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If you had 150 emails a DAY and most were from people out of your ranges i.e. ages/distance/status, there is no way in H*LL I would have the time to write a 'no thank you' to each and every one of them. Now add this, for each one we write a no thank you to we get a myriad of types of replies mostly the following: A - They keep writing as if you didn't say no an think if they keep you talking they will get laid, or they keep asking you why not and if they can change it to get laid. B - They flame you for saying no, which someone already posted on here. NO ONE signed up to be called fat, ugly, a whore/slut, a c*nt, or anything else based on we said NO to you. They constantly write it is a 'sex site' as if that means WE as women have to f*ck every guy that asks, yet they don't have to do anyone they are not interested in. WRONG!! That would mean all those men would have to start sucking dicks and taking it up the butt not just have sex with women even if their profile says "WOMEN ONLY" or other variations of "I am not gay, NO MEN" as they signed up here and they ALSO would have to have sex with anyone and everyone. Bet they wouldn't do that so why think women will???? C - They get angry if you block them so then they make more profiles so they can continue to follow you and try to get laid. D - They start sending email after email after email all within seconds when they don’t get a reply as they think you have no job, no family, no laundry, nothing to do at all but sit there and service them. WRONG!! People have lives and are not at their computer 24/7. The idea of just block people, you cannot block people BEFORE they show they are an a**hole unfortunately. Anyone 'expecting' an answer from anyone I give this story too. If you were a door to door salesman and the people were not home would you seriously sit on their door step and wait for them to get home or go to the next house? I am betting you go to the next house. Same here, if you send an email and do not get a reply don't take it personal, go to the next profile. The person may not be home and not sitting there just waiting to answer you or you may be in the 150 emails that they do not have a secretary to answer them. I KNOW it is difficult for men to get replies, I DO, but to complain that women don't reply to you is not the answer. There are tons of your own gender ruining it for you by wasting our time and taking up our space that you could be in if they only read the profiles and didn't 'assume' we are all whores just waiting to service them. This is not an online whorehouse warehouse and everyone has preferences not just the men. Here is my blogs so you can see what you are up against... #1...Best Complimentary Emails wupdates #2...Emailslame, boring, or just plain stupidwupdates #3...A polite No Thank You can cause thiswupdates #4...Unsolicited HATE Emails no prior contactwupdates There are many reasons why women don't answer and you can't order them to do it let alone expect it out of courtesy when there is much you don't realize going on behind the scenes with other men. I know you don't want to be based on other men, but as I said already, we don't have a crystal ball to say you are the one that won't turn into instant a**hole by just adding the words no thank you. Most of the men calling 'fake' are the ones that can't get laid. They instantly assume women saying no are fakes and game players the same as you just 'assumed' that not respond makes it obvious that it is a computer, employee or some creepy dude living in someone's basement or renting a room is just sitting on the computer clicking through profiles to generate traffic to the site. Many of what you listed are men that are single posing as women, posing as couples, and there never was a woman. They are men posing as a woman looking for a woman for their boyfriend and sadly it happens quite often. Men and women get totally different experiences on the site. Try actually making a woman's profile and see what I mean. You will get the rude, insulting, and vulgar emails too that you yourself don't send. I hope it gets better for you, but it take time and effort. Best of luck.
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I saw your other blog and will answer it here. IM's.... women are flooded with them. 100's at a time. We can't even answer one before 50 more have come in. So do not expect women to just nicely reply to all these 100's of men 'not interested' or 'no thank you' because it is polite and courteous. There are tons of non-courteous people here and usually, as a woman, there are more than a few that go off on us. Now it may not be a big thing to you, but how many guys going off on you do you consider enough to say f*ck this and leave? Some get angry and start calling names before one even has a chance to hit a reply button. It can be pretty vicious. Yes, as the other poster said, there are those here to just get attention as well.. male and female!!
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Deep, you are more than welcome.  This is one of the reasons I actually stay here for. I do enjoy helping people and trying to make the site a bit more courteous and enjoyable for everyone. Although it would be nice if people did see that other people have thoughts and feelings and learn common courtesy, it seems that many people are just plain selfish and thoughtless. There is a ton that feel we don't deserve respect, male and/or female, because we are on here. H8ll, there is even one man that wrote an entire blog because people wrote "Men" or "Women" and he thought they should specify how many exactly when in fact it is just saying which gender they are talking about and not saying 'all' of either. I caught flak because I said many or most and was asked to specify it. My thoughts, if you are not one of 'those' people who cares?? Why defend something one doesn't need to unless you are one of them? hahahaYou have been polite and enjoyable to read. Unfortunately your own gender will bury you, but it is not impossible. I found my sweetie right here 11 1/2 years ago. Hang in there hun.
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