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I have many passions, all of which burn hot. I have a passion to teach you English from the basics through the sweet passion words that will entrance you forever. I like to demonstrate my meanings several times with the use of my body in such a way that you can understand totally. Have you the desire to learn, the passion to try over and over as I drive my meaning into you? Do you have the strength and stamina to last through a lesson that could last one to two hours at a time? I like to start slowly, making the passion of our desires last and build until we can't stand it anymore, until we must thrust our whole being into the lesson and after... we slowly subside into the bliss that any truly good lesson should bring us. I must warn you that I am truly strong in the administering of oral lessons upon you and will insist upon doing them for quite sometime and I hope that I may bring much bliss to you.
So the question remains, when would you like to start your first lessons?
Randy
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Posted:May 1, 2010 7:35 am
Last Updated:May 9, 2024 4:10 am
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Lingerie is displayed in the new Playboy store in central London September 19, 2007.
Credit: Reuters/Alessia Pierdomenico
LONDON (Reuters) - Sales of sultry lingerie among older women are booming in Britain thanks to the glamorous 40-somethings of "Sex and the City 2" and "Cougar Town," retail chain Debenhams reported on Thursday.
The hit TV show, and forthcoming movie, featuring the bedroom antics of women in their 40s and 50s and their much younger partners, is being credited with a rise in demand for lingerie from women of the same age, Debenhams said.
The department store said a nationwide analysis of the most popular lingerie styles from October 2009 to April 2010, revealed that women over 40 have given the more seductive side of the lingerie industry a big boost.
"Positive female role models in this age group such as the women in the Sex and the City movies and Courteney Cox in TV's Cougar Town are giving the women confidence to splash out on themselves," Debenhams head lingerie buyer Annette Warburton said in a statement.
Women over 40 were rediscovering their figures, often after having or getting divorced.
Previously, the store said, the main purchasers of cleavage-enhancing bras, basques, thongs, stockings and suspenders, have been women in their early 20s.
"With women's 40s being touted as the new 20s, and lingerie designers stepping up to the mark to feed this demand, it's a market we expect to see grow further in the future," Warburton said.
(Reporting by Paul Casciato; Editing by Steve Addison)
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Posted:May 1, 2010 7:29 am
Last Updated:May 9, 2024 4:10 am
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Lingerie is displayed in the new Playboy store in central London September 19, 2007.
Credit: Reuters/Alessia Pierdomenico
LONDON (Reuters) - Sales of sultry lingerie among older women are booming in Britain thanks to the glamorous 40-somethings of "Sex and the City 2" and "Cougar Town," retail chain Debenhams reported on Thursday.
The hit TV show, and forthcoming movie, featuring the bedroom antics of women in their 40s and 50s and their much younger partners, is being credited with a rise in demand for lingerie from women of the same age, Debenhams said.
The department store said a nationwide analysis of the most popular lingerie styles from October 2009 to April 2010, revealed that women over 40 have given the more seductive side of the lingerie industry a big boost.
"Positive female role models in this age group such as the women in the Sex and the City movies and Courteney Cox in TV's Cougar Town are giving the women confidence to splash out on themselves," Debenhams head lingerie buyer Annette Warburton said in a statement.
Women over 40 were rediscovering their figures, often after having or getting divorced.
Previously, the store said, the main purchasers of cleavage-enhancing bras, basques, thongs, stockings and suspenders, have been women in their early 20s.
"With women's 40s being touted as the new 20s, and lingerie designers stepping up to the mark to feed this demand, it's a market we expect to see grow further in the future," Warburton said.
(Reporting by Paul Casciato; Editing by Steve Addison)
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Posted:May 1, 2010 7:24 am
Last Updated:May 9, 2024 4:10 am
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Lingerie is displayed in the new Playboy store in central London September 19, 2007.
Credit: Reuters/Alessia Pierdomenico
LONDON (Reuters) - Sales of sultry lingerie among older women are booming in Britain thanks to the glamorous 40-somethings of "Sex and the City 2" and "Cougar Town," retail chain Debenhams reported on Thursday.
The hit TV show, and forthcoming movie, featuring the bedroom antics of women in their 40s and 50s and their much younger partners, is being credited with a rise in demand for lingerie from women of the same age, Debenhams said.
The department store said a nationwide analysis of the most popular lingerie styles from October 2009 to April 2010, revealed that women over 40 have given the more seductive side of the lingerie industry a big boost.
"Positive female role models in this age group such as the women in the Sex and the City movies and Courteney Cox in TV's Cougar Town are giving the women confidence to splash out on themselves," Debenhams head lingerie buyer Annette Warburton said in a statement.
Women over 40 were rediscovering their figures, often after having or getting divorced.
Previously, the store said, the main purchasers of cleavage-enhancing bras, basques, thongs, stockings and suspenders, have been women in their early 20s.
"With women's 40s being touted as the new 20s, and lingerie designers stepping up to the mark to feed this demand, it's a market we expect to see grow further in the future," Warburton said.
(Reporting by Paul Casciato; Editing by Steve Addison)
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Dating 101: Four Things Never to Utter Around Him
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Posted:Apr 12, 2010 4:19 am
Last Updated:May 9, 2024 4:10 am
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Some subjects of conversation will make a dude's eyes glaze over in boredom, put him on the defensive... or even leave him questioning your sanity.
By Cosmopolitan
Here's a dating mystery we're dying to crack: Why is it that even when we guys open up and clue a girl in to our thoughts and experiences, you ladies insist on pushing for more and more intimate info? It's hard for us to relate to your wanting to know everything about us, because even the most love-bitten man doesn't feel the need to be in on every detail about his girl. In fact, certain topics are actually major turnoffs and produce the same skin-crawling effect as hearing fingernails raked across a blackboard. So unless you want your man to secretly wish you came with a mute button, save the following taboo topics for your girlfriends, your mom or your therapist... just not your guy.
Turnoff #1: The Lowdown on Celeb Dirt
"Whenever my girlfriend gets control of the remote, she switches to a gossip channel and goes on about how lucky Cameron Diaz is or how Drew Barrymore lost 10 pounds. Geez, get a freaking life!" -- Paul, 27
"My ex-girlfriend was obsessed with Brad Pitt. She knew more about his life than Angelina Jolie does. Whenever he had a movie coming out, I never heard the end of it. I felt like I was dating a stalker, not to mention the fact that it didn't do wonders for my ego. Brad isn't exactly the worst-looking guy in the world." -- Donald, 26
"I met this really gorgeous British woman at a bookstore, so I invited her to have coffee with me. When I got back to the table with our drinks, she was sitting there with a pile of foreign gossip rags in front of her. Before I knew what hit me, she was talking my ear off about Prince Charles and a bunch of other royals I didn't know and couldn't care less about. I was absolutely bored out of my mind. Well, so much for the theory that smart women hang out in bookstores." -- Andrew, 25
Turnoff #2: Your Ex Files
"I took my old girlfriend to a cute bed-and-breakfast for the weekend, and all she could talk about was how her previous boyfriend had taken her to Paris for a long weekend. Whatever happened to thank you? No wonder we both dumped her." -- Ben, 28
"My girlfriend and I were having brunch one Sunday when we ran into her ex-boyfriend. After he left, she started telling me all about some cross-country trip they took when they were in college. I know there's nothing going on between them, but that doesn't mean I want to hear about the good old days. She should save the reminiscing for her girlfriends." -- Lewis, 27
"My girl asked me to help her put together some do-it-yourself furniture that she'd bought, and I was a total disaster. That's when she went on and on about how good her ex was with tools. The story I enjoyed most was about how he built her a special magazine rack... which, of course, she still has. Now every time I see that thing, I want to break it. I admitted I am no good at this kind of fix-it stuff, so I don't know why she felt the need to rub it in by telling me her ex was the second coming of Bob Vila." -- Ray, 30
Turnoff #3: Your Bad Body Image and Food Issues
"First it was the grapefruit diet. Then it was Jenny Craig. Now it's the Fatkins thing. My girlfriend tries a new diet about once a month, and she explains how she's convinced that this is the one that's going to help her lose weight. I always remind her that the reason I asked her out in the first place is because I think she's beautiful. I wouldn't be attracted to her if she looked like a string bean." -- Derek, 29
"I can never do anything spontaneous with my girl because she won't leave the house unless she looks perfect. It takes longer for her to get ready for dinner than it does for us to actually go out and eat it. First she asks if I like her outfit. Next she asks how her makeup looks. Then she drops the fun-crusher on me: 'Do I look fat?' I get so aggravated. Don't ask for my opinion if you don't want it. By the time she's ready to leave, the evening is already ruined because I'm in such a pissed-off mood." -- Andy, 33
Turnoff #4: Other People's Relationships
"My old girlfriend would gush about how romantic it was that her roommate's boyfriend got down on one knee when he proposed to her. Then she'd tell me every freakin' detail about the wedding plans, from the dress to the cake to the invitations. I didn't really know these people, and I hate hearing about mushy stuff anyway, especially if it has nothing to do with me. I just tuned it all out." -- Steve, 36
"My girlfriend never stops talking about how great her sister's life is. I'm so tired of hearing about her perfect brother-in-law and her two adorable nephews. It's so obvious that she's using the conversation as a steppingstone to talk about when we're going to get married." -- Rob, 36
"My girlfriend loves telling me about how her best friend treats her boyfriend like a pile of garbage, flirting with other guys when he isn't around and spending hours on her laptop to email her exes. I don't want to know the nitty-gritty, because then I feel awkward when I'm around him. Besides, it makes me wonder if my girl is bad-mouthing me behind my back." -- Will, 25
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How To Kiss A Man - Top Kissing Tips For Women
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Posted:Jan 28, 2010 4:34 pm
Last Updated:Apr 12, 2010 3:40 am
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By Carla Lowe
So you want to know how to be a good kisser? Kissing is something that many of us do on a regular basis, but as with all things, we can probably benefit from a few good kissing tips for improved technique. It is an unfortunate fact that kissing is not always something that comes naturally; it is rather an art that needs to be learned, practiced and improved upon. If you would like to improve your kissing skills, here are a number of helpful kissing tips you can try, even if it is the first time you are kissing someone new.
Kissing Preparation
First, make sure you are ready and properly “prepped” for kissing. Of course, some kisses will be spontaneous and catch you off guard, and some kisses are simply “greeting” kisses and are not meant to be particularly passionate, but when you are planning for a good old-fashioned make-out session that could lead to something more, the first of many kissing tips you need to follow is making sure you are adequately prepared.
So how do you prep yourself for some good kissing action?
For starters, you will want to smell good—all over your body. The sense of smell in art of kissing is a sensual part of the whole essence of kissing and you want to make sure your overall scent takes his breath away and makes him want to kiss you more.
A light lotion on your skin is a good idea, which will produce a pleasant scent and also make your skin soft and smooth. Make sure you also put on some deodorant and a hint (not too much) of a complementary body spray or perfume.
Lingering scents that are not too strong are made by taking a bath with soft, natural oil. Lavender and rose oil extract are the most popular and romantic.
Do not forget about your breath. Your breath is an overwhelming force in the kissing department—good or bad—and far too often women forgo this seemingly obvious yet important kissing technique. Bad breath is not just an issue for men.
Brushing your teeth every morning and night is great, but make sure you give them an extra scrub (with minty toothpaste) before your kissing session.
Remember to brush your tongue, too, as it can harbor unpleasant germs and bacteria, particularly if you plan to kiss with it. If you struggle with bad breath, you may want to use a bacteria-fighting mouthwash, suck on some mints, or chew some fresh gum—but remember to spit it out before you start kissing!
Another important consideration in the kissing tips domain is the condition of your lips and make-up. You want your lips to be soft, supple, and kissable—not slimy or rough during the art of kissing. You may want to try “exfoliating” some of the dead skin cells off your lips, which will help to achieve this desired effect.
After applying a hint of lip balm or even just water, gently rub your lips with an old toothbrush. Also, think about your make-up. A touch of tasteful, natural-looking make-up is fine, but definitely do not overdo it. Most men do not like a lot of make-up while kissing, especially lipstick that can smear all over the place. A little bit of lip balm should do the trick.
A kiss is an intimate touch and contact that conveys passion and desire. It is a form of body communication that can express more than words ever could. Your kiss is also very personal, it will change based on who you are kissing and why.
A nervous, first time kiss with a certain someone is going to be very different, mechanically speaking, from the kiss between a couple that has been together forever. Yet both kisses convey desire and a need for the passionate touch of lips between two people. A real kiss, an honest kiss, delivers more than the touch of lips. A kiss opens the heart and soul to another.
Knowing how to be a good kisser during the initiation is trying to go with the flow and the feeling. You don’t want to be too forward, but keep in mind that some guys like it when a woman makes the first move, especially if they have been together for awhile. For the first few kisses, go nice and slow, and kiss gently.
French Kissing Tips
If you want to know how to be a good kisser that creates that “butterfly in the stomach” kiss, begin with a light brush of the hand on the face or nape of the neck. Hold there, for just a moment---long enough for him to want more but not long enough for him to start thinking about something else.
The next step is to move towards him, face to face, while making eye contact. Let him know with eye contact that you want his kiss and that he really wants your kiss. Brush your lips on his gently at first, followed by a slow opening of the mouth. The art of kissing is heightened when you close your eyes at the point where your mouth opens to his.
Now we move on to some French kissing tips for technique.
First, keep your lips soft and slightly opened, in a gently inviting and receptive way. Do not press them together tightly, but also avoid opening them too wide. Drooling and too much saliva is almost always a turn-off for both men and women.
On the other hand, there are women and men who like a steamy, sloppy, wet kissing. A kiss basically boils down to what the couple finds passionate.
French kissing tips: a hot, wet kiss usually starts off strong and invasive. It floods the mouth with a tongue and opens the mouth wide. A wet kiss can sometimes include licking of the lips and around the lips; even the face can be licked.
Not something for everyone, but certainly something that some will enjoy, the wet kiss doesn’t think about properness or drool; it simply ignores these very mundane things. A wet kiss is generally so intense that neither person notices, or cares.
Keep in mind that not everybody is a fan of the French kiss, women and men included, so don’t feel like you have to French kiss to enjoy a healthy and sexy kissing session.
Slowly introduce your tongue into his mouth while kissing. You may want to first use your tongue to gently tickle his lips and/or the edge of his teeth (some men find this very sexy) before connecting your tongue with his. When your tongues do touch, pause to see how he reacts. If it’s positive, continue kissing and gently stroke the back of his neck.
French kissing tips include the two basic types of kisses used in the art of kissing: deep tongue and light tongue.
Deep tongue invades the mouth and the throat; it is an act of sexual appeal and uncompromised strength.
Light tongue is a brush of the tips of the tongue on the lips and inside the mouth. This conveys sex appeal and a type of wanting innocence.
Both types of kissing are fine; there is no right or wrong way to kiss.
Keep in mind, however, that each person prefers a different type of kiss, so if you feel uncomfortable or sense that he is feeling uncomfortable, it is perfectly fine to stop for a moment and take a breather.
You can always use a cute, flirtatious comment to let him know what type of kiss you want, and remember to ask him what type of kiss he likes. You can also feel out a kissing style by going with his natural flow for awhile and then switching to yours if they are different.
Once you have been kissing for awhile and you are in a nice “kissing groove,” the key is to go with the flow and just do what feels right. A good kisser never does things that are awkward or forced.
You could begin to gently explore his mouth, start kissing other body parts, wrap your arms around him, and slowly move your hands around his body. Try to sense his reception.
Kissing Communication
Probably one of the best tips for kissing out there is communication. Everyone kisses differently, and everyone likes different things. So do not forget to communicate with your man regarding all things kissing-related.
This may be somewhat awkward, especially in the beginning of your relationship, but just like sex, if you don’t talk about it, you will never know what he likes, what he does not like, what you are doing right, what you are doing wrong, and how you can improve your kissing technique.
And don’t be afraid to tell him what you like and dislike about the art of kissing. No one is the perfect kisser, and he should be receptive to your feedback and suggestions. If he’s not, then maybe it is time to move on and find someone else to kiss!
Remember that while these are certainly helpful and useful kissing tips, they are not kissing rules—just guidelines. There really is no such thing as one perfect kiss that every couple must conquer. Each woman, man, and couple will define their perfect kiss differently and that perfect kiss can change and also come in many forms.
Never feel like you have to do something you don’t want to, whether it makes you uncomfortable or you just don’t enjoy it. Most importantly, have fun! While there is some effort involved in perfecting your kissing skills, it should mostly be a fun, enjoyable activity for both of you.
Are You A Good Kisser?
Smooching, snogging, lip locking - whatever language of love you prefer, there are universal moves that make for a memorable kiss. You can tell a lot about a person by the way they kiss - so what are your lips saying about you?
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Sex Positions That Make You Look Good
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Posted:Jan 22, 2010 7:15 am
Last Updated:May 9, 2024 4:10 am
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By David Strovny
From Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee to Paris Hilton and some guy, all the way down to Dustin Diamond from Saved By the Bell, the infamous sex tape has become a near norm for attention-seekers, A-list celebrities -- and the curious couple next door. In the last decade or so, there has been an explosion of amateur porn, racy exhibitionism, and a relaxation of societal mores. Whether you want to be caught on tape or catch yourself and your partner in real-time action reflected off of mirrored walls, take the time to read and implement some of these scorching positions that are primed for front-row seating. Camera, lights, action!
1. Star gazing
Think long, lithe lines, graceful curves, and forgiving posture. In this female-superior position, your girl sits regally on top of you as you lie on your back. She will face away from you with her knees planted on the floor beside your body. In this position, she will have the freedom to elongate her body and stretch out a slightly rounded tummy. For you, this position enables you to lay flat or rest on your elbows in such a way that your midsection won’t bunch up.
The view: This position also allows great visibility depending on where you place your camera and mirrors. With mirrors parallel to you, you can let both parties get a full view of this sensual spectacle. You can also place a camera on a tripod and take aim at your conjoined bodies and her spread legs. Your movements will translate very clearly on tape. You can also place the camera at a distance for a panoramic view.
2. The python
The python is great for using mirrors, as she lies ready to swallow you whole. You sit relaxed while she winds her way about your body, coming to rest on your thighs. This form is very good for hiding less than perfectly flat abs, as her body rests on her side, whereby no view of her midsection is available. The opposite angle captures the attention as she lavishly devotes her moist lips, mouth and tongue on your very happy self.
The view: Her body, draped over you, can be appreciated by mirrors that show each angle: one that shows the curve of her back, sexy shoulder blades and her heart-shaped derrière laying over your leg, and one that profiles her face and her mouth moving in a wholly “Tera Patrick” way.
3. Doorway to heaven
Fuzz may be acceptable for men, but really, would you want to see your own hairy behind on camera? Or would you rather watch your woman be gorged upon with unaffected enthusiasm? The doorway to heaven allows your wandering eyes the pleasure of sweeping her entire body with your gaze. She lies on her side facing the camera or mirror while you come up behind her. Your mouth is at the apex of her thighs and your head is angled down, while your legs rest somewhat parallel to her back. She is completely spread with one leg lifted above your shoulder.
The view: From this position you can lift your head at any time to see her body stretched out before you in the mirror. It is also a great angle for the camera to pick up every delicious detail.
4. G-spot jiggy
This is a rear-entry position, and you are in the animal position of dominance and power. She is on all fours, stretched out, shoulders back and breasts out. Placing mirrors on either side of the two of you as well as directly in front allows both of you to enjoy the erotic view.
The view: The g-spot jiggy is great for people who don’t really wish to see their behinds, but would like to see great thrusting action and the female form on her hands and knees, and her breasts rhythmically swaying to every moan and sigh.
5. Madame butterfly
With a name like this, you’ll strike her romantic nature and her penchant for intrigue. Another female-superior position with you on your back and your girl sitting on top with her feet at your sides, in this position, she gets to arch her back toward your toes and tickle your feet with her hair. Her erotic arch translates gorgeously on screen or as a reflection. Again, this position flattens your stomach and she'll also hide some of your midsection from the mirrors with her legs. If you’re lucky, she’ll play up her attributes: perk her breasts, bend her long legs, arch her back, and lengthen her neck.
The view: She gets to lengthen her body, while you get to lie there and enjoy the view of her writhing on top of you. You have the option of looking into the mirrors you set up or you can lift your head for an unobstructed view of her lips as they take you in. If you want to get very intimate and share your perspective with your lover, you can bring the camera to bed and zoom in as she rides you.
House of mirrors
If you feel a little curious or just want to add some spark to a routine activity, the mirrors and cameras are invaluable. Some helpful add-ons would be a tripod, remote, video cord, and soft lighting.
Taking the plunge to video may put off some women if they are uncertain where or how this video will be used. A novel way around this would be to directly feed the video into your TV from your camera without any tape inside. This will let you both see yourselves on TV while eliminating the risk of unwanted eyes seeing you in action.
A little word of caution: HD cameras and TVs may be a little too intimidating. You want her turned on, not picking out all the flaws she will inevitably see in herself and you. Have fun playing with each other.
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10 Crucial Nightstand Accessories
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Posted:Jan 22, 2010 7:09 am
Last Updated:May 9, 2024 4:10 am
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By Lena Katz
We all have that one friend who's legendary for his 1,000-volume porn library or her entire bureau full of multi-functional, high-performance sex toys.
For that friend, collecting sexual accessories is a hobby. For almost everyone else, it's intimidating and potentially expensive. Also truly unnecessary in my opinion. My top 10 nightstand must-haves are versatile, widely available and cost under $10 each. Ready to play?
Stockings
Much more than a simple undergarment, stockings are a blindfold, an erotic gag and a surprisingly strong restraint for those of you with headboards and/or four-posters and BDSM tastes. Black silk from Wolford are my favorite, though Victoria's Secret, La Senza or, hell, even department store generics will work just as well. Go for elastic-topped thigh-highs instead of tights-style...you get two separate garments without the unsightly control-top waist. Add a pair of sexy heels and presto! You have a naughty burlesque costume just waiting for your favorite private dancer.
"Handcuffs are so played. Plus they're not flexible, and you can't do much with them. Stockings are much better. They're strong, they're stretchy, they're resilient. And they're sexy, you know?" -- Sarah, 28
Peacock Feather
Tickle tickle. Check and see just how sensitive your partner is -- or rather how sensitive you can make them -- by wielding this innocent-looking torture instrument in just the right way. For best results, combine with stockings (as blindfold). Many different kinds of feathers will work but we prefer the peacock variety because they're beautiful, easy to locate, inexpensive and...well... the name is suggestive.
Votive Candles
Inexpensive and easy to find (Wal-Mart, Ikea, even your local drugstore), votive candles are the thinking man's fallback mood enhancer; a dozen tiny rainbow-colored candles, glowing gently from every corner, can turn any room into a temple of lurrrve. Women also love votives because candlelight is so much more forgiving than electric lighting yet so much sexier than total darkness.
"Nothing says romance like candlelight... and the more candles you have, the more romance, right?" -- Josh, 37
Ice Water
Extremely important. For when you get dehydrated from all that high-impact porn-style positioning... when it's 90 degrees in the room and you need to wet down and cool off (which, ironically, usually only serves to heat things up even further)...when you've just swallowed and need to chase the taste off the back of your throat... ice water is your best friend.
PLUS. Can I talk about the ice itself for a second? Endless possibilities for the adventurous perv. Start with an ice cube on the nipples or teasing gently around your partner's genitals or crunched up in your mouth while you're giving oral sex... Oh. My. Goodness. We have a winner! Try it tonight -- you'll thank me.
Lube
Some people aren't comfortable using lube because they think it implies that they can't work up enough gushiness on their own. Wrong! Yes, the woman should be wet -- that's how you know she's aroused, as we are all taught in Lovemaking 101. But a little extra wetness can work wonders either in the beginning, to assist your finger-and-tongue explorations, or mid-session, to make things smoother when natural lubricants can dry out. Finally, you should NEVER even TRY to have anal sex without copious quantities of lube, unless you're trying to punish both yourself and your partner. Seriously. Ouch.
"A quality lube or lotion is great for a massage to get her all worked up. It's great when you're actually getting it. And if she leaves (or falls asleep) before closing the deal, it can help you, um, get yourself there, if you catch my meaning." -- Garrett, 31
Camera
Point. Click. You're so dirty. Point. Click. You're the hottest ticket ever. OK, maybe your money-shot doesn't look quite like Penthouse but do you honestly think that matters? Hell no. This is not about the end product but the act itself -- the confidence it takes to allow someone to photograph you in the buff and the libido-fueling knowledge that you are, in fact, an amateur porn star. If you're really not comfortable with the existence of a public record of your own nastiness... well, use your own camera and erase everything immediately. If you're not overly paranoid (and you shouldn't be because everyone does this and unless you're Pam Anderson, nobody cares), keep the pics and let them inspire you and your partner to even hornier heights in the near future.
One Dirty Book
I think any bona fide hedonist should have an entire library of dirty books -- erotic fiction, how-to manuals, manga, even the Kama Sutra and a couple of back issues of Cosmo. But if you were stranded on a dirty desert island with only ONE smut book for company, go with a recommendation from the experts at Hollywood's famous Circus of Books:
"The ones that really stand out are How to Have a XXX Sex Life, by Jenna Jameson and the Vivid Video girls -- lots of studio pictures to augment the text -- and, in the erotic fiction department, Sexually Satisfied, the explicit account of a struggling actress' sexual awakening." -- David, Circus of Books
Wet Wipes
Perhaps the most underappreciated thing in the nightstand arsenal. So compact, so convenient, so much easier than running off to the bathroom to get a washcloth post-explosion. And. There's nothing that earns better Geisha Girl (or Sensual Man) brownie points than sweetly, gently cleaning up your lover's, um, area as they lay there buzzing, half passed out in post-coital bliss.
"Nobody likes sticky fingers and no trip to the washroom, no matter how quick, is ever quick enough. Pre-moistened cloths are crucial. They're also handy for dealing with lube spills on the bedside table." -- Kerri, 32
Honey
Typically in my experience -- and I know I'm going against public opinion here--foodstuffs and sex do not mix well. Too messy, too much potential to be silly (pineapple ring-around-the-penis, anyone?) and, if you're dealing with dairy products, too much danger of them turning rancid and killing the mood.
The exception is honey. Deliciously tasty, it mixes well with bodily fluids and is easy enough to apply with a squeezy-bear bottle. It sweetens a kiss, is a treat on nipples or other sensitive bits and never turns foul, regardless of the room temperature. A couple words of caution: A little goes a long way... a lot will take you straight to the laundry room, do not pass GO. Also, because of the ultra-sticky consistency, honey works best if at least one partner -- ideally both -- landscapes the lawn.
A Vibrating Bullet
Regular vibrators can be intimidating, particularly as they suggest that perhaps the real thing is, ahem, superfluous. But a mini-vibe -- a Magic Bullet, a tickler, whatever -- can spice up the ol' in-out, in-out in sooo many wonderful ways.
"I recommend the Rabbit vibe attachment. It's fairly cute and discreet. It looks like it could be a ' toy and then you discover it's really a clit tickler. It's tiny, it's stretchy, and it fits nicely around a penis. It has adjustable speeds and you can move it up or down or wherever you want it. An essential for a nasty girl." -- Lindsay, 24
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Want to get 250 points and kill some bugs?
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Posted:Jan 13, 2010 9:48 am
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10 Tips for Approaching Single Women
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Posted:Jan 12, 2010 9:26 pm
Last Updated:Apr 12, 2010 4:02 am
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Most guys get caught up in guessing what to say; here's what they really should do
By dating coach David Wygant
What do you do when you see a woman you are attracted to? Do you run and hide? Do you use some canned line that you read on the Internet? Do you stand there in fear trying to think of the right thing to say? What is the right thing to do?
When approaching a woman, most guys make the mistake of thinking too much about what to say. They believe there's one magic line that will work in all situations. They rehearse this magic line, and when they deliver it, they hope the woman will become instantly attracted to them.
Unfortunately, rarely does this approach work -- because most of what you say is irrelevant. To catch a woman's attention, it is all about the confidence you display when approaching her.
Here are 10 surefire ways to intrigue her every time:
1. Observe something. Make a comment about something you observe in the environment. This is especially effective at the grocery store. For example, if she is ordering a turkey sandwich, ask her if the turkey is good here.
Make your comment immediate to the situation and it will seem perfectly natural. No matter where you are, there is always something interesting to comment on.
2. Smile. This shows her that you are friendly and confident. A genuine smile not only feels good to you, but will put her at ease while creating openness in the interaction -- a requirement for building rapport.
3. Do not hesitate. If you hesitate in your approach, this tells her that you are not feeling confident -- an immediate turn-off. When you see her, walk over to her within a short period of time (the three-second rule). Show her you are a man who knows what he wants and goes after it.
4. Positive body language. If you approach hunched over with your head down, you are sending negative information about yourself, which makes you dead in the water before you begin. Stand up straight, with shoulders back and chest out, and use a firm yet relaxed walk.
5. Not too fast. If you walk over too fast, you could likely trigger her internal alarm. A calm, casual approach is usually the best way to make her feel at ease with you.
6. Keep eye contact. Never be the first to break eye contact when you approach. If you do, this sends the message that you are not feeling good about approaching. When you use strong eye contact, she will feel more drawn to you. With practice, you can master this.
7. Listen up. Make sure you pay careful attention to what she says. Do not have your response pre-thought out. Women love a man who pays attention to the details of what she says. If you start throwing out random words, she will lose interest fast.
8. Do not fidget. Fidgeting after you approach is distracting and shows you are uncomfortable. If you communicate that you are uncomfortable, she will feel uncomfortable, too, and will close up. Practice being aware of your movements. Pay attention to those movements, or lack of movements, that communicate comfort and confidence.
9. Lighten your tone of voice. The tone of your voice is a very powerful tool. Approaching her in a light and playful tone is one of the best ways to start. You could also begin in a serious tone, accusing her of something like "
I hope you saved some turkey for me," followed by a quick smile to let her know you are joking. Practice playing with your vocal tone with your friends -- notice the different reactions you get when you say the exact same thing using varied tones and fluctuations.
10. Lean away from her. A man who leans in too far when he talks often makes a woman feel crowded. A better approach is to lean away from her slightly. This lets her know that you respect her space, boundaries, and are comfortable with yourself.
The key to making these tips work for you is putting them into practice! Practice these tips and see the reaction you get. When you put them all together, you will be surprised at their power.
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Swinging: A Beginner's Guide
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Posted:Jan 11, 2010 10:56 pm
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By Lola Augustine Brown
Swinging, as in the practice of heterosexual couples swapping partners, seems to have somehow become a lot more kosher over the past few years.
This is increasingly true in Canada since the Supreme Court decided in December 2005 that clubs that feature group sex and partner swapping are perfectly legal. Prior to this ruling such clubs were frequently fined and shut down for being 'bawdy houses.'
Since then, some pretty slick and sophisticated clubs have opened their doors across Canada, where swingers, exhibitionists and voyeurs can go to get their kicks. Then of course there is the popular, prime time TV period drama Swingtown airing now, which takes us to an affluent Chicago suburb where neighbors swap more than recipes. If this new era of permissiveness has got you and your lover thinking about swinging, here's a guide to get you started.
Deciding to Swing
Julie runs an online swinging community, Swingersboard (use the obvious website [put a www dot before and dot com after the name shown]), and has been in 'the lifestyle' (the term that swingers use to describe swinging) for the past 10 years. Julie says that any couple thinking about swinging better make sure that their relationship is absolutely strong before adding anyone else in to the equation.
"Communication is the number one thing you should concentrate on when entering the lifestyle," says Julie, "If you cannot communicate openly with your partner how can you even think about swinging?" Paul, Julie's husband echoes this, saying that couples have to take the communication in their relationship to an all time high before taking things further, and when they do they should take things really slow.
As an experienced swinger, something Julie often observes is couples where one person is obviously not really in to the idea, usually the female partner. "You have to both be interested, sometimes women are pushed in to it and you can tell that while the husband is all gung-ho, she's not happy to be there. We avoid those types of couples because we don't want to be pulled in to their dramas," she says.
Hooking Up
Once you decide to swing, there are plenty of places to start looking for couples to play with. However you start, before you get too carried away you need to keep yourself, and your privacy safe. Julie advises discretion at all times when hooking up with other couples. "Only give out your full names to people you really trust, as we've heard stories on the message boards of people being stalked at their workplace by a couple they played with," says Julie, "You just have to be sensible about sharing too much information."
With that in mind, there are dozens of sites where you can connect with other interested couples, where you can check out photos and arrange meetings. There are also clubs in pretty much every major city across Canada and for the truly daring there are even swingers weekends and festivals (for example Swingfest, www.swingfest.com, is held in Hollywood, Florida and attracts over 5,000 couples.)
Going to a club is a really good way to dip your toes in the water of the lifestyle. Every club is different, and attracts a different type of clientele, but most follow the same formula of having a bar area where everyone is welcome (including singles, although many clubs limit the number of single men allowed in) and some kind of sectioned-off area for couples only.
Wicked (check their website, use the obvious way), on Queen Street West in Toronto describes itself as a hedonistic club, which offers the usual bar and dance floor but also has upstairs playrooms. Some of the playrooms are private, some semi-private and several are equipped with sexy play stuff (such as equipment for light bondage etc.)
Don't go to a club expecting everyone to look like they stepped out of a porno mag or a catwalk, because all kinds of people are attracted to the lifestyle. "There is no typical cookie-cutter swinging couple," says Julie, "There are all kinds of personalities and body types." Paul warns that people at these clubs might assume that you are willing to have sex with anybody, but he and Julie are in fact very selective.
"We're no Ken and Barbie, but often when we go to a swingers club we get swarmed by people that we don't find attractive," says Julie. If the first club you visit doesn't have anyone there that you'd like to get jiggy with, don't give up hope. "There are clubs out there where you'll find more what you are looking for so don't be put off if the first place you go isn't right," says Julie, "Our favorite club is a two-hour drive away."
The Payoff
Strangely enough, swinging couples often say that swapping partners brings them closer together. "A lot of people think that swinging is just about sex, but we don't do it just because we want a different piece of ass!" says Julie, "The lifestyle is about openness, trust and honesty. It enriches our relationship. We had really good communication to begin with, but after each experience we talk more."
"Playing with others enables me to learn more about my wife and what she wants from our relationship," says Paul, "Plus, I get to live out my sexual fantasies. It's awesome."
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Dating Tips: 4 Things That Make Women Unapproachable
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Posted:Jan 11, 2010 10:43 pm
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By dating editor Diana Vilibert for Marie Claire
Sometimes it seems like no amount of silent prayer or sassy outfit will get that cute stranger to take a hint and chat you up. Could you be scaring away single men before they even approach you? We asked the male members of Marie Claire's online community for dating and relationship advice: What female behavior makes you scared to go in for the kill?
#1. You look angry. Hey, perma-scowl: swap the pouty lips for a genuine, friendly smile and your eye candy for the night will be more likely to approach you. The majority of men agreed that an unfriendly facial expression will keep them from approaching you, so flash those pearly whites at the guy you've been eyeing!
#2. You're not locking eyes. What's harder than approaching a stranger? Approaching a stranger who hasn't acknowledged your existence with even a brief look. "I need to see, by her looking and smiling at me, that she wants me to approach her. If I don't see it, I don't approach," says Anonymous. So next time you think he catches you looking at him, don't look away. Hold your stare for a few seconds so he knows you're looking, and that you like what you see.
#3. You're too flirtatious. A chip on your shoulder is a turnoff to any guy waiting to make his approach, but so is the other extreme. Istillhatescreennames is put off when women cross the line from friendly to flirty...with everyone they see. "If she's flirting with lots of guys. Nothing like a woman who is basically telling everyone in the place that she's open for business with anyone," he says. "Flirting with everyone" would put him off, agrees Anonymous, adding another pet peeve: "Grinding out on the dance floor (yeah, it's fun to look at, but I like to look at strippers too...I wouldn't take any home to meet my mom)." Sure, he'll notice you if you're the loudest, most aggressive girl in the room -- but not in a good way.
#4. You're surrounded by friends. Admit it, your awesome group of friends can be a little intimidating, especially when a strange guy approaches to hit on just one of you. Seanc writes, "Being surrounded by more than one friend makes her less approachable because of the embarrassment of being rejected in front of more people." Make sure you're giving him the opportunity to approach you alone. Check out the jukebox and linger for a bit, or offer to grab the next round of drinks for your friends.
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Post-Orgasmic Women Agree - Sex Tips
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Posted:Dec 10, 2009 10:54 pm
Last Updated:Jan 12, 2010 9:27 pm
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These 15 sex tips left them dazed and amazed
By: Chrissy Brooks
There are millions of sex experts out there, and not all of them have radio shows. They're called "women," and they're a hell of a lot more fun to talk to than your average Ph.D. They conduct all their research on their own bodies, and they're much more likely to let you in on the experimentation. So here's what we did: We we went to the women first, and asked them what works best. We're talking rockets' red glare here, bombs bursting in there. Then we consulted the smartest sex docs around, so they could tell us why it worked. Now it's up to you to implement.
"Great lovers don't memorize complicated techniques. They master the simple things that give women pleasure," says Lou Paget, a sex educator and author of How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure. Here's what she's asking for. The more you give, the more you get. Simple, right?
"When I'm about to climax during oral sex, my husband flicks his tongue really fast along the length of my clitoris. A few seconds of that, and walls shake."
Why it works: Most men think of the clitoris as just that little bud under the hood, but it actually extends deep inside a woman's body, explains Paget. When you flick your tongue quickly along its shaft, you're not only covering more territory, you're also creating vibrations that help carry your stimulation beyond the tongue's reach.
How to do it: The key here is to make sure that the clitoral hood is out of the way. Don't be afraid to pull it back gently and then make quick, darting motions with your tongue as far down along the tiny shaft as your tongue can go.
"I love it when my man makes circles around my breasts with his finger or tongue before coming in for a nipple landing."
Why it works: Like the ripples that circle out when you throw a rock into a pond, concentric zones of sensitivity radiate outward from a woman's hot spots. "The area surrounding erogenous zones such as the nipples tends to be highly sensitive, too," says Linda DeVillers, Ph.D., a California psychologist and author of LoveSkills.
How to do it: Begin right at the point where her breast starts to rise from her chest, and spiral slowly inward with your fingertips until you reach the nipple. Once you hit the bull's-eye, suck and gently bite. To really tease her, try circling in until you just brush her nipple, then pulling back out for another tantalizing spin.
"All of a sudden, without warning, my guy stops midthrust. Then he goes super slow, entering me inch by inch for a few minutes. It sets me off like nothing else!"
Why it works: The key to keeping her aroused is to keep her guessing. Predictability really takes away from pleasure -- not to mention that, in the beginning, too much of the same sensation makes a woman go numb, says Paget. But don't worry, you don't have to do anything fancy to jumpstart her sensation; just stop. "Stopping and restarting a touch or a thrust builds on the previous sensation, and it lets you skip up a few rungs on the pleasure ladder," says Paget.
How to do it: Pick a thrust and stop -- you can be inside or halfway out or just have the head of your penis touching her vaginal lips. Catch her eye, pause for a few seconds, and start again. For maximum effect, resume thrusting in slow motion and build back up to speed gradually.
"Before we make love, my husband often stands in front of me after I've undressed and holds his fingertips right above my skin. He moves his hands all the way up and down my body. The sensation is unreal."
Why it works: Positive anticipation is a huge part of what turns women on, says Michael Seiler, Ph.D., sex therapist and director of the Phoenix Institute in Chicago. By levitating your fingers above the skin so they brush those fine body hairs, you're creating a delightful shiver up her spine -- and making her feel as though you appreciate every inch of her body.
How to do it: Help her undress (another anticipation stoker); once she's naked, take her hand and stand facing her. Brush her hair back and let your fingertips hover over the surface of her skin. You're where you should be if the fat part of your fingerpad is touching her skin ever so slightly. Now go ahead and run your pads over her arms, breasts, belly, and thighs.
"I love it when my boyfriend hums while giving me oral sex. And when he follows it up with very light finger taps, I detonate."
Why it works: There's a reason vibrators are so popular: Anything that shakes, rattles, or rolls primes a passel of nerves for peak sensation. "Any time you touch the skin with something vibrating, you transmit sensation to a wider area than you would through simple stroking," says Paget. So you're activating twice the nerves with half the work. "Top it off with a direct touch at the right time and to just the right place -- in this case the clitoris -- and you'll probably send her over the edge."
How to do it: Relax your lips (think Mick Jagger) and hum a tune (think "Brown Sugar"). Bring the outermost portion of your kisser in contact with the outside of her clitoris (the hood that covers the little nub) and her vaginal lips. Move your mouth around her clitoris -- very slowly. When she can't take any more, tap gently and in a circular motion with your fingertip on the swollen nub of the clitoris; or give it a few long, languid licks, staying in contact the whole time.
"As he's thrusting, my guy presses hard with his hand right below my belly button. I have the most incredible orgasms."
Why it works: On the belly-side wall of her vaginal canal lurks a quarter-size zone of pleasure known as the G-spot. The reason many women don't think they have one of these secret pleasure buttons is that the G-spot responds only to firm pressure -- and that may not occur during intercourse, explains John D. Perry, Ph.D., a sex therapist. But pressing on her G-spot from the outside while you're thrusting inside can bring her pleasure place into fuller contact with your penis and trigger mind-blowing orgasms.
How to do it: Since the exact location of the G-spot varies from woman to woman, you'll have to play it by feel. Start by gently pressing the heel of your hand into her belly button as you're thrusting. When she screams with pleasure, you'll know you've hit the target.
"My boyfriend has this amazing thing he does on my nipples, private parts, and neck: He licks a small area and then blows on the wet patch. It creates these sexy tingles down my spine."
Why it works: Remember blowing on soup to cool it off? The same principle governs the evaporation of liquid on skin: Blow it and it cools. Couple the cooling trick with a warm lick, and you've got a contrast that'll make her head spin. "The further apart two sensations are on a spectrum of feeling -- hot/cold or hard/soft -- the more intense they'll feel done in succession," says Paget.
How to do it: Creating a wet spot with water is good, but wetting with alcohol is better. Since alcohol evaporates more quickly than water, it creates a cooler effect when you blow. So bring that glass of wine into the bedroom. Swish some around in your mouth and lick a choice spot. (Try her breasts first.) Then blow gently, give it a second, and take a long, slow lick. Repeat as necessary.
"I love it when my man lightly bites my nipples while touching me down below. There's something about the combination that drives me crazy with pleasure."
Why it works: Although the government hasn't yet ponied up cash for a study of this phenomenon, women and the sex experts who study them know there's often a direct sensory connection between the nipple and the pleasure nub. "For many women, lightly biting or tweaking the nipples produces a tingle in their genitals, especially the clitoris," says Paget.
How to do it: The easiest approach is to lie side by side and bite her nipple while touching her down below. Don't be surprised if she drapes a leg over your side -- that just means she wants you to go deeper.
"One night my husband and I were fooling around on the La-Z-Boy and he pulled up a footstool and knelt as I lay on the chair. Then he used the rocking of the recliner to help him thrust. Something about the back-and-forth motion heightened every sensation."
Why it works: Adding something unpredictable, such as a rocking motion, can be highly erotic. "Surprise is almost always sexy -- it's almost as though the rocking adds a fourth dimension to the experience," says Louanne Cole Weston, Ph.D., a sex therapist in Sacramento, California. Also, any position in which your lower than she is ups your chances of hitting her G-spot by helping to angle your penis toward her front (belly-side) vaginal wall.
How to do it: Choose a recliner or rocking chair that's comfortable for her and a footstool or low table that puts you at the right thrusting height.
"When we're in the missionary position, my husband gets up high so his hips are above mine and enters me at a downward angle very, very slowly. Often he pauses midthrust, and I have the most over-the-top orgasms."
Why it works: During typical thrusting, a woman's clitoris generally gets neglected. But when a man positions his hips above his partner's, he can thrust in such a way that his penile shaft remains in direct contact with her clitoris.
How to do it: From the standard missionary position, just push yourself forward with the balls of your feet and your toes so you're "riding high." (Your hipbones should be at least an inch above hers.) Then enter and start thrusting very slowly.
"When my husband gives me oral sex, he also enlists his finger to provide firm pressure deep inside. The combination feels unbelievably good."
Why it works: Although it seems logical that the clitoris and the vagina would be hooked up on the same nerve network, they actually activate separate pleasure frequencies. That's why touching inside your partner's vagina with the fingers of one hand and her clitoris with the fingers of the other hand doubles the amount of pleasure she feels, says Paget. Bonus: Many women like to feel "filled up" when they reach orgasm (having something to contract the vaginal muscles around increases sensation), so two fingers inside can make all the difference when she climaxes.
How to do it: Start by touching or licking her clitoris. Once she's stimulated, put a finger in her vagina and give her a few firm strokes. When she's about to climax, add a second finger to give her more to flex against.
"I was with this guy who would pucker up his lips and seal them around my nipple. Then he'd alternately inhale and create a vacuum and exhale to put pressure on my breast. It was the most amazing feeling."
Why it works: Just as alternating between hot and cold can heighten the effect of each, so can switching between pulling and pushing. "Pushing and pulling activate separate sets of nerves, so combining the two effectively doubles the pleasure she feels," Paget says.
How to do it: The key here is to be gentle -- at least at first. Once you've taken a few spins, pucker up your lips and apply them so you create a gentle seal around her nipple. Then take in air from your nose and breathe out through your mouth. Now suck in through your mouth.
Repeat, and keep increasing the intensity.
"My boyfriend puts me in orbit when he gives me oral sex. It's not his technique per se, or some quirky aspect of his tongue that has me mesmerized -- it's the way he seems to savor every minute of it."
Why it works: One of a woman's greatest fears is that she smells or tastes bad below the belt. Allay that fear, and everything else you do will be golden. "When we know he's totally into it, that alone takes us to another level of pleasure," says Paget.
How to do it: Catch her eye in the midst of the action, moan, or simply tell her how much you're loving what you're doing.
"My boyfriend turned me crosswise on the bed the other night so that my head fell over the edge. I thought he was nuts -- until I had my biggest orgasm ever."
Why it works: Any time you turn your head upside down, you'll feel a rush as blood pours in and oxygen is depleted. "And this head rush, combined with physical pleasure, can heighten orgasm for some women," says Seiler.
How to do it: Have her lie on her back across the bed, with her head and shoulders dangling over the edge. (Make sure she keeps as much of her lower back on the mattress as possible, and stop if she gets too light-headed.) Enter her slowly, and show some restraint when you thrust -- you don't want to knock her onto the floor.
"My man puts a pillow under my butt before we get going in the missionary position. It tips me in such a way that every thrust feels a million times better and I climax very quickly."
Why it works: When it comes to thrusting, angle is everything -- when your penis slides in at just the right slant, it tickles her clitoris and makes solid contact with her G-spot. Since the G-spot is on the front (belly-side) wall of her vagina, anything that tips her pelvis back makes that hot-spot contact more likely. That same pelvic tilt also raises the clitoris, putting it in a better position to come in contact with your penile shaft.
How to do it: As you're moving into the missionary position, slide one pillow (start with a fairly flat one0 underneath your partner, right where her lower back meets her butt. Let her fiddle with it until she's comfortable, then thrust as usual. Don't be surprised if your efforts produce more pleasure than you bargained for.
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Canada's sexual history
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Posted:Jul 1, 2009 10:39 pm
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Posted Tue, Jun 30, 2009
While Pierre Trudeau's statement that the government had no business in the bedrooms of the nation undoubtedly influenced Canadian sexual values, it was in fact the bill he was introducing at the time -- the 1967 Omnibus Bill -- that has probably had more impact on our national sexual identity than any piece of legislation since. This bill made birth control and abortion more available, divorce more accessible, and removed homosexuality from the Criminal Code.
Less than a decade previous to this Canada wasn't quite as sexually liberal. The D.H. Lawrence classic Lady Chatterly's Lover was considered criminally obscene at least in Quebec as late at 1959.
But a decade after the Omnibus bill, in 1977, Quebec became the first province to include sexual orientation in its Human Rights Code. It took the Supreme Court of Canada until 1995 to rule that sexual orientation is protected under the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms but the feds made up for it by becoming the fourth country in the world to legalize same-sex marriage in 2005.
And, in the same year that gay people were celebrating their legal entry into the world of heterosexual monogamy, straight married couples were celebrating their legal right to have recreational sex with someone other than their partner when, in December of 2005, swingers' club were legalized in Canada.
You could also blame our liberal sexual attitudes on Niagara Falls. According to Chris Gudgeon, author of The Naked Truth: The Untold Story of Sex in Canada, by 1867, Niagara Falls had become the Honeymoon Capital of the World because it was 'a potent symbol of the awesome natural limitlessness of the new country.' From the start, Gudgeon argues, 'Canada and sex were linked in the world's imagination.'
Our sexy rep has been solidified by people like Gwen Jacobs who took off her top on a hot day in Guelph, Ontario back in 1991, asserting she had just as much right to go topless as men. The court agreed and it became legal for women to go topless in Ontario. Toss in our two official nude beaches, Wreck Beach in Vancouver and Hanlan's Point on Toronto Island, the fact that Toronto is home to the Naked News (nakednews.com) and The History of Contraception Museum, featuring the world's biggest collection of contraceptive devices, and you've got one sexy country.
From Dildo, Newfoundland to Bare Butt Bay in Northern Ontario, Cuddle Lake in Manitoba a and The Nipples off the coast of BC, Happy sexy Canada Day!
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