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Are We Fucking or are we Dateing
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Are We Fucking or are we Dateing For everybody, when you meet somebody on here what are your intentions. I mean we all want to make love, fuck, screw, hump, bang, poke, what ever you call it. But does anybody come on here to find a real relationship. And if you do, do you have that thought in the back of your mind that the person you met might still be meeting others on here. On a site like this, could there be a monogamist relationship. One where only play time is two together while a third joins in. No separation of spouses. Or how about meeting that one....and just walking away together. hey I'm just asking here. ' I have always wondered how true people are. I have to admit it all sounds like a big fuck fest. However, some might not like the opposite sex being with their lover. I'm not sure if I could really handle a man inside my woman { if I had a woman lol } What about you ladies,. Tell me. Deep down what is it like to see another woman ride the the man you love with ever ounce of your being. I have to say, for myself, If I meet a lady I hope I could give her all she could handle and then some. I know...variety right. But then are you really ready for a relationship then. This enquiring mind really needs to know. Please tell me your thoughts.  |
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These are good answers. I was dating my queen, she proved untrustworthy  but one this is, if we could have found anther woman as she is bi we were going to have a threesome. She was fine with it. I was even willing to let a T-girl do her because she would be a woman with just a mans dick. that seemed a little different. . But for me that's were I had to draw the line. I really thought about it and I could never let another man stick his dick in my woman. It would just feel bad and not sit well with me. Am I a hypocrite for that.
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Yes well she wound up hurting me anyways. Betrayal is a bitch. and that one slapped me hard. 10 days before Christmas to. Oh well. Maybe I'll just call 1-boo dial a wife. lol Have to get the mind of the blues anyways....thats why I have found I like to write. Never know, maybe one day it might make me $5.00 lol
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I am now, I'm solid. I work at a job and career I love. I make great cash, I have nice things and soon another one will come along. Funny thing is I tell people where I work in the course of my job to protect yourself, always watch your back...Shit, think I would take my own advice. I sure will next one.
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Oh Ill never live with anybody again. been there did that got burned never again. well nothing's ever written in stone, But she better be fricken amazing and hold true to old school values of a relationship. Truth, loyalty, dedication, love, new ever betray and Right or Wrong never appose your lover in public, behind the scenes in private ya voice your concerns load and clear. But in public a coupe has to have each others back 100% of the time no matter what. If not, whats the point. they are just roommates you can fuck. I'm hoping for something better. And now I think I am going to be picky.
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But does anybody come on here to find a real relationship. .... If they do, they are not thinking this through. This is a sex site. Twenty guys to one woman. Attention from men is a serious drug for these women. A guy gets attention from one woman, he could just as easily think if he stays on here, he can find other women, if he can get one, he can get two, and so on, he thinks. Then the excuse becomes, "I have friends on here", so soon they are both fucking around, back on here. do you have that thought in the back of your mind that the person you met might still be meeting others on here. .... No, because I'm not on a sex site looking for a relationship. That would be stupid. On a site like this, could there be a monogamist relationship. ... There could be, but don't hold your breath. Due to the type of site, monogamy is going to be highly unlikely. Making monogamy work, in general, is difficult enough. Now you have hundreds of men showing your woman his penis on a daily bases. Deep down what is it like to see another woman ride the the man you love with ever ounce of your being. .... You're moving too fast. "Love" is not even in play yet, when you meet someone and spend some time with them. Infatuation is not love. If I meet a lady I hope I could give her all she could handle and then some. .... Wishful thinking, and usually doesn't work out that way, especially when she is basically has the attention of hundreds of men looking to fuck. That's quite a drug. I know...variety right. ... Right. It's a sex site. Even on Friendfinder, establishing monogamy is difficult because the female is getting all kinds of attention from men. But then are you really ready for a relationship then. .... Date for 6 months. See how it goes. Please tell me your thoughts. ... Don't look for a relationship on fuck-sites. If you're serious about getting into a relationship, go join a serious relationship site. This site, is not the site that person should be on. Of course you don't need to even consider any of this, and go play in lala land.
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I look for a relationship when it presents itself. That might even be in the dairy section while I'm shopping. You know where two people might meet. Until that day does arrive and the one shows hear beautiful self in my path, ill hang out here and see if I can help satisfy some of or all of the needs of the so many beautiful and sexy ladies here. As far as you thinking I have wishful thinking of satisfying one on here, don't judge somebody you don't know. My sexdrive is so huge, most days I feel like i'm back in my teens or 20s again. I have had a few say they are to wipped and tiered and sore on me. So please don't judge. Seems your comments Heathen are a little on the negative side. After last weekend I have to think positive about this. I have to believe it could happen or whats the point? You know I have found that's its the negativity that drives woman away, seen it in others, hell I,m guilty of it as well. But no more. Positive, informed. analized and well derived decisions. They call it "Analyzing the Hazards"
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I look for a relationship when it presents itself. That might even be in the dairy section while I'm shopping. You know where two people might meet. Until that day does arrive and the one shows hear beautiful self in my path, ill hang out here and see if I can help satisfy some of or all of the needs of the so many beautiful and sexy ladies here. As far as you thinking I have wishful thinking of satisfying one on here, don't judge somebody you don't know. My sexdrive is so huge, most days I feel like i'm back in my teens or 20s again. I have had a few say they are to wipped and tiered and sore on me. So please don't judge. Seems your comments Heathen are a little on the negative side. After last weekend I have to think positive about this. I have to believe it could happen or whats the point? You know I have found that's its the negativity that drives woman away, seen it in others, hell I,m guilty of it as well. But no more. Positive, informed. analized and well derived decisions. They call it "Analyzing the Hazards" Think of large room, 50 naked men, and you find one naked woman . You take her hands , you try to suggest she and you have a monogamous relationship. But for her to do that, she has to ignore the 49 other naked men in the room, and as each day goes by, more and more naked men show up. The chances of having an actual relationship without her being distracted by other men, is virtually impossible on this site [in that room]. That's positive. To pretend she will ignore the other growing number of naked men over days , weeks, months and years, would be negative. This site is mostly for meeting and fucking. The women are establishing their bullpen of favorite men , while the men are , if they can, are establishing their harem of favorite women. "Top Fan" is a kind of virtual reality of that concept. So really to think you are going to find a monogamous relationship, from this site, .......is nonsense. There are better sites more suited for the endeavor.
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It's all good. I'll never be part of a bullpen. I really don't want a harem either. I am that 1 in a million I guess that just wants one. Maybe the other way is the way of the future and I'll end up single forever. Who knows. But I can't believe that for a second. I am going to believe that one day I'll meet the one, be off this site and all other sites for this genre of dating. And trust me my friend, she won't need to look anywhere else for I can and will satisfy her and still have gas in the tank. You see from my experience, women just don't want their bodies to get fucked, you have to stimulate their minds, souls, and spirits along with their bodies. Thats why most on here want a bullpen. They are not getting fulfilled with what is being offered in here. So they keep looking.
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It's all good. I'll never be part of a bullpen. I really don't want a harem either. I am that 1 in a million I guess that just wants one. Maybe the other way is the way of the future and I'll end up single forever. Who knows. But I can't believe that for a second. I am going to believe that one day I'll meet the one, be off this site and all other sites for this genre of dating. And trust me my friend, she won't need to look anywhere else for I can and will satisfy her and still have gas in the tank. You see from my experience, women just don't want their bodies to get fucked, you have to stimulate their minds, souls, and spirits along with their bodies. Thats why most on here want a bullpen. They are not getting fulfilled with what is being offered in here. So they keep looking. I really don't want a harem either. ... Okay, but it's not a bad idea. Knowing different women for dating is actually to your benefit. I am that 1 in a million I guess that just wants one. .... At your age, sure, however having just one places you in a very precarious position. And really today, there is no benefit to having just one. I'll end up single forever. ... This would be a good thing, in many ways, especially for men. I am going to believe that one day I'll meet the one, be off this site and all other sites for this genre of dating. .... Maybe you're trying too hard to have a relationship. Take the laid-back-don't-give-a-shit approach to dating. she won't need to look anywhere else for I can and will satisfy her and still have gas in the tank. ... Well , I hope so.. women just don't want their bodies to get fucked, you have to stimulate their minds, .... Don't take that literally. You know the concept of bad-boys? These guys stimulate her mind by keeping her off balance, trying to figure him out. He isn't predictable. That's all "Stimulate her mind", means. So when you do get your one-and-only, don't become predictable. Say "No" sometimes, and don't allow her to doormat you. Thats why most [women] on here want a bullpen. They are not getting fulfilled with what is being offered in here. .... Maybe, but women who do want, or have bullpens, are usually the career-minded women. They don't have time to play relationship. So they have bullpens. When she wants to fuck, she calls a straight guy, when she wants to see a ballet, she calls one of the gay guys in her bullpen. So they keep looking .... That's not your problem. Your only concern is putting together what you want.
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I still stand by what I post. What I want, is what I want and I won't compromise ever again. Unless she is well worth it. After all, I have a lot to offer.
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1/10/2016 12:19 pm |
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