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♪ Ruminations ♪
 
Whether memoir or diary, this web record is here to provide some information, some entertainment, and maybe some insight. Welcome to the sexual side of this writer
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Censorship & The Catch-22 Answer
Posted:Nov 17, 2005 7:38 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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The censors have been extra busy this week. Well, they’ve been extra busy with this blog. I can’t pretend to know about elsewhere.

Last night’s football posting (See: [post 144879].) grabbed their attention. Sure, it was primarily about cheerleaders and lesbian sex. But that wasn’t the problem. The problem was the mention of the website of the most popular sports cable network. (Maybe someone is brave enough to put a guess to that in the comments section. If I list it here, this post will be censored too.)

Of course, that might not have been the only problem. I also mentioned the most popular newspaper in the DC-area. (Any guesses on that publication?) Remove those two media references and voila, the post is acceptable.

Now, I’ve been around here long enough to know that was pushing the envelope. I’ve had posts denied before because I mentioned the most highly regarded paper in New York City too. But then again, I’ve had posts accepted with the same information. (See: [post 81844].) So one never really knows.

And that’s the problem. How can you encourage free expression about topics on a sex site, which should be about free expression, when the monitors don’t understand copyright law or fair use? Or they use software to make those decisions.

And on top of it, they never tell you exactly why the material was censored. The author is left to guess.

That is not the worst example. This week, I had one section of this blog’s index censored. (See: [post 10532].) It was censored twice. I couldn’t figure out why, so I sent a note to Customer Service. What could be objectionable about an index?!? Here’s what they sent back:

Unfortunately, I am unable to determine why your blog was denied, as it was removed from our system when it was denied. If you feel it was denied in error please submit it again.

We apologize for any inconvenience this may cause you.

Senior Sizzle Support


I have to wonder if the answer was generated by the same software that censors the blogs. Your guess is as good as mine.

(For other posts on censorship see: Censorship The Bunny; Censorship; Intolerable Censorship; Censorship Revisited; and Censorship Reconsidered.)

(For the complete blog index see: Ruminations Index AE; Ruminations Index F O ; and [post 10532].)

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Top Female Profile Photos: November 2005*
Posted:Nov 4, 2005 1:06 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Welcome to our monthly eye candy review. Interested in last month? See: Top Female Profile Photos October 2005.

The November List

ant1early This month we have another new favorite: ant1early. If this photo doesn’t catch your eye, you are comatose. That come hither look on the bed says it all. And she has a shape that says the rest!

DreamMaker0000 Our perennial favorite DreamMaker0000 actually moves up a notch this month. It seems some of those who ranked above her have closed out their profiles. She is still our dream girl.

Lay4sex Speaking of dream girls, if you are partial to brunettes, as I am then Lay4sex seems perfect. She is beautiful, and she is hard to resist as she offers you those perky breasts.

1ochottie To those who have urged us to look for women over 35 for this list, 1ochottie more than fills the bill. With her great curves and curls, she would make any best of list.

2hersheykiss4u For those who like tattoos, 2hersheykiss4u displays an interesting set on a scrumptious, curvy, hot body. She is actually one half of a couple looking for action here. We appreciate her photo in the ad!

*In the feature photo box, we are graced again by yet another wonderful profile photo from [blog feel_my_heat], one of the top regional bloggers in the DC-area.

(Feel free to list or post your own choices in the comment section.)

Disclaimers

1. These are personal choices. With a site as big as this one, it is impossible to winnow the list to just the top five. My apologies in advance if you feel skipped over or if your favorite was missed. If you have favorites that were passed over, post them.

2. I have excluded all of the women with the most popular profiles (you see them enough already) and the top female bloggers (for the same reason).

3. My choices are strictly based on profile shots, not other pictures available here.

4. I cannot vouch for any of these profiles. I do not know if they are real or fake, but they have not crossed my radar as questionable yet.

5. I'm here to celebrate the eye candy on the site, not to tick anyone off. If you do not have a sense of humor or you do not like to play with what is on the site, you are not required to look or participate.

6. Because we have established that many people DO in fact read all the disclaimers, we are here to tell you that consumption of this blog entry is more nutritional than processed sugar; will not count as carbs on an Atkins diet; nor will it cause bloating or indigestion. Consume as freely and often as you like. Guilt free. However, the proprietors are not responsible for excessive pupil dilation caused by continued viewing.

Enjoy! And have a great weekend!

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(This entry NEVER appeared on the main blogboard due to an afternoon blogjam on Nov. 4, but this author chose not to repost.)
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Mil Comentarios de Oro: Mil Gracias
Posted:Nov 1, 2005 7:34 am
Last Updated:Mar 31, 2006 6:53 am
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1,000!

That seems to be the number of the week. This blogspot nudged over the 1,000 comment marker this week. So we have more thanks to send out for helping achieve that milestone.

Of course, everyone who visits and comments gets the credit and thanks.

Fittingly, we aren’t sure whom to thank exactly for hitting the milestone, due to the technical glitches on the site. If you count The Invisible Comment which is inside Flakes, then digdug is the blogger who pushed us to the 1,000-spot. Although that comment shows up on the tally for Flakes, the overall blog counter does not include it. By the overall counter, Keith is the blogger who gets credit for comment number 1,000.

So both get special notice. This is also fitting. Keith has been a frequent commentator in this blog almost since its inception. Likely, he’s the biggest supporter of this blog (and many others) and we always appreciate his encouragement.

On the other hand, digdug is one of our newer readers who is hanging on with the changes here. He’s been welcomed here in the past few months, after Centennial Celebration Week.

When I saw this milestone approaching, I wondered if we should give out virtual prizes to the person who got us to the millennium mark. Now, I’m not too sure.

At first, I thought besitos for the women and cervezas for the men, so the title here would be: Mil Besitos! Mil Cervezas! Mil Gracias!

But that doesn’t work. To honor digdug, cerveza is not appropriate. And besitos are certainly not appropriate for the men. A prizes is something you want to win, and even some of the women here probably would not appreciate a prize of besitos from me. Then I had the thought about giving the winners a free run through The Tattler’s prize warehouse. We have a lot of ponchos and free pancake coupons piling up there because so few folks win The TATTLER. Of course, that’s no prize for The Publisher: that’s all his virtual property already.

So instead of a prize, here’s a hearty “thanks,” a pat on the back, and a promise to buy you a cup of coffee the next time you’re in town, digdug & keithcancook. I hope you and everyone else continues to come back as long as this blog is open.

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(This entry NEVER appeared on the main blogboard due to a morning blogjam on Nov. 1, but this author chose not to repost.)
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Mil Ojos, Mil Gracias, Mil Besos
Posted:Oct 31, 2005 7:04 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Thanks!

You might be wondering what all the shouting is about.

As this blog slips back into boutique status, more proof of that state is evident. However, I am thankful for this condition.

Here’s what I’m talking about: I finally had an entry roll over the one thousand views marker this past week.

Now, at the top blogs, a thousand views is nothing. Some of these blogs clock 20,000 or 30,000 views on a post. (Makes you wonder what would happen to your blog if 30 times as many people would stop around and see some of your best posts. But I digress. Which if you know this blog, you know that’s a normal state of mind.)

The post that finally gathered this milestone of interest was Top Female Profile Photos Round Two. If you haven’t noticed, the photo galleries draw the most views to this blog. However, this was a slow build. That entry was posted in July. So much for those who say only the most recent posts draw attention. And more irony: only two of the profiles highlighted in that entry are still working. Just shows you how transient the virtual community can be!

{=}{=}{=}I do want to say: thanks to all my faithful readers for putting up with the fits and starts of this blogspot. Thanks again for your continued interest.{=}{=}{=}

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(This entry NEVER appeared on the main blogboard due to a morning blogjam on Oct. 31, but this author chose not to repost.)
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Hardcore Photo Gallery: October 2005
Posted:Oct 21, 2005 12:00 pm
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2006 6:35 pm
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Here’s our monthly posting of hardcore profile shots. Enjoy!

The October Gallery

ladyvera33SXYharleygirl75BlkKamaSutra69
yours123MissKitty1108cnudigit

Have a great weekend!

For last month’s entry, check here: Hardcore Photo Gallery September 2005.

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Slow Down
Posted:Oct 18, 2005 10:12 pm
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2006 6:34 pm
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Part I

My blog exploded this past weekend. That was the tipping point. I made some decisions after that.

No, this secret blog is not shutting down. Nothing that hasty.

But another change of direction is here.

Since June, this blog has shifted into weekday mode. Generally, readers could find new material here on most work days. Sometimes more often.

That is not a high rate compared to the most popular bloggers who often post several items daily. But it was a higher rate than how this blog started. Originally, this blog was conceived as somewhere to post weekly, sometimes more. And we are headed back in that direction.

The technical problems are just one of the reasons for this decision.

I decided it was no longer fun while wading through the blog this weekend. The technical glitches caused about 60 comments that I had killed since the end of July to deposit themselves back in these pages. I think I have killed them all again. These were either tests on graphics and pictures, or they were postings that had problems with content of one type or another. All of these were my comments. But when they all appeared again it was as if all the garbage you had hauled out of your home for ten weeks suddenly reappeared in your basement.

But other problems persist. There are at least a handful of comments I cannot see. This problem is not new. I have written about it before. (See: The Invisible Comment.) However, I have no way to know if these are new comments or old ones resurrected by the glitches. Usually, I respond to most comments. Not seeing these makes me wonder if some folks will think I am just being cold and not finishing conversations. I would rather not have that concern.

(The remainder of this post will continue inside.)
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Advisory #8
Posted:Oct 14, 2005 4:16 pm
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2006 6:32 pm
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This series began on April 30. Other posts on can be found by tracing backward through the last posting on Sept. 9, Advisory 7. All members noted here have been reported prior to this posting.

My search on the site has ended, so the list of prostitutes I find has shrunk accordingly. However, watchful readers have been mailing me with their reports and that has replenished our warning report.

Since the last advisory, the administrators have closed the profile of sexxicheyanne.

However, as with weeds, it seems three spring up for every one you pull.

Courtesans

This month’s new hookers are based in New York, Virginia, and Missouri and are fairly easy to spot.

va_golddigger The sub-heading of the profile for va_golddigger says it all: “Single Black Female seeking Older & Generous Man.”

Here’s what she writes in her profile:

Ideal Person:

A very Financially-Secure and Generous older gentleman that likes to have fun. More specifically, I am seeking a Sugardaddy type relationship.


The code about generosity and sugardaddies should be enough of a clue as to the pay-for-play rules here.

carmel12005 Out in Missouri, carmel12005 takes the game up a notch because she also has a blog where she is quite explicit about her needs and demands. Her profile is rather detailed, but in a way meant to throw someone off the track. There are a few key phrases in her profile however:

I am not stuck up and not a , but for the ones trying to make this a game no-no! You can't bullshit me....

I am like the casinos in MO $500 every 2 hours, thank you very much.


A bit contradictory, no? Read her blog and make your own determinations, but I’m confident any exchange of cash for sex makes someone a .

In New York, courtesansweetie doesn’t have a picture on her profile but she is direct in her blog and in her profile. Here’s what she writes, verbatim:

Ideal Person:
A generous gentleman who is senstive and caring about my finicial needs.


Blogs

Besides carmel12005 and courtesansweetie you can read about the exploits of other courtesans on the site even after their profiles have been terminated. The most popular is the blog from [blog Faith0713]. And there is also the questionable blog of [blog sxyasbtch96].

Questionable Profiles

In the past few weeks, this blog has featured a number of entries about questionable profiles, based upon the similarity of profile shots. (For more see: Twins & Clones.) It remains unclear whether one of the profiles in those entries is using purloined pictures or whether both profiles are suspect, but we include all of them on the questionable list for those who may have an interest, to move cautiously. The suspect pictures include these:

sexylatina4u2c2nycsophietumio2yy

Watchlist

Currently, you can find courtesans on this watch list in New York, Virginia and Missouri.

Courtesans
1. bigbreasts2002
2. va_golddigger
3. carmel12005
4. courtesansweetie

Questionable Profiles
5. nycsophie
6. tumio2yy
7. sexylatina4u2c2
8. Alli_Baby_

Just remember: be careful out there!

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JAMMED UP!
Posted:Oct 12, 2005 9:49 pm
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2006 6:23 pm
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MY APOLOGIES, BUT...

...this blog is not responsible for the odd technical glitches on this site!

Let me explain what I mean.

Some of you may have come looking for [post 116236], which was originally in this spot. That post is designed with three sections: one on the blog’s front page, and two sections in the comment section. However, the comments fell off that post three times before I decided to give up on it. Also, at times, the post would only take one comment; the second one would not file. So an unsuccessful attempt was made at posting with two sections. But as some of us have learned, posts with intensive graphics and instructions really need to be in multiple parts or all in one long post on the front blogpage.

In a way, this is also an experiment. Your frustrated author/editor wondered if that electronic spot on the blog was somehow damaged and perhaps moving the material elsewhere might help.

Also, your frustrated author has waited more than 19 hours for some posts to clear the censors and administrators this week. The combination of long waits and then comments that disappear after the waiting have made me consider drastic action: such as shutting the blog down altogether or going on hiatus until the technical items are fixed. These frustrations are not only centered here: comments on the discussion boards, on other blogs, and in this blog have all disappeared in the past few days.

Which calls into question the purpose of my writing here in the first place. If what I write cannot be seen or does not stay, and I am no longer using the site for anything other than written interaction, then what is the point? Perhaps others have a creative answer to that.

I am not the only blogger experiencing these difficulties. Keith and others (See: Illusionary Comments) have written about the technical problems too.

How long before these blogjams and comment viruses cease?

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(The post originally in this position was flagged by the censors and never appeared on the main blog board. That post has now been reposted ahead of this explanation.)
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Clones
Posted:Oct 12, 2005 12:10 pm
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2006 6:19 pm
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This is another in our occasional series* on questionable profiles.

For whatever reasons, the duplicates on this site are becoming more apparent. Normally, this item could have waited until one of the regular warning reports issued on this blog. However, sexylatina4u2c2 has been featured here too prominently for that.

sexylatina4u2c2 She has shown up in several of our photo reviews. (See: Top Female Profile Photos Round Two; Top Female Profile Photos August 2005; and Top Female Profile Photos September 2005.) Although she seemingly disappeared from the site in June, I did get a short e-mail from her once. She basically said, thanks for checking me out. That’s unusual with questionable profiles so she was not on the suspect list.

That is until the recent discovery of Alli_Baby_, all the way across the continent.

Alli_Baby_sexylatina4u2c2

As you can see, the photos are clones, although the profiles are different. How disappointing.

*For more on questionable profiles see: Too Good to be True & Twins.

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Top Female Profile Photos: October 2005*
Posted:Oct 7, 2005 12:35 pm
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2006 2:52 pm
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Welcome to our monthly eye candy review. Interested in last month? See: Top Female Profile Photos September 2005.

The October List

fantaceelady My new favorite is fantaceelady. What can I say, except: she shows why I have a weakness for women with large areolas. Love that pose.

hotlick363 This just shows that blondes with tan lines can look very tasty. Now, I just want to take hotlick363 to the beach or some other place where I can watch her curves in action.

DreamMaker0000 No list seems complete without our perennial favorite DreamMaker0000. She may be moving down the rankings but she looks as scrumptious as ever.

BustyWanda Last month’s chart topper, BustyWanda takes a tumble down the list too. For those who like soft curvy women who feel comfortable in lingerie or leather, here she is in her glory.

zswade For those who like to do it in the tub, like me, zswade certainly gives you ideas. Wouldn’t you like to volunteer to soap her up?

*This time we have a special guest appearance in the feature photo box for this entry by [blog feel_my_heat], one of the top regional bloggers in the DC-area. Although [blog feel_my_heat] was featured prominently in the first one of these listings (See: Top Female Profile Photos) I feel a bit squeamish ranking my online friends. Instead, we put her in a more prominent place.

(Feel free to list or post your own choices in the comment section.)

Disclaimers

1. These are personal choices. With a site as big as this one, it is impossible to winnow the list to just the top five. My apologies in advance if you feel skipped over or if your favorite was missed. If you have favorites that were passed over, post them.

2. I have excluded all of the women with the most popular profiles (you see them enough already) and the top female bloggers (for the same reason).

3. My choices are strictly based on profile shots, not other pictures available here.

4. I cannot vouch for any of these profiles. I do not know if they are real or fake, but they have not crossed my radar as questionable yet.

5. I'm here to celebrate the eye candy on the site, not to tick anyone off. If you do not have a sense of humor or you do not like to play with what is on the site, you are not required to look or participate.

6. Does anyone besides wyvernrose read disclaimers? Why? Did anyone make it to the end of this list? Ever try reading the fine print like they read the disclaimers on the radio?


Enjoy! And have a great weekend!

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(This entry NEVER appeared on the main blogboard due to an afternoon blogjam on Oct. 7, but this author chose not to repost.)
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Indie & Hiatus
Posted:Oct 7, 2005 7:28 am
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2006 2:50 pm
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After the next entry, this blog will be on hiatus until your friendly author returns from a business trip to Indianapolis. We should be back sometime next week with the usual mix of music, football, voyeuristic noodlings and memoirs. Please feel free to leave your suggestions here. We do play requests for those who are patient. Later today, we will leave you with this month’s profile photo gallery to tide you over. Have a great weekend!

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(This entry NEVER appeared on the main blogboard due to a morning blogjam on Oct. 7, but this author chose not to repost.)
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Return of the Strippers
Posted:Oct 6, 2005 5:42 pm
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2006 2:48 pm
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At one time or another, some men, myself included, have fantasies about strippers. Go to a strip club and fantasies aren’t far behind. Some of us go through a strip club and stripper phase. (For more details, see: [post 20591].) Luckily, that phase is behind me. Until I had a relationship with a stripper, met her friends, and got behind the veil of secrecy that separates stripper from panting customer, I don’t think I could have ever pierced the power of that fantasy.

Which brings me back to the topic of strippers on this website.

Yes, they are here! (This blog touched on this topic originally in the entry: Strippers.) And you have to wonder: why?

From my experience, these women can have any man who walks into a club where they work. Or any man who works at that club. And considering how they often look, any man they meet.

So why use this website?

Take for instance, partygul69. partygul69

Here’s an excerpt from her profile, verbatim:

Profile for partygul69:

i am single and looking!
i really like having sex and drinking a lil 2.
oh yea i am a stripper, hope u dont mind.


Ideal Person:

i need a hott guy who knows what hes doing!!!
he also need a huge DICK if not then leave me alone.
i love to stripp for everyone, even girl once in a whole.


I know what some will say: stop questioning the reason they are here and just enjoy the scenery. However, I still have questions.

Update
TropicalSiren In the original entry on this topic, there was speculation that TropicalSiren might be a stripper. Her pictures, inconsistent activity on the site, and her moving prompted that speculation. (No confirmation, because she has never returned any mail to this writer.) She has just completed her second cross-continental move in the past six months: moving from Virginia to Oregon and now to New Jersey. Just another unsolved mystery.

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Slot Machine Jackpot!
Posted:Oct 3, 2005 8:03 am
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2006 2:41 pm
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Ever since I made the blogging board’s slot machine of fame for the first time in August, I’ve been waiting for the perfect fantasy combination. This past weekend, it finally came up:

frogger1995


I will be smiling for a long time, just contemplating that fantasy get-together!


(Look inside for more great possible combinations that were almost as good from the past two months.)

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