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Resist this urge!!!!!!! 10/16/2005
Nobody likes to hurt another person, especially somebody
they have been close to, and it is often very easy to guilt
trip somebody into staying with you when they are trying
to end things. Resist this urge! When you use guilt as a way
to stop a break up you not only cheat yourself out of having
a good and true relationship, you foster resentment in
the other person which could lead to ...
0 Comments, 403 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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He is Here too, but we are over it... 10/15/2005
We broke up, our relationship is over.That what he told
me in his email and in his blog.And i am his Xgirlfriend.
Yet I am no more his so call co-owner in some groups that we
have build years together.Yet this is not the point. The
thing is We are still looking at each other's work, words
or profiles each time we are in the internet or in that certain
website.But deep inside, i can feel ...
7 Comments, 370 Views,
13 Votes
,3.81 Score
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A Question for Men 10/12/2005
Ladies, I don't mean to cut you out of this one, but none
of us really knows the answer. I met a man here 4 yrs. ago.
I wasn't looking for love, hell I wasn't even looking
for a conventional date, just sex. Well we hit if off immediately.
The sex was mind blowing, our intelligence levels matched.
We had fun, fun, fun, almost all of the time but when it was
time to be serious, we were. ...
4 Comments, 615 Views,
13 Votes
,5.16 Score
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b1 10/12/2005
More often than not, breaking up is as hard on the person
ending the relationship as it is on the person being broken
up with - don't assume just because a person is breaking
up with you means that they no longer care about you, caring
about you and wanting a relationship with you are not one
and the same.
0 Comments, 292 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Ways To Hold On 10/10/2005
First off let me state that I have no professional training
in the way of relationships or the human psyche. My knowledge
comes strictly from experience. While it’s not backed
by a degree it is genuine. My advice may come across as rambling
and while I understand you will not take everything I have
to say with you, I do hope that you walk away with one or two
new ideas to help your ...
3 Comments, 258 Views,
12 Votes
,5.63 Score
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break up? 10/7/2005
How do you break up with someone you really love for no good
reason? Any suggestions?
3 Comments, 354 Views,
6 Votes
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Only the Lonely Know 10/4/2005
We met in college, married, had , sent them off to college
and then started swinging. When our first was barely
a year old, we had a 3some with a guy we met. It was fun. He was
well endowed also, and she enjoyed being, as she put it "wore
out". About 3 days later, with my blessings, she fucked
him again. Then we never did anything else but reminese
and talk about how good it had been.
...
1 Comments, 367 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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Never Again 10/2/2005
I met my last girlfriend in a 12-step recovery meeting in
February of 2003. I asked her out and she immediately gave
me her phone number before the meeting was over. Laster
that afternoon I called her and we went to a movie and then
took a drive in the mountains. We drove up to about 14, 000
feet in the dark in a snowstorm. My vehicle was new at the
time and was Christened properly that ...
3 Comments, 219 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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To Screw or not To Screw??? 9/29/2005
So I broke up with my last girlfriend about a year ago but
we are great Friends. The question is this, the sex is incredible
(and I'm not just saying that because I've had
MORE than my fair share) and we have somehow fell into the
"Friends with befits zone"! Now don't
get me wrong, that is all good, but I think she is substituting
the sex for the past relationship. Do you think it's ...
4 Comments, 349 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score
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You Won't Believe This One! 9/27/2005
When I first heard about it, I thought that thouhght that
it was just a joke. But it wasn't a joke. On October 24,
2005, over 3 milion men nation-wide have agreed to...
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break up with their girlfriends/wives on the first ever
"NATIONAL DUMP YOUR WOMAN DAY." aka "DUMP-DAY."
This is an idea that was created by an international group
called "10 SOCIETY, " that is dedicated to ...
4 Comments, 443 Views,
18 Votes
,2.85 Score
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TELL THE TRUTH! 9/25/2005
How can people say that people should be let down easily?
People need to be let down harshly. Its easier just to be
told "I dont like" you then to be told "you're
really nice but...." where the "but"
can be followed by any one of hundreds of possibilities.
The absolute worst is when they claim "we can still
be friends" because 99% of the time they wont actually
remain friends with you ...
1 Comments, 150 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score
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a work in progress... 9/13/2005
Light from a street lamp streamed in the window as she lay
quietly in bed. She looked at the ceiling and thought about
all that had happened in the past eight days. She was at home-well,
it was her parent's home-but she thought of it as hers.
She looked the her room and thought about her life. About
the tiny life growing inside her, and him-the father of
the . He was coming to get her ...
0 Comments, 236 Views,
7 Votes
,3.80 Score
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ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!! 9/10/2005
Hello all,
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Here's a bit of a break-up/ rant-n-rave all bundled
into one.
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I've been politely, but firmly asked to apologize
for being me or it's off...
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"Well, don't let the door hit you in the ass."
was my direct response.
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Over the past year he's said the following:
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"I fall for the really screwed up girls." (Apparently, ...
2 Comments, 264 Views,
14 Votes
,5.22 Score
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More than once. 9/9/2005
I've recently, in the last couple of years anyway had
a relationship with a girl that was young and not really
the most stable person. You know the issues. But she sure
was fun. So I put up with some of the crap that you normally
do in a relationship to make it work and then some. We we're
together for about 2 years and in that time we had split up
about 4 times with the 4th being the last ...
0 Comments, 251 Views,
8 Votes
,2.55 Score
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What's a BITCH 2 do? 9/4/2005
Hey, I have a question, if u meet a girl that is cool people
2 be around but u r not just into her in a sexual way and u tell
her that "we can be cool friends and hang out or whatever
but as 4 sex between us that shit is not going 2 happen b/c
im not feeling u like that" ain't that kinda straight
2 the fucking point? Well I guess not because I meet this
girl through another friend of mine ...
2 Comments, 119 Views,
7 Votes
,1.51 Score
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how do you recover 9/4/2005
ok here's the story i was married for 5 years together
almost six, 3 years ago we had some problems and split for
6 months but still dated during this time he started an affair
with coworker, i moved back in after 6 months both agreed
to work things out only he was still seeing her a couple months
pass now i'm pregnant all durning pregnancy he affair
didn't end(i was clueless) then when my ...
2 Comments, 339 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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Easiest Way 9/1/2005
I've never had a problem breaking off a relationship
with someone. Or for that matter, having someone break
one off with me.
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I've always tried to be honest about what I exoect from
the relationship from the beginning. That way, there really
is no surprise if it doesn't work out.
0 Comments, 236 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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How do you convince yourself there's something else to move onto? 9/1/2005
Ive recently broken up from a 2 yr relationship, well actually
i was dumped for her ex which she had always admitted she
couldnt cut from her life as a friend. To say I was "in
love" with this woman doesnt seem to sum up the enormity
of my feelings for her, I literally worshipped her and for
a while we had it great. You know how you have a mental check
list of the things you'd like in your ...
8 Comments, 189 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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Break-ups... Painful, but not the End... 8/31/2005
Having been married almost five years (with a two year engagement
prior) I thought things were going great. I never would
have guessed just how far from the truth I really was.
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My ex-wife came to me two months before our five year anniversary
and told me she wanted to separate, to figure out exactly
what she wanted.
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Naturally I overreacted a little, it was as ...
0 Comments, 196 Views,
5 Votes
,5.75 Score
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breaking up is so easy to do 8/30/2005
As I think back on my last relationship, I realized leaving
him was the best thing to do. He was rude, critical, and all
together mean at all times. He was 37 me 21 so age diff made
a big prob. He was retired from the military. 16 years of
it made him very precise about everything and when things
did not go his way he huffed and puffed about it. It went to
the extreme about everything not ...
4 Comments, 160 Views,
9 Votes
,4.07 Score
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thrown under the bus 8/27/2005
Been with a girl for 2 years, but she meets a 30-something
from Spain ("i hail from spain, sir" - chuckle)
and decides that's what she wants. Talk about getting
thrown under the bus!! How are women so beautifl and kind,
as well as such skilled torture artists? I'll never
know....
0 Comments, 209 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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A Slow Tumble Down The Hill ! 8/26/2005
I'v known this guy for almost all my life.Went to primary
school with him but we never had anything going.He was like
three grade ahead of me. We were just pals, neighbours
for years. They moved. We didnt see for over ten years. He
went to high school in some other city and i was still in this
city. We met again in university. he had started university
someplace else and problems with his ...
2 Comments, 312 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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moving on 8/23/2005
what does it take to keep your mind from think about that
past relationship .You know u did the right thing but hard
to move on to something new . What do you think?
0 Comments, 154 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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Another Sad, Sad Break Up Story 8/22/2005
Kristine Slaterback, AKA Kristine Allen and Jeff Kujat
are no more. My heart was broken again for a second time by
the same woman Auagust 15th, 2005. We first met Iin April
of '99 through a silly little Yahoo personal ad...Sweet
Teddybear Seeks Friend To Cuddle, said the headline. She
said she liked teddybears and the rest is history. It was
love at first sight, never in my life have I met ...
1 Comments, 181 Views,
9 Votes
,5.14 Score
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How does one move on 8/20/2005
Ok i was with my g/f for 6 months known eachother for 9 months.
Anyway we broke up like 3 weeks ago and im trying to figure
out how to get over her. I mean i have tried cutting her out
completely she just wont let me, i tried just being friends
but i get jealous, how can i move on if all i think about is
her. I mean i did love her so how can i get over her.
4 Comments, 291 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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What not yo do 8/20/2005
A day before our anniversary it was a gut feeling i had. It
didnt seem right and she was a mile away. I went outside then
went for a walk. Stepped into a bar to have a drink. Another
beer later I was holding hands with another girl.
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Some time later I was awake on a bed with a girl naked next
to me. I got dressed and left.
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A story most people liken to, worst thing ...
0 Comments, 123 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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how do u break up? 8/17/2005
i always have been up front wit it n at first try to work it
out until there is no more you can do
1 Comments, 318 Views,
2 Votes
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y do people find it soo hard to get over someone? 8/17/2005
da way i see it if someone breaks up wit they must not care
for u n if love does not go both ways it will never work at all
0 Comments, 46 Views,
3 Votes
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I can love but I don't believe in attachments... 8/17/2005
Its not good to ever attacch your self so much that you know
some one else because you don't know what can happen.
Change in health a truamatic hardship or demonic possession.
I had a tough one near death lost my physical edge as well
as my wits so when she left it was all a guess of stress. Made
me stronger. A bbuddy even told me he f><kd her and
still sees her kindof to detour my ...
0 Comments, 43 Views,
3 Votes
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closure 8/17/2005
Some people think that breaking up is something that only
one of the couple has to decide on. They seem to think that
they can just make that decision and then ignore the other
person. That's a very childish attitude. If you want
to break up, at least give the other person closure. Tell
them straight and make it clear but give them closure, otherwise
you're storing up trouble.
0 Comments, 633 Views,
32 Votes
,6.80 Score
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