We are a couple who has never done this before. The situation is more that she has all these crazy fantasies, and he wants her to get what she wants. She likes the thought of a 3some, and of having sex with another guy, and of being watched, and watching others, but is not sure how these fantasies will stand up to reality. She also is curious - to an extent -of being with a woman. It would be more of an exploration type thing; I can't say I'd definitely be into the oral part... just trying to be upfront. By the way, this is "she" talking! lol She is more interested in finding a person or couple where the chemistry is right and seeing what happens, without too many expectations. He is just kind of along for the ride, so to speak.