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Hey you from last night...
 
Hey you from last night...

On one side of me is Thomas Wolfe telling me I can't go home again. On the other is James Baldwin reminding me that nobody knows my name.

There are a million reasons to fall in love with one man, but only one man worth falling in love with a million times.

If I give you my heart, and you don't accept it, tuck it away, so that one day when you need it, it will still be there.

-herotherside


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2994
Posted:Dec 31, 2014 12:34 am
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2015 8:01 pm
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2994. That's how many days I have been lonely. Two thousand nine hundred and ninety four days.
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Posing as sane
Posted:Dec 27, 2014 4:10 am
Last Updated:May 8, 2024 8:26 pm
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I hate nights like this where I remember the things I worked so hard to forget.
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Does anyone read the "care" instructions anyway?
Posted:Mar 26, 2014 5:14 pm
Last Updated:Jun 30, 2014 7:09 pm
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You're going to throw it in the washer, then maybe the dryer or even lay it flat to dry and hope for the best.

Wish I came with a "care" tag. Only then, if read, would one know to use the delicate cycle with me.

Wonder how long it will take for me to realize that I don't matter, here nor there.

Guess I already know, I just haven't accepted it yet.
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Only went 120 today
Posted:Mar 9, 2014 3:26 pm
Last Updated:May 8, 2024 8:26 pm
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Why do I have a burning desire to set his bike on fire?
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Did I curl my hair for this?
Posted:Feb 18, 2014 3:37 pm
Last Updated:Feb 24, 2014 9:03 pm
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"Let's meet at 3" he says.
Then he reschedules on me.

So, tomorrow he gets jeans and my favorite blue sweatshirt with the cigarette burn hole in it. Uh huh. Hair will be pulled back in a ponytail.

Insert picture of me pointing my finger at you with one eyebrow raised ---> here.
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Tonight
Posted:Feb 16, 2014 2:21 pm
Last Updated:Feb 16, 2014 5:33 pm
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Will be at R Place Bar & Grill on Dodge around 630ish is anyone wants to join. I am wearing white pants and a black knit top.
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Feb 22nd
Posted:Feb 16, 2014 11:13 am
Last Updated:Feb 16, 2014 2:19 pm
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Some of us are getting together at Jeff's Pub around 9 pm. Open to any that want to join.
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So nice......
Posted:Jan 26, 2014 10:58 am
Last Updated:Feb 16, 2014 11:16 am
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To have a kiss worth waking up for so early on a Sunday morning.
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Profile has been updated.
Posted:Dec 10, 2009 1:35 am
Last Updated:Dec 27, 2009 1:16 am
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I know some standards cannot read profiles, so I am posting mine here as to cut down on the "Oh, I didn't know..." emails.

Profile for herotherside:
I am a �fuck-n-run� kind of girl. For the most part, I will show up, take my clothes off, fuck you, put said clothes back on and head out the door. I may stay and smoke a cigarette with you if you are an inside smoker. However, just because I am a fuck-n-run, don�t think I will do you just because you have a pretty smile and you said �Hello� when you answered the door. It doesn�t matter if I have already stripped down to my nail polish�if for some reason I decide I no longer want to be in your presence, whether it be something you did to make me feel uncomfortable or I just don�t like the color of the paint on your walls I will leave and expect no pressure on your part in keeping me there.

No, I will not call you the next day to see how you slept after I left so don�t take it personally. I may call you the following week for another-go-round though. You will not wake up next to me unless I happen to roll over after sex and fall asleep.

Some days I may want �disposable� intimacy. I may get playful and cuddle with you afterwards. I may kiss and touch you in ways not meant for just-a-playmate, but know that every emotion felt in that moment will walk out the door with me and be placed in the proper receptacle.

I am a BBW. So, if we happen to go out for a meal, know that I love to eat and have no problem tearing up a burger in your presence. Brownie points for you if you show up at my door with a box of Pop Tarts. Strawberry with icing and sprinkles.

My Ideal Person:
If you have a wife/husband, girl/boyfriend or are in any other type of committed relationship in which your partner will not at least meet me, then you are not for me. If you are not married, but your wife is, then you are not for me. (Yes, I have heard that line more than once.) If your ex-mate is still crazy for you and shows up at your door sporadically or you have an estranged you can�t live another day being separated from, then you are not for me. My Husband knows exactly who I am doing and if you don�t believe me just shoot him an email. His handle is three_inch_tool. (Go ahead, insert joke here)
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And this is from CoverGirl?
Posted:Aug 7, 2009 6:18 pm
Last Updated:Aug 8, 2009 4:45 pm
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Getting new products to test is always fun, so when CoverGirl sent me their Outlast Lipstain, I was excited to try it out. Very rarely has CoverGirl done me wrong, and this is one of those times.

Though I exfoliate my lips daily, they still have their dry moments, especially after wearing lipstick, regardless of the any "non-drying" tout on the package. From a mishap a few years ago during the winter, I learned lipstains are a no go for dry lips so I made sure they were smooth for the application.

Uhg. Can you say "Disappointment?"

I take the safety seal off of what looks like a half-sized Crayola Marker, pull the cap off to see a precision tip...that looks like a Crayola Marker....sniff it (just 'cause)....and hmm, it smells like a Scented Crayola Marker. Do they still make those?

Now I am a bit hesitant because I have somewhere to be later and don't want to show up looking like a clown. But I proceed. I go ahead and try to evenly color in my lips, but it just seems to streak and the tip dries. I squeeze the marker, excuse me...lipstain...and nothing happens. I shake it. Tip is still dry. I turn it upside down and wait. By now, what has been applied to my lips has dried in streaks so I am determined to get this liquid out of this bottle one way or another to finish the job. I try again and it works! So like a with a coloring book, I carry on with my coloring making sure I stay in the lines as stains can be unforgiving of mistakes.

Not very pleased with the color nor the Crayola Marker look, I leave it in place just to see how long lasting it is since CoverGirl has claimed it to be “kiss proof color that lasts for hours.” With no one around to kiss to put that claim to the test, I go ahead and lick my own lips. Mmmm. Tasty, but a bit too sweet. I sip on a bottle of water, check my email, tidy my desk and head back to the mirror to check it out. Not so long lasting, I must say. There are blotches and a lipliner ring, but that’s about it. Advertised as "A lightweight flush of cover that won't smudge or budge" I expected My CG 400 Everbloom Kiss to stay put. It did not.

So, I try again.

I repeat the above steps, including the squeeze, shake and turn, wait for it to dry and then apply a light pink lip gloss over it. Looks better, but there goes that “five times lighter than regular lipstick” feel which I found to be the only highlight of this product.
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Excuse the sudden outbursts of insanity.
Posted:Jul 16, 2009 10:04 pm
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2009 12:33 pm
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I started integrating, and um, yeah, I got bored. Will carry on another day.
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If I may add....Just a few more words....
Posted:Jul 16, 2009 9:56 pm
Last Updated:May 8, 2024 8:26 pm
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Saturday, April 18, 2009 1:17 AM

If I may add....Just a few more words....
Unsure of how to answer you, I ran my fingers nervously up and down the sides of that glass. I gulped down some of that Long Island in a well accomplished attack to swallow my words before I ended up spitting them out, and instead spoke a resolution still undesigning and proper. I was afraid if I answered as I had pleased, you would have figured out just what I had said if you replayed that segment of spoken discourse at a later time.

So, to backtrack to that endpoint and regurgitate those words, "Sometimes, I don't."

'Tis true. Sometimes, I don't.
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Oh, the excitement is building!
Posted:Jul 16, 2009 9:55 pm
Last Updated:Jul 16, 2009 9:56 pm
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Saturday, March 28, 2009 11:24 PM

Oh, the excitement is building!

In 6 days and 11 hours, I will be the proud owner of a Primal Fear Soundtrack CD!
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