Well where does one start. My name is Tom. I live in the NE Corner of Connecticut. I am single and for now going to stay that way. I am looking for friendship and maybe more. I would like to enjoy life again. I am 6' 225 lbs with short blonde gray hair blue eyes and wear glasses. I do not want mind games or issues. I want you to be honest with me about yourself. I am an open book. Ask me anything and I will answer. I expect the same from you. I have been in the food industry for many years as a chef and other positions in the kitchen. I enjoy cooking even when not at work. Food can be fore play. The look of enjoyment when you taste something good is a turn on for me. I am also an avid reader and love the outdoors. I am also outgoing and love to have fun ! Likes live music and concerts. In the bedroom I like to lead but also enjoy a women who likes to take the lead sometimes. There are many things I want to try and looking for a willing open partner who wants to also explore. Well there you have it. If you want to know more ask me and I will answer that and any other questions you want to know !:D

My Ideal Person My ideal person would be a good honest person. I want one who is willing to try new things along with me. I do not want games I just want to have a good time.
I am not shallow and not looking for Barbie...I want a real women who wants a real man.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I have always wanted to seduce a " school girl"
in a role play only....control a sexy pet

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Role Play

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Raquel Welch...hey I grew up in the 1970's !!! She was
all over the place

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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