MMF - Boundaries and participation

11/20/2016

I know it isn't for everyone, for me MMF threesomes
are incredible. Being invited into a loving couples bedroom
to share an incredibly erotic and sensual experience with
them is the most awesome sexual encounter imaginable.
One thing I have come to realise is that a great deal of sensitivity
by the guest in reading the needs and expectationts of the
couple who have invited you into their intimate experience.
I have known a few couples who I have shared MMF experiences.
Each couple had different approaches, levels of participation
and involvement. I think it's important not to judge
or make assumptions about people, but to respect the couples
needs and boundaries. Everyone is different. We all have
different tastes, bodies, turn ons and boundaries. One
couple I used to visit regularly used to invite me at short
notice. I would arrive at the font door and met by the husband.
He would shake my hand in a business like fashion and walk me through the house as he would a repairman being
shown through to fix the washing machine. We would casually
chat about the football results as we walked up the stairs
and into the bedroom, where he would direct me with an outstretched
arm, to the couples bed. There, on top of their bed was his
gorgeous wife. She would be lying naked and silent, rubbing
herself and watching her husband talking to me. She never
said a word to me in maybe 5 or 6 occasions that I joined them.
Standing in the couples bedroom, the husband would invite
me to remove my clothes and get started. He usually stayed
in the room, fully dressed for a while and would leave after
a few minutes of watching. A few times he would enter the
room while his wife and I were mid way through an extraordinary
fuck session. He would just stand at the side of the bed ad
watch. Not showing an obvious signs of arousal. The experience
was usually a little weird for me, but I have no doubt that
the couple had a fabulously loving relationship. Another couple I used to visit used to stay in a hotel once
a month. The husband would have my name on the reception
counter and I would collect a key at precisely 9:59 so I could
descreetly enter their room at 10pm. Without saying a word,
I would enter and he would be fucking her doggy style, facing
away from the door, every time the same position as I entered.
I would undress and move close to the couple before she would
notice me, smile like she had just received a present and
start sucking my cock while her husband, also smiling at
himself as if he had given a surprise gift to his wife and
we would both fuck and pleasure her for hours. This couple
was all about her and focusing on her pleasure. The husband
and I didn't touch each other except by accident during
DP. But they both loved it. Another couple I used to see occasionally
were into full participation by all. The husband and I didn't
fuck each other, but all three of us enjoyed each other simultaneously.
We each sucked or licked me and felt each other's bodies.
The husband wasn't gay and nor am I, but it was part of
the experience of sharing and immersing ourselves in the
encounter in a very uninhabited way which was totally comfortable
and erotic. So, from my experience, there are so many shades
of cuckold. As the bull, or male guest, the important thing
is to respect the couples expectations and wishes and share their experience
with them, their way. I would be interested to learn about
experiences of couples and guests of couples who have had
experience on this topic.