Hi- PLEASE NOTE: I will ALWAYS respond to a flirt or hot list. Therefore, if just a standard member and NEED me to write first, just wink and I will definitely write a note to you no matter what...GUARANTEED! I'm a divorced, affectionate, warm, mostly Dom minded, kinky WJM, 62,funny, fit highly educated (PhD) and bright also - Direct at jayalp86 at the hot male site I appreciate you reading this and I’m sure that I would love to get to know you but I require any potential woman to 'pass' my 'requirement' quiz.: BE FOREWARNED: They are VERY difficult qualifications and you must COMPLETELY qualify! Take my test...Be Brave! HERE IT IS- GOOD LUCK!!! 1- Can you guarantee that you have, at least, four limbs (this is somewhat negotiable) 2- Can you promise not to laugh, in the, unlikely, event you ever see me naked? (VERY important as I'm far from being built like a 'Black' guy) 3-Can you guarantee that you are a non-smoker? (or, at least , be trying to quit, or, at least , smoke less than four packs every two hours?) 4- Can you swear that you are not a member of the American Nazi Party or the Islamic Jihad? So you can see my standards are also quite high but I'm, almost certainly, not worth it. If you can, in all honesty, state that you qualify, I'd love to hear from you. Hopefully, you might be one of few (billions) that 'qualify'.!!! I now realize that a 'vanilla' relationship just does not work for me. is the kind of relationship I want and need I'm ready to meet the love of my life after MANY celibate and affectionate-less years. The ideal 'love of my life' would be: pretty, fit, affectionate, attractive, very kinky, mostly submissive, intense, bright, and looking for this kind of LONG TERM relationship My only limits would be yours and those limits would be alwaysrespected but the more perverse/taboo/kinky etc. you are, the more I will want you If you feel that might be you, I would be thrilled to hear back from you (Please note: This would be perfect but I don’t expect, and can’t offer, perfection. Thus don’t worry if you don’t completely ‘fit’ the above 'ideal') If you send me a photo, I will definitely smile Send me two and I'll sell my sister to Al Qaeda Thanks for reading this (mostly) nonsense Photo with glasses, trim beard taken late March 2013; others in 2012 Ken PS- To me age is just a number and race has NO meaning and thus, any woman who is close to my 'desired one' regardless of age or race, please feel free to get in touch PS- I prefer to avoid endless emailing- Prefer phone as soon as possible and, if that goes well, a meeting.

My Ideal Person If we get to the point of wanting to directly speak,, I will give you my HOME number. This, hopefully, will give you confidence that I'm not a serial killer, as you can do a reverse look-up and find out my name etc.

ATT- WOMEN OUT OF NY WHO MIGHT BE INTERESTED and are looking to POSSIBLY RELOCATE:

Since I'm looking for something, preferably long term ( a lifetime, possibly), I will gladly entertain notes from women anywhere but DUE TO THE INCREDIBLE PERCENTAGE OF PHONIES ON HERE:

I will, if it gets to the point thru phone etc (but NEVER NEVER IM- If you insist upon IM- ot texting- as the way to communicate, I will assume you are a scammer) of us really being interested in you visiting me in NY and I'm convinced you are for real, I will

pay for your airfare (by REIMBURSING you- to be paid as soon as you arrive even if you look at me and turn right around)

I will gladly entertain you and have you stay with me

PLEASE NOTE: To me these are 'kisses of death' (i.e. proof of a phony, scammer):

You are NOT where your profile says you are

All you want is to IM (for that reasons, I NEVER IM)

You 'somehow' do not have a phone.

If you write, feel free to ask me anything. One of the things I loved in the few intense, kinky, Dom-Sub relationships I've had is the openness and trust necessary for it to work.

The intimacy of being open to another person about things we almost always keep to ourselves is wonderfully intense and liberating.

Also you must be affectionate and want that in a guy

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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