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Emotions, Attraction and Intelligence  

WetnSassyinKenya 54F
47 posts
10/6/2017 3:10 am
Emotions, Attraction and Intelligence

I've been known to say that I cannot separate my emotions from every breath I take.

I know that so many of you out there can have sex with no emotional attachments and many without even real attraction and while I get it, that's just not me.

Now I don't mean to say we need to get married, be monogamous or even for that matter see each other again, but I really get off on emotion, mutual attraction and intelligence. I like the full package, I want to laugh with you and like you and want to fuck you senseless. For me to really get off, it needs to be mutual.

Make me laugh, let me know you and like you and it makes you so much more attractive and makes the sex so much better!

Is that too much to ask?

sexstarvedme1966 57M
383 posts
10/6/2017 7:11 am

 Not at all. Sex is so much better when there is emotion involved. That is not to say that you need to fall in love in order to have a fuck, but whilst there is no such thing as a bad fuck, there is definitely such a thing as mindblowingly good sex. And the latter takes mutual attraction and emotional involvement with one another... even if only for the period leading up to (and during!!) the sex.

I think it is another aspect of the differences between sexes. Men can have sex with no more attraction or emotion than using a masturbation tool whilst women need the emotional aspect and attraction to be there. I know that we are all individual and some men and women work the opposite way around, too, but I suspect that it all ties up, biologically speaking, with who is going to get pregnant.

As for me... I tend towards wanting fun, laughter and mutual attraction because the sex that follows is so much better. Having said that, I have gone for a ONS, too. On one occasion I even got a blow job from a girl that really wanted to give me one but in whom I wasn't really interested - a strange set up for sure, a sort of sympathy bj in reverse, but I didn't complain.

Anyway - to answer your question; no, it is not too much to ask.


WetnSassyinKenya replies on 10/8/2017 2:00 am:
So glad to hear that it's not too much to ask. You always give the best feedback!

Owatalife 67M
1711 posts
10/6/2017 1:01 pm

 Everyone is different thankfully, believe it or not there are plenty
of men{ I think} who want more than just wham bam thank you
Mam....of course it is not too much to ask to find that which makes
you happy content & complete.


WetnSassyinKenya replies on 10/8/2017 2:02 am:
Don't get me wrong, I have no issue with Wham Bam thank you sir or mam! LOL, I just like / need to like you. It doesn't have to last a lifetime, just before, during and slightly after, that's what differentiates masturbation from mind blowing sex!!!!

jussayyes270 74M
7 posts
10/27/2017 9:47 am

 I too believe that sex is better when your emotions are involved. To me that translates into caring for he person you are with. the person you person you having sex with is not just a vessel or to put it bluntly a cum dump.


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