I already know what you're thinking, "He's no George Clooney or Jude Law." True, but for what it's worth, I once had a Chinese National for a girlfriend who swore I reminded her of Leonardo DiCaprio in her favorite movie "Titanic" (in actuality, though, I think all white men just looked alike to her...). Other women have told me I look like Tim Robbins in "The Shawshank Redemption" or like the character Niles Crane on "Frazier". No matter. Unlike all these other men, I'm the one interested in dancing with you, laughing with you, traveling with you, dining with you -- caressing, holding, kissing you. I'd like to think I am a GENTLEMAN first and a MAN second so, naturally, it’s all about YOU. I want you to be comfortable and at ease when we meet; I want you to let go and enjoy our rendezvous, our conversation, and our time together. Like so many other women, you are a lady who gives and gives and gives of yourself to everyone else yet never has anyone give to YOU, to make YOU feel good, to make YOU feel special, to appreciate, satisfy, and relax YOU. About Me: The British philosopher Bertrand Russell once described an intellectual as: A per who has found something more interesting than sex. By that definition, I’m no intellectual but I am a sincere, successful, adventurous, professional who cultivates both his cerebral and sensual sides -- a man who knows the difference between heuristics and hermeneutics, the Reformation and the Renaissance, yet can discuss the relative merits of silicon and acrylic sex toys (hint: go with acrylic but when only the best will do, opt for Pyrex -- that's medical glass to slip in your ass). Otherwise, I am respectful of others, romantic with my woman, trustworthy in my business life and a helpful to my aging parents. (Seem boring? Sure, to outside observers. But when we're alone and I'm in charge of you, we're going to push the envelope of social conventionality leaving you feeling exhausted, fulfilled, and feminine -- you are my responsibility). Essentially, I'm a man who's interested in Women of Quality rather than Women in Quantity -- although just as you can never be too thin, too rich, or too sexy, I suppose you can never have too much Quality in your life either. Right?

My Ideal Person Like any thoughtful person approaching middle age, I sense time passing and long to stop it with you, to listen to you, to emotionally connect with you, to make a small world of two with YOU. Who are YOU? A woman's WOMAN; an aware, emotionally mature, articulate, adventurous, open-minded, complex female who appreciates romance, and the company of a MAN; a woman who pays attention to detail, but is not self-absorbed; a woman who enjoys new experiences, new worlds, new ideas, new people; a woman who is not into trauma and drama, and who can give as fully and as pleasurably as she receives; a woman who loves herself, who loves her life and intends to live it fully and without regret; a woman who enjoys travel and the finer things (not only material things but also experiential, spiritual, and mental things that help give quality, meaning, depth, and perspective to the time a man and a woman spend together); a woman who can share a physical AND mental connection (the mind is, after all, the largest and most important sex organ we have). Ciao Bella!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
B.T., Chemical Brothers, U2, Faithless, Paul Oakenfold,
Crystal Method, David Guetta, Coldplay

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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