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IMHO lifestyle 101
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Posted:Jun 21, 2018 10:17 pm
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 5:15 am
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First for those of you who don' know me I'm a freak just like the rest of you. I do not live by the norm society would have us live by in the fact that WE who are truly into the lifestyle new or not we just simply LOVE SEX!!!!! Multiple partners obviously because we have all had more than otherwise wtf are we doing here? 
101 will entail just the small, simple stuff nothing too complicated (mind you all of this is my opinion based on over 20 off and on here as well as many friends in STLAC so if any of ya see this from there love ya'll and miss ya....)
Rule 1: Don't be pushy. Many couples on here wouldn't be so fucked off at single guys or posting NO SINGLE GUYS unless some were pushy and d pissed them the hell off. Mind you a few just aren't looking for a single guy but alot of guys are fuckin pushy as hell nowadays and it never used to be like this. ALL of us (guys, girls, couples etc) used to chat it up for ah hem (least a few days not overnight) and some mighta overnighted I won't lie but IT worked for us all every not just a few. Talk, chat wtf ya got to lose? Talking to a couple and its the guy chatting don't be a jackass just cuz ya want the pussy of his old lady. Talk, BS doesn't have to be about sex at all. Its ed a comfort z people. I've had drinks with most of the people I've ever hooked up with here first and foremost cuz if ya don't click it isn't happening or at the very least it happens and you never talk to em again cuz you weren't relaxed...not saying you have to drink but chill, relax BS a little bit and meet in public (see if ya click drinking isnt neccessary btw lol) or not but a bar/drink is almost always kosher and if don't click go seperate ways no hard feelings. She coulda been nervous for sooooo many reasons (her first time but not his, he wasn't feeling it, maybe it was just meet and greet and you misunderstood..shit happens)
I am not bragging because I am just average Joe here but I have never once struck out when meeting some off here in person using this simple common sense notion of talking first. I have only once never not shown up and to say the least something was realllllyyy off on it so...I've made a DVD with a couple before and it was cool as shit and actually have a copy, my going away present when moved from east coast from them. You don't get that type of shit from some to laugh and relive later if your a fucking douchbag and just message some saying hey wanna fuck....I've meet a couple before in a bar (arranged) and he wasn't there but met her and she wanted to off the bat, no panties putting my hand on what was a very pretty pussy btw  but I wasn't fully comfortable with it ( I ed a little don't get me wrong but) in the end I wanted permission from her old man...who happened to be across the street in a bowling alley waiting for her to say hey time to ...it was up to her to or not but until you know that from both sides it smart...( we did have fun that night on a beach on the east coast and sure as hell a cop pulled up given it was like midnight or some shit and saw me fucking his wife and he told the cop we'd be g asap we didn't get arrested or a ticket but dang lol)...it is 100% about RESPECT people and not being pushy...
So what if ya only chat and maybe meet but not under the circumstances you thought unless ya blew a thousand bucks driving or flying there. I don't know about ya'll but I like being able to be me and BS about just about anything including sex with people who are freaks too cuz some people are way too sensitive nowadays sometimes...
Just imho people take it with a grain of salt
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WTF
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Posted:Jun 21, 2018 9:01 pm
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 5:15 am
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Been a member off and on for over 20 years.....Yes I started the lifestyle young but WTFFFFFFFFFF......all these fake accounts nowadays and to report them their submit button doesn't work....Just like IM doesn't 90% of the time. I'm asking any REAL on the site to PLEASE start reporting the fuckin fakes so we can get back to the good old days of relaxing and having fun
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Posted:May 7, 2018 12:00 am
Last Updated:Jan 12, 2019 8:30 pm
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Is it just me or does it seem like verything is back logged or doesnt come through? I've heard of others saying they dont see shit or they do then its gone or says something isnt there for awhile and yes I clear cache and cookies often
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