Hello, am in my 60s still feels young. I exercise, try to stay healthy, like to think I am still 35 or 40.. have lots of time. Although an important part of meeting a new person is our compatibility, our chemistry. Unfortunately at my age, Im closer to the end than the beginning. So I think sex is important and often helps us become more compatibile. I want a woman that is Young in her mind, That likes to have fun, is spontaneous, can do anything and go with the flow when necessary. I have gained a few pounds due to not exercising so I'm back at it and want to get back to 185 lbs. I'm about 5'10 or so shrink a little as we get older. Obviously Im not the 9 to 5 white picket frence guy, but then I know I dont have all the answers....Ive worked for business, Ive run my own business, and now im just working for myself doing what I can. I know the the world of communicating with others, although Im a little naive in my thoughts sometimes. I try to believe we are all good, but, unfortunately Ive been slapped a few times, sometimes Hard. So, Im looking for a friend, maybe a sex partner, you just have to see where it takes us...I have changed my preferences when it comes to a partner. Everyone loves to have a Beautiful woman and I always did too. But, Life and experience has taught me that an honest woman, one who can accept me as I am, and no matter what the situation is, always be truthful and expect and recieve the same from me. I prefer finding one good woman, but sometimes I have to go with the flow. I am Positive and I dont give up....these seem to be valuable assets that not everybody has.... So...Hey Baby, do you wanna dance...hopefully many good times ahead of us. So ooo ooo send me a text, I love it when women initiate contact, or I love it when I do..as long as something good happens.....See you soon.....

My Ideal Person I am loking for a woman, probably late 40's and older, to be closer in age. That is not an unbendable rule because love doesn't seem to always follow any rules, but I think it is a starting marker. I am not nearly as attracted by a womans Beauty as I am by her personality and inner beauty. Intelligence and honesty are very important. I was in the utility line business and I got an associates degree from a community colege in Albuquerque, NM, so I am not a Brainiac, but I am curious, creative, and if I don't know the answer to something, I do know how to find it. I was not, in my younger years, aware of the importance of honesty and being truthful, but like most of my learning, I had to learn it the hard way. I had to experience the hurt when someone I loved and trusted was dishonest with me. The second time around, it still hurt, but not as bad. But it was then that I realized how important these two things sre in having a good happy honest relationship. My mother was what I call a "white Liar" never told big important lies, just never told the truth if she thought it would hurt someones feelings. But watching her and thinking ,"how does she remember what she has told friends and family, as lots of it was different. I didn't see that until I was in my 30's. so that had a big effect on me. I tried to tell her, Mom, life is so much easier if you just tell the truth. so that was another hard learned lesson of mine. anyway I am telling all of the bad things about myself....I hope I don't run everybody OFF that looks at my profile. i HAVE TAKEN THE ROUND ABOUT OR HARD WAY TO LEARN SOME OF lIFE'S LESSONS..BUT, you see, that is something that I can never forget, and I can never cause someone to feel the hurt and pain that I felt when my partner was dishonest with me. so, if your are looking for that honest, truthful Guy, here I am. I can't say that I will always agree with everything anybody or everybody says or does, but you can count on me to be honest and truthful with my opinion or when asked what are my feelings on the situation. I'm sure someone is looking for someone like me. I used to joke and tell some of the women i knew, you are gonna need me one day, and it was just a big joke,,, until it began to come true... So I am telling all of the honest, sweet, truthful women who see my writing, and it doesn't hurt if you are all of the above and Beautiful...You are gonna need me someday...So you better come get me before I am gone...I hope I amuse and humor some of you... GoodNight.. im waiting.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Candle Wax, Spanking, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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