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Father's day sex
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Father's day sex She does it once every few months, and yesterday was one of those days. My wife told me yesterday morning she would be interested in having sex tonight, part of my Father's day present I guess. This is the only time we ever have sex, when she tells me she is interested. If I ever make any advances, try to be spontaneous, etc. it's always one excuse or another, and it never happens. This time however, she tells me I can "have" whatever I want. Last night we start with the kissing and cuddling. She seems to be into it more than normal. Her kissing is more passionate than usual, but still no tongue. She's also totally naked, sometimes she just lifts up her night gown and won't take it off. Based on her statement about having whatever I want I thought I would "push the envelope" so to speak. As I'm massaging her body and flicking her erect nipple with my tongue I'm getting ready to work my way down between her legs and start giving her oral. Receiving oral is something she normally feels funny about and doesn't want me to do, but she said "whatever I want". On the rare occasions I do get to perform oral on her she has a hard orgasm, and I enjoy it as well. Then it happens, she farts. She apologizes, but that's far from the first time it's happened while we're trying to be romantic. Needless to say, that squashes any attempt on my part for oral. No "pushing the envelope" tonight I guess. I get out the lube and rub her clit like I usually do to make her cum. While I stroke her clit I'm working her tits and the rest of her body with my other hand and using my mouth to suck her tits and nibble on her neck, ears, and lips. Her whole body shakes and she lets out a loud moan as she cums. After she cums she takes the lube lathers some on my cock and starts stroking me. I don't ask her to suck my cock any more because I know she doesn't like to do it, and she never learned to get her teeth out of the way (ouch). So she's sitting up, giving me a handjob and talking to me like she's folding laundry or something. Asking me if I'm going to be busy at work this week, if I remembered to take out the garbage, stuff like that. Real romantic, really turning me on LOL - Not. It would be nice if she would kiss me, use her other hand to massage me, or show some type of romantic, sexual interest while she's doing this. So after a few minutes she is losing what little interest she has in stroking my cock. That's my queue that I had better make a move before she's done altogether. I lay her on her back and take her missionary. As usual, she just pretty much just lays there as I pump away. Getting a little tired of no response we switch positions and she's now riding me. This she gets a lot more into and really grinds into me to stimulate her clit. I'm thrusting into her hard at the same time. Shortly she cums again. Then it's back to her not doing much at all. Several more minutes of me thrusting hard into her my legs and back beginning to tire as I'm supporting most of her body weight. We switch back to missionary (she only likes missionary and cowgirl) and then it's not long before I finally shoot my load. After I cum she hops up and goes into the bathroom to clean up. When she comes back she throws on her nightie, crawls into bed, and watches TV. No pillow talk. No interest in cuddling afterward. No interest in another round. Nothing. That's it, we're done. She's performed her obligatory wifely duty for another few months. Not interested in experimenting in other positions, locations in the house (when the are gone of course, LOL ), no oral, etc. The last time I tried multiple different positions with her she laughed when we were done saying "Wow, you really got into it". It really hurt because I knew she wasn't. Not exactly the response you want from your lover. There you have it. This is what my sex life has consisted of for the most part for the last 20+ years in a nutshell. It's pretty much that exact scenario every time. When we were dating and for the first few years of our marriage she was sex fiend, couldn't get enough. Now she is the exact opposite. |
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I can say I never had this problem when I was married. My husband and I had sex a lot. More than some of our friends did back then. I did go through a period with my ex finance that I did not want it. I think it was because there were no passion during sex and no cuddling and so forth afterwards. I am one who enjoys all of it and if I am not getting it you can believe I will be out looking for someone who is into all of it like me. The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness. 
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I am sorry we need to switch partners. He is like her in many aspects but not all. I love being open to idea cuddling after sex, kissing, touching and exploring. NO I wont let him climax in my mouth but i love sucking his thick hard dick. You seem very caring and thoughtful.  I wouldn't care about not being able to climax in my lover's mouth. Everything else you described is what I am craving.
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I am sorry we need to switch partners. He is like her in many aspects but not all. I love being open to idea cuddling after sex, kissing, touching and exploring. NO I wont let him climax in my mouth but i love sucking his thick hard dick. You seem very caring and thoughtful. someonespecial_68 Dawnadoll
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I know what you're talking about as well, from the opposite perspective. We share the bed...to sleep. I don't offer, he doesn't ask. And, when you do meet someone, you'll be just fine! Thanks for the words of encouragement.
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I know what you're talking about as well, from the opposite perspective. We share the bed...to sleep. I don't offer, he doesn't ask. And, when you do meet someone, you'll be just fine!
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Not good, not good at all. 
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Not good, not good at all.
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LOL! Thanks. I'm dreaming all the time.
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i really do feel for u love, its similar here other half never really interested and when he is its always the same and over rather quick!! big hugs xoxoxoxo I'm a little concerned that if I find another lover will I be any good? I've certainly fantasized enough about what other things I would like to do and how it would be to be with a passionate lover, but I'm woefully out of practice. LOL
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Thank you. I'm sorry you can identify too.
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Talking about the day to day stuff is much better than some of things over the years. One time she started singing to me, that was pretty weird. I asked her to stop. Fortunately she's never tried that again. Another time she actually started recounting all of the times I'd screwed up, or pissed her off. As you can imagine this pissed me off. I asked her if she was into a new kind of kink and if she was actually getting pleasure by doing it. She looked at me dumbfounded like she had no clue why I was angry. Needless to say we never had sex that night. I'm sorry that you can relate to the rest. Sounds like you're moving on in a good way. Best of luck. I'm not ready to do that yet because, as odd as it may sound, in every other way she is a wonderful wife and we work well together.
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i really do feel for u love, its similar here other half never really interested and when he is its always the same and over rather quick!! big hugs xoxoxoxo Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!  come visit my blog bettiebear Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.     
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