they stayed your friends.
Put this behind you. You still have your friends. They believe in you and are still there for you. They believe in you, Believe in them. They didn't Try to hurt you, believe that!
. B Bopp


Meandmrsjones77 59M
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52 posts
3/13/2011 12:28 pm

 If he spoke of leaving you for cheating then cheated. I agree he was a double ass. You deserve better and am glad you are now allowing yourself to get it.


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