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ITS NOT HARD TO DO 11/18/2005
many ways to do it, phone, email IM . What do you think is best?
I prefer to do it in person but im old fashion in that way
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Friends 11/16/2005
when u break up should u stay friends
1 Comments, 104 Views,
7 Votes
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why so hard 11/15/2005
why is it so hard to get out and get back into the game after
you have been through a bad break up? is it that i'm afraid
of getting hurt?
1 Comments, 85 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score |
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? 11/12/2005
when u break up with some 1 do u say we can still b friends
1 Comments, 229 Views,
4 Votes
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How far is too far???? 11/10/2005
We all know divorce can be tough especially when there is
a involved. My question/comment comes from a recent
situation I was in. My wife and I had been getting on each
others nerves for quite some time. It became obvious that
nobody was happy in the relationship. So I stepped to her
like a man and told her I wanted to end the relationship and
move on. She replied that she was thinking the ...
5 Comments, 272 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score |
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"The Breaks!" 11/7/2005
I am a 25 year old female who has only had one real relationship
in my life, I met him when I was 20 he was working at his parents
restaurant and I was taking a lunch break from taking my
drivers test at the DMV across the street. He was cleaning
all the tables around me hundreds of times till he finally
asked me out and I said YES!!! After chatting him up on and
off all that day I returned ...
4 Comments, 195 Views,
12 Votes
,3.33 Score |
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Is sex important? 11/6/2005
I really dont have a very horny girlfriend, but she is so
great in every other way. For this reason i am seeking out
this site to meet someone for just sex.
I wonder how many other people are in this position
0 Comments, 153 Views,
2 Votes
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Wish that it could have worked 11/4/2005
The potential for THE relationship of relationships was
there. Lots of things in common, a common goal, a long courtship,
a longing for one another, etc.etc. etc.
<br>
But, for whatever reason, things went south, many of which
you've cited publicly. It's apparent, according
to you, that I did not live up to your expectations. For that,
I offer an apology. I tried my best, and under ...
0 Comments, 140 Views,
4 Votes
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I thought I had the power of goodbye! 11/4/2005
I managed to get out of both my long term relationships but
I find my current one of only 4 months difficult to let go.
With the earlier two, love was apparent almost immediately
but with this one, neither of us have even uttered the words.
The problems we are experiencing are on-going and started
just 2 months into the relationship. All the signs tell
me this will never work. I've tried to ...
4 Comments, 224 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score |
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6 years gone... 11/3/2005
Just broke up after 6 years...boy it sucks...I wonder if
its a bad thing to screw my ex...any thoughts??
0 Comments, 105 Views,
6 Votes
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hmm 11/3/2005
derka
0 Comments, 128 Views,
2 Votes
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do it now 11/2/2005
because breaking up is hard to do
0 Comments, 157 Views,
3 Votes
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breaking up 11/2/2005
i cant stand breaking up
thats the worst part of the relationship...lol
1 Comments, 97 Views,
4 Votes
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Is there any easy (moral & acceptable way) to break up? 11/2/2005
if there is can someone let me know or share experiences..
or is it always hard after long term relationships?
1 Comments, 94 Views,
2 Votes
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Why Does Love Have To Hurt 11/1/2005
You go through your life being abused and hurt and then you
find the "Mr. Right". Instantly you know that
he is everything that you have wanted and your "Knight
In Shining Armor" You devote your whole life to him
and forsake any other men and you think that you are the one
and only one for him. Then you learn that you are not the one
and only because he has another woman. You cry and ...
3 Comments, 286 Views,
11 Votes
,3.35 Score |
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Why does ove suck so bad?? 11/1/2005
Just broke up with the first girl I hae ever truely loved
about 3 weeks ago....man I tell yea this shit sucks...I
broke up with her but the feeling of being apart is a bitch
and I am not sure if I will ever give my heart away again....
0 Comments, 108 Views,
2 Votes
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2005-10-31
Those are the words that my wife of 15yrs told me just a month
ago.I`ve been lied to for at least the last year of our marriage,
so
it seemed even more of a coincedence that she left me dangling
for about a month and finaaly made her decision about our
future just 3 days after all the bills were paid for the month...neat
huh?
I also am going through the greiving process and it`s hard
to understand this whole thing.
She has told mutual friends that she wished I was a cheater
or abusive or a gambler, a bad Dad, or a drunk, so she would
at least have a good reason besides the fact that she "Fell
out of Love"
I did unfortunately work 3 jobs in order to keep up with our
bills and one of the jobs involved working as a traveling
musician, but only working about 50 to 60 dates a year.
The problem was she had grown used to me being gone and decided
that she was tired of taking care of everything when I was
away.It caused resentment and the resentment caused the
falling out of love.
My 10 yr old daughter, I`m afraid will be the one who will
suffer the most, as her world has unexpectedly been turned
upside down.I feel like I let her down by being away and causing
her Mom to fall out of love.
So in closing, be honest with your mate, and live your
life together like it might be your last together....because
one way or another someday it will be.
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Would you join a group... 10/31/2005
Dear Senior Sizzle members;
<br>
How many of you would be willing to join a discussion group,
where the membership requirements are. That you must be
willing to go with a current group member or the group’s
moderator, for free and anonymous HIV testing (say within
thirty 30 days from joining the group) and share your test
results with each other to prove that you are both HIV ...
1 Comments, 225 Views,
3 Votes
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Bipolar Man? 10/30/2005
Met a wonderful man here on Senior Sizzle. Thought things were great.
Neither of us were looking for commitment (I thought),
but a series of new, non-judgemental friends. That was
all I ever wanted.
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I was a little surprised, how speedily things advanced,
friendship-wise. Particularily since he claimed strong
feelings for me, far before I would admit to anything. Guess
I belong ...
2 Comments, 231 Views,
8 Votes
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broke up 10/29/2005
most of you know me as ihornyru72 that account was deleted
by my ex boyfriend and that is what caused the break up we
was in an open relationship you know he can play with others
and i can play with others and if we liked a couple we swap
or 3 somes whatever but now i find myself very pissed at him
he had no reason to delete my account any suggestions for
revenge " my new account ...
1 Comments, 104 Views,
2 Votes
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man breaking up is a bitch 10/29/2005
i just got out of what i guess u could call a relation ship
but none the it still sucks , that saying everything happens
4 a reason , tis better to have loved and lost well all i can
say is try it
0 Comments, 181 Views,
3 Votes
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dont do it this way 10/28/2005
i told my wife that i was cheating on her while i was tripping
so my mood kept on swinging and cause a four hour in depth
discription of how i cheated and where and everything .
i dont suggest it
0 Comments, 218 Views,
7 Votes
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Things may seem bleak 10/27/2005
Things may seem bleak now but you never know what the future
may hold for you and your ex. You may get back together someday.
You may not. Either way it is better to let go of a faltering
relationship while there is still some caring left between
the two of you. If you play it out to the bitter end and leave
your ex no choice but to hate you to get rid of you, you close
the door to the ...
1 Comments, 195 Views,
7 Votes
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Nobody ever deserves to be hurt. 10/27/2005
Nobody ever deserves to be hurt. Your ex does not deserve
to be hurt because you are hurting. Your ex's new love
interest (if one even exists) does not deserve to be hurt
just because you feel jealous. You do not deserve to be hurt,
even if you acted badly and caused the break up. Breaking
up hurts, but it doesn't have to be made worse by holding
a grudge or drowning yourself in a pool of ...
1 Comments, 207 Views,
5 Votes
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When do I tell her 10/24/2005
I have realized I love my wife...but I am no longer IN LOVE
with her. Do I tell her before or after the holidays????
and How do I go about telling her? She is already in counseling
for depression, being negative, and pessimistic....but
on meds. IS there a decent way to get it across??
2 Comments, 255 Views,
5 Votes
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Acting out in anger is never good for anybody 10/23/2005
Acting out in anger is never good for anybody. After being
broken up with don't spread mean or spiteful rumors.
Don't betray former confidences by telling old secrets
to others. If another person was involved in your break
up resist the urge to slam them behind their back. Acting
vicious only makes you look bad and any satisfaction you
may feel will be short lived. In the end this sort of ...
1 Comments, 163 Views,
7 Votes
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one of the parties starting a new relationship 10/23/2005
Break ups are often followed by one of the parties starting
a new relationship and when this happens it can bring up
all sorts of old feelings. If you thought you were over someone
who broke up with you and find yourself upset at the news
that s/he has moved on, rest assured you are normal. Let
yourself be upset, it is part of the healing process.
0 Comments, 98 Views,
5 Votes
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When is it really enough? 10/19/2005
I met this guy in college and the first time I laid eyes on
him I knew I had to have him. I was too shy to approach him so
I was hoping he would notice me. He finally did and we started
dating. Four months later I found out he had a girlfriend
and they were together a few months before we started dating.
I left him alone for obvious reasons and soon after they
broke up. I let him back ...
1 Comments, 162 Views,
4 Votes
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is all right to cry 10/19/2005
It is all right to cry, get mad and feel hurt when you are dumped.
These are normal natural feelings. Just be sure that you
let your feelings out in a safe place among friends or family.
Do not make your ex the target of your feelings, even if they
have done something to deserve your outrage. The sooner
you let go of the other person, the sooner the healing can
begin.
0 Comments, 203 Views,
4 Votes
,5.57 Score |
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Being broken up with does not mean that there is something wrong with you 10/17/2005
Being broken up with does not mean that there is something
wrong with you; it just means that there is something that
is not working in the relationship. Try not to take the rejection
too personally. Remember that lots of great people have
had failed relationships - the fact that the relationships
failed says nothing about their value as a person. The fact
that your relationship failed ...
1 Comments, 105 Views,
8 Votes
,3.94 Score |