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Stayin togethere for the 's sake....Is Bullshit!!! 2/14/2006
How many people do you know that are miserable in their relationships,
and are "staying together for the "?
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That is shit.... If you are misable, and fighting,
the will know! No matter how discrete you are about
your dissagreements, they know.
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All you are doing, is teaching them that love is arguing,
and tension! value system is based on what they learn
from ...
2 Comments, 121 Views,
9 Votes
,2.36 Score
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Don't get hooked up with an alcoholic, even if you are one... 2/14/2006
I met a nice(I thought) little gal several months ago. We
met in a bar that I was currently enjoying myself in, after
work. We had a lot of laughs together and we got along just
great. She invited me to crash at her place that night, and
she directed me into a room, with a mattress on the floor.
That was actually OK with me... I couldn't drive at
this point. She woke me up quite early in ...
0 Comments, 184 Views,
6 Votes
,4.22 Score
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together for the wrong reasons? 2/13/2006
I find myself breaking up with women, but i always seem to
want to be with them again, mainly for the sex....i actually
enjoy sex more with an ex than i do with her when i was dating
her...is this common?
0 Comments, 179 Views,
6 Votes
,0.23 Score
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breaking up!its not the end! 2/11/2006
Breaking is not the end of your life and happiness.Face
the world and be brave!
3 Comments, 168 Views,
16 Votes
,2.39 Score
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Breaking Up Is Hard 2/11/2006
The best thing about a relationship is the chemistry and
fun in the bedroom but when thats all done and gone then theres
nothing left to do but break up. This can be a hard time for
some people, I know it was for me but we just have to realize
that our pain will heal with time. Nothing is going to make
you feel better except time. This whole, lets be friends
thing, is bullshit. It doesnt ...
0 Comments, 112 Views,
10 Votes
,2.99 Score
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hey 2/8/2006
Hye just do the damn thing
0 Comments, 45 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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left for another 2/6/2006
I don't know why it is so well documented in songs and
poetry, but why is it that when two people fall in love and
they hit it off I mean like they were twins for Gods sake.
Why is it so sad when one leaves the other without any warning
or reason? We spent the past two years plus (2 1/2) talking
about "the rest of our lives" I was fully head
over heels in love and she acted the same way ...
1 Comments, 113 Views,
6 Votes
,0.80 Score
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break up with a letter 2/5/2006
I was given a dear john letter from the women I spent the past
19 yrs with. Was I in for a surprise. I thought it was a letter
of love. How could I have missed the signs. We rarely fought,
had great sex, laughed a lot, had fun. It seems she is having
a mid-life crisis now that she is 40. 6 months ago I packed
up my life and moved across the country so she could be near
her family. I gave up ...
3 Comments, 163 Views,
8 Votes
,3.48 Score
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whats the best way to break up 2/3/2006
a couple months ago, i decided that i just wasnt happy with
my relationship, so i cooked my boyfriend dinner, then
i give him a massage ran him some nice hot bathwater, and
even had sex with him. adn after all was said and done i broke
the news and told him that it was over. he was really crushed,
was i wrong
2 Comments, 94 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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I thought we were broke up 2/2/2006
I never wanted to be in a relationship in the first fucking
place. Me and my roommate started dating out of convenience.
This sux cos I didnt even know when we started dating. We
were roommates/fuck buddies. Then he started getting
jealous about all types of bullshit. His friends liked
to kick it around me n he never came out the crib. So why wouldnt
they kick it around me. Im a cool ...
1 Comments, 173 Views,
8 Votes
,2.32 Score
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What Would You Do? 1/30/2006
Blithe Spirit 2006 posted an article and it got me to thinking
about a variation on her hypothetical question that someone
told me about.
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What would you do if you met someone through this site and
started having what you thought would be a long term relationship
and possible marriage only to find out from a fried that
the person you were involved with had reactivated their ...
2 Comments, 131 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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You know what needs to be done...Just do it!!! 1/30/2006
I hear this issue come up with so many defferent people,
so I thought I'd put in my 2 cents...
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So many people know their relationship is over (and probabably
has been for quite a while), but they think it will get easier
if they wait... Or they want their significant other to
make a mistake, and give them an excuse... You can't
keep ignoring the problem!! You just end up ...
0 Comments, 404 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
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Is ID confirmation safe? 1/29/2006
With all of the ID theft issues out there... I'm a little
concerned about sending in a copy of my photo ID. Most on-line
sites let you verify your ID with a credit card...
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Has anyone had any problems?
2 Comments, 87 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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It's the bravest thing I've ever done. 1/27/2006
We were both way too young when we met. For both of us it was
our first relationship. After college, when you start
working, life changes. Our lives changed in very different
ways. It's sad, but there's no reason to spend
the rest of your life with someone you don't get along
with all that well, is there? But it took me 3 years to realize
this. 7 1/2 years sharing our lives together. 5 ...
1 Comments, 161 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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Am I the bad guy or is my wife crazy? 1/26/2006
Thank you to all who comment or read this.
First off my wife and I have been married for 13 years, 2 boys
13 and 7, house dogs the whole bit.
We have been swinging for 7 years and no real problems have
come of it. But now last friday night I caught her in bed with
her best friends husband. They were seperated and divorcing.
Her best friend told her to go for it if she wanted, she said ...
3 Comments, 382 Views,
11 Votes
,3.54 Score
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Trying to move on 1/26/2006
So I am finding it difficult to fully move on from a past relationship
that lasted for almost 2 1/2 years. Has anyone else had this
problem? I do care for her still, but she has her guard up
and doesnt want us to try "us" again so I have
accepted that and attempted to move on. My main problem
is that I lost a lot of my confidence after the break up. I
got comfortable with being in a ...
1 Comments, 127 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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How do you tell someone you dont wanna b with them anymore 1/25/2006
Questions in the title.
0 Comments, 161 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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Is breaking up really hard to do? 1/25/2006
In my opinion it is one of the hardest things that any one
person can do. I have been in a relationship for quite a long
time now, three years to be exact. I love her still, but I
just don't feel the same way I did when we were going
out two years ago. One part of it is that she moved about 400
miles away to go to school, the other being she changed.
I wouldn't say in a bad way, but just in ...
1 Comments, 206 Views,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score
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Is this fair? 1/24/2006
I agreed with my partner not to visit a certain bar because
it caused a rift between us and because I was doing my best
to cut down on my drinking. He disagreed with the amount
of time I spent there and did not like the 'friends'
I got along with.
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I did my best to stick to this agreement, to the point that
my partner and I got back together after splitting up for
a few ...
5 Comments, 347 Views,
10 Votes
,3.19 Score
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10 Husbands, Still a Virgin 1/24/2006
A lawyer married a woman who had previously divorced ten
husbands.
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On their wedding night, she told her new husband, "Please
be gentle, I'm still a virgin."
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"What?" said the puzzled groom.
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"How can that be if you've been married ten times?"
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"Well, Husband #1 was a sales representative: he
kept telling me how great it was ...
2 Comments, 244 Views,
23 Votes
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why sould it be hard to break up? 1/21/2006
you meet some one you like, hopefully you become friends,
you discover want to be more, and you have sex togher but
after a while you see that you are both looking for something
else? to me as long as you have always been honest with one
another, breaking up sould bnot really be all that hard
to do, i would say that I am still friendly with every woman
I ever dated, some have moved away, ...
0 Comments, 54 Views,
1 Votes
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It's never easy... 1/20/2006
Whenever someone tells you that "you know, it wasn't
you... it was me" or "you're much too cool
for me" or "i want to go in another direction"
then you know it's goin to be a breakup... it sucks when
they don't tell you what really went wrong. I think
they owe it to you to be honest, even for just once... it will
hurt but at least you will learn from it instead of wondering
"what the hell ...
0 Comments, 81 Views,
6 Votes
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it scks 1/20/2006
don't care who you are there is no easy way to brake up....hell
it it was this world would be one prefect place...
0 Comments, 65 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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why 1/18/2006
why is it so hard breaking up with a girl friend?
1 Comments, 139 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Cutting off 1/17/2006
the whole "can we still be friends line" is crap.
It can't work because a good breakup is a rare. Once
u have broken the other person off, make sure u stay broken.
Still talking to your ex will only bring about unnecessary
drama.
2 Comments, 255 Views,
12 Votes
,2.98 Score
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Directness 1/17/2006
The best way to break up is a direct approach but not in public.
Don't feel obligated to continue to be in the relationship
if the thrill is gone. U probably will feel like a bastard
for making her cry, but u have to think about what's
good for u.
0 Comments, 138 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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Why is it...... 1/15/2006
Why is it when you plan the perfect rendezvous and everything
you planned goes accordingly, you even have a wonderfully
passionate night in bed together.....why is it you can
never get her to return your calls?
I mean, Im not stalking her or anything, but come on. I'm
a good looking guy!
2 Comments, 241 Views,
10 Votes
,2.79 Score
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What makes it so hard? 1/15/2006
I have a problem.I tried to break up with my girlfriend of
just over a year yesterday and couldnt even get the words
out of my mouth. so needless to say i am still with her. how
do i let her go without tearing her heart out?
5 Comments, 145 Views,
8 Votes
,2.09 Score
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Words from Dr. T Continued 1/13/2006
Continued from five stages
Making clumsy, half-hearted attempts- One day you refuse
to see him or her, make up excuse to break a date, and in a roundabout
way that no one could possibly decipher say that you want
out. Then two days latter you want a playmate to go to the
movies with and call your nearly ex love entrust. You put
off your planes for braking up for the present.
<br> ...
0 Comments, 214 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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words from dr. T 1/12/2006
From stat to finish, breakups are comprised of at least
five stages ‒ unless the romance ends in an unexpected explosion
of emotion.
The first three----
The Awakening-The period of awakening is characterized
by the end of the infatuation, a drop of attraction, a loss
of excitement of being together, and the onset of reality.
The problems, deficiencies, and differences that seemed ...
0 Comments, 335 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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