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so how is someone supposed to maintain a positive attitude.  

Discreetmeetfish 57M
17 posts
8/5/2019 2:10 pm
so how is someone supposed to maintain a positive attitude.


No has ever guaranteed that life was going be a life of cherries. In fact it's not even something I strive for. But I do wonder how when everything else is going downhill how someone is supposed stay upbeat. I will have say that I came Senior Sizzle because I thought that there would be plenty of people would be looking for the types of things as I am. It does seem that there are alot of people searching. Why don't any of them ever pull the trigger and meet? A goes along and goes very well why can't it ever move the next level? Does anyone else feel like they are truly invisible? I don't know I've got so mush say so many questions and I thought a stream of consciousness would give me more say. I thought this could be good. find someone maybe likes blindfolds? handcuffs? straight sex oral shouldn't this be the place? Then why won't people respond. Even say no thanks. I'm just confused. Does IM not work or am I being invisible? This hasn't made me feel any better and of course no will ever read it but if you do and you have an answer why you can be on and involved but still feel like an outcast, please let me know.

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
8/5/2019 4:39 pm


Free IM discontinued effective July 17th.


Yours_4A_knight 59M

8/5/2019 5:42 pm

Honestly the problem is that being a straight white middle class non criminal is hard to fetishize, to be honest I think that most women look at you (and me for that matter) and see their neighbor who they think is slightly creepy and not in a good way, or the guy on the bar stool across the place she was at last night who she was sure was leering down her top but never said anything to her. Women don't have to come on the internet especially a fetish site, to meet guys like us, we are underfoot everywhere.

Odds are for most unexceptional men who use this site, you are not ever going to meet anyone, but the possibility is what makes this place money so that it runs. I am not saying that it is impossible just very unlikely and that you need to keep your expectations inline with reality and continue to act positive and interested while investing basically nothing in any attempt to contact women.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


Yours_4A_knight 59M

8/5/2019 6:17 pm

the majority (if not 99% ) of you seek perfect Barbie dolls, models. You don't give non-10 women a chance.

Appearance matters and everyone has tastes, and to be honest would you really want to see a guy if the only good thing he could say about you was that you said yes.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
8/5/2019 9:05 pm

Standards are virtually not people. And more people are into just talking about the stuff you're looking for..... Better to just divorce your woman, and go build a trust with someone NOT online.


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