i dont know what it is either that i am married ugly or unintresting but this site really knocks your confieance not being big headed of anything but i dont think i am that bad looking but i have had not one bit of luck on this site with a woman/couple sending friendly e-mails out not being pervy just to get no replys sorry i dont have a 6 pack and/or im black thats all women want on here it seems gggrrrrhhhhh!!!!! rant over