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Is foreplay a lost art?
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Is foreplay a lost art? I've been reading and commenting on a lot of blogs again lately. One common theme I'm seeing is women complaining about a lack of foreplay. The typical scenario goes something like this... A little kissing, a little breast massage,sucking, a little oral, then on to the main event. The whole thing is over in less then 15 minutes. I'm floored by this. 15 minutes is not nearly enough time to properly explore a woman's body, and to have her explore yours. I can spend much more than 15 minutes just pleasing her orally if she can take it that long. I also like to explore her entire body and find the other unique spots that turn her on whether it be her ears, neck, feet, etc. That's why I think it is more art than science. Getting a woman properly aroused/ready is different based on the woman, and based on the mood. I want my partner to orgasm at least once before we move to penetration. Unfortunately I think a lot of guys think if they have a big enough dick just ramming it in is going to please her. Then there is the whole "after glow" period. After I've cum I want more kissing, cuddling, massaging, etc. with my lover. Sex to me is more than just the act itself. It's about having a close connection with someone. What are your thoughts on/experiences with foreplay? |
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LadyGrayLeopard, I've never thought of it that way before, but I think you're exactly right. It is ALL PLAY.
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In my life there's no foreplay... It's ALL PLAY  Cannot say which part would be foreplay as it goes on and on, never the same routine or order of things, just mutual pleasure of exploring the body. If it goes to strict foreplay - action - some cooling down, I'm done with that man... Only universal or also in Scotland Where to start my day or is it month Of course I39ll change I39ll do whatever you like Heatseeking missiles  Squirter's life
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I agree it seem to be a forgotten thing. I also agree it should not be. Kissing and sucking on my neck and breast does so much for me. I have actually climaxed with just that. Then I get a tingling feeling through my body and my feet get hot. but when it is only a minute then moved on to penetration I usually don't even climax. That and i spend more time touching and kissing and sucking him. it should be by both not just one sided. I although have to take his hard on when I can get it, because of health reasons. but I would enjoy more time. someonespecial_68 Dawnadoll
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Yes I think it is sometimes folks are just too busy to think about foreplay. This quickie thing is all they have time for. I think for most women it is a must to get them going. It makes sex so much more enjoyable. For the guys who skip the foreplay they are missing out on a lot of things in life. Feeling his lips and sensual touch gets me going all the time. hugs V  Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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I think one of the more vanilla magazines did a huge sex survey that stated that the average time spent in coitus was something like 9 minutes. That's hardly worth the effort, is it? It's no wonder couples lose interest in sex so quickly! The best lovers I've had in my life are those who truly believe that spending a lot of time in bed indulging and focusing on each other. Sadly, though, the majority of men I've known sexually seem to think that if the woman can't orgasm in ten minutes or less, then it's a no go for the woman and a "freebie" get-off for the man.
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