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Pathetic?  

cynder75 48F
39 posts
10/21/2010 12:00 am
Pathetic?


I was wondering if any other women on the site have encountered this........You find a man that fulfills everyone of your needs emotionally, sexually.....etc only problem is hes lives thousands of miles away.

When he doesn't show up u pine after him......when he does and plays with another u seethe with jealous rage ( for the record I have never been the jealous type...here however I have become very possessive).

How do you deal with this? I for one don't think I could deal with a broken heart......thats just me.

Any and all opinions are welcome.

UpForFun94526 41M

10/21/2010 12:41 am

Cynder, you are in a very tight spot. I feel jealousy towards my wife about being around other guys if I am ignored. So mostly i dont get jealous. it is still an adjustment for us both but I am sure we can work through it. It will just take some time

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rm_bengl66 63M
7288 posts
10/21/2010 5:32 am

hello
welcome here to blogland and I hope you have fun




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horny196364 60M

10/21/2010 5:33 am

love to chat with you sometime


SilkyLove2010 51M

10/25/2010 12:38 am

Cynder I know exactly where you are coming from when I met you some months ago in the summer I was intrigued by you, You are really such a character, and I mean in a really good way. I also notice you are a sweet heart too.
But back to my point, that was one of my recent poll question, how do you deal with someone you have met and they just do it for you. And, I mean in everyway. I have been upfront with the person, have you done the same. Because they may feel the same as you do, but don't know what you are feeling. Keeping it real, the whole time you are longing to be with this person, you meet someone else that trigger feeling. So, I say be upfront with the person.

Sometimes men are idiots I know I am one of them, we often mean well but really don't know how to go about, expressing the way we truly feel, so you got to help us. Sometimes we are just so damn excited that you even showed us attention and then to actually feel something WOW. Because if we are on here it because we are not getting what we really want. So I say, tell them. you may find them feeling you on a whole different level. And some mutual agreement can be done.

I can tell you this much, finding out a person is miles away is hard on you, literally hard on you.

Silkylove


muffman27 44M
59 posts
11/5/2010 2:37 pm

just to add my 2 cents in here, there are always those we feel attached to here. sometimes we feel more of a connection than the one we are talking to does. doesn't make it a bad thing nor make us at all pathetic. what it does show(imo) is that we do care for others and we all deserve to be cared about. will our hearts be broken?... my experience is yep it will break but we pick up the pieces and we grow we make our friends and we move on to someone who isn't all talk or show but to those that are sincere and honest in who they are and what they say


aicahart 53M

11/23/2010 8:05 am

Well, despite all the comments I read from all of you I think the real question it always will be... What are we all doing here in first place?
I mean speaking in my case for example. It supposed that I have to full fill all my sexual needs with my wife a long with some other things. Way am I doing here then?
So I think the real question is. All the people who are here in this site are looking for something that couldn’t find in there’s marriages. It is wrong got married?


aicaharthot 53M

1/3/2011 2:00 pm

Well I do know what you mean it happens to me all the time especially in site like this all do I don’t travel to meet them but certainly I wish I could do it. Never the less we have to remember this kind of sex web sites only manner to take people money off I don’t think it really works to have someone laid at list I can’t got laid with no body yet and I think I never will.

Anyway I tell you what way you add me to your MSN and talk about it any time you want please add aicahart of hotmail.com. Thanks.


69milhaus69 49M

1/15/2011 1:47 am

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rm_facechaise 65M
5 posts
2/2/2011 4:30 pm

How cool to read this blog at this moment in my life. I really started to think I was some pathetic loser. What I really want to know now is, even though the friendship remains and each ones lives are picked up and continued with, does the hurt of a broken heart ever go away?


rm_facechaise 65M
5 posts
2/2/2011 4:31 pm

What does become of the broken heart?


h_amable77 70M
43 posts
8/11/2012 4:32 pm

Cynder
El hombre o mujer ideal siempre, siempre es el alma gemela porque....
al principio de conocernos...es una entrega que nuestro corazón siente que es el adecuado para nosotros pero al apso del tiempo salen los detalles, porque defectos todos tenemos y cuando se van conociendo entre ambos, son parte de la manera de ser, pero cuando no gustan, son parte de un reclamo que se haraé en algún instante cuando ella sienta que nos cumples sus espectativas, entonces que sucede? se desmorona ese catillo que creció que se formó.
No todos ni todas somos moneditas de ORO lo sabemos pero cuando el EGO de ambos no le gane al AMOR, siempre el hombre o mujer que llega a nuestras vidas es el ideal.
saludos


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