Basics about me: I am an easy-going *attached* man in his early 40s, in great shape and good health, and with a very healthy libido. 5'10", trim 175 lbs, with all my hair. Nice smooth skin for you to feel and touch. Open, honest, straight forward, transparent. I am genuine and want to make real contact, not just play games. Very well adjusted, open-minded and into pleasuring an appreciative, erotic sensual woman. I like to give and receive oral, gentle caresses, foreplay and massages/backrubs. I would like to experiment with some role-playing. It's not all about sex. Nicely educated (masters degree), intelligent, fun, twisted sense of humour, great listener and conversationalist with many varied interests. A friend not just in bed but out of it too. D&D-free, totally straight and always plays safe. I am independent and can play during the weekday while your s are at school and/or partner is at work. I am attached and my domestic situation is happy (not looking to leave) but do enjoy the thrill of finding erotic pleasure on the side (read: extra-relationship sex is exciting as it is for you).

My Ideal Person I am seeking that one special woman, who is preferably attached too, to re-experience that thrill of meeting, romancing and being seduced by a new lover, and also having a friend who she can share all her secrets with and talk about topics best not/too risky to be discussed with others (I most assuredly will probably not be in your social groups). She prefers, as I do, something without strings attached and uncomplicated.

She should be very sexual and have a healthy libido, and be in decent shape (few well-carried extra lbs o.k.). She likes flirting, teasing, cuddling, kissing and lots of foreplay. If she is attached, she is happy at home and not seeking to leave her partner. No love (other than as friends), just good ol' plain lust.

What's more, I don't want to meet you for sex _only_. I want some emotional and intellectual rapport, chemistry and meeting of the minds, not just of the flesh. Even if the passion cools and lust fades, we started as friends and can remain friends.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
seduction!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A remote wilderness spot

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Candle Wax, Food Play, Giving Oral Sex, Making Home "Movies", Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Receiving Oral Sex, Role Playing, Spanking, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Sexual appetite, Sexual experience

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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