Hi, I am a 50ish single lady, seeking a gentleman friend between the ages of 37 and 50 to spend time with - going to a movie, enjoying a home-cooked meal or a dinner out, and following that, some good sex. I have a wide variety of interests, and have a curious nature. I love to read, and have a voracious appetite for knowledge. I enjoy travelling and seeing new places, meeting new people and enjoying new experiences. I love listening (and dancing) to most music - and always have music on in my home. I enjoy being outdoors, especially camping in the summer. We could enjoy a short hike, a quiet canoe paddle around the lake, or a quiet evening around the campfire. Or we could get all dressed up (or down, your preference) and go out clubbing to dance the night away. Part of my perality is the quiet homebody and the other part is the restless rebel who likes to surprise people and do the unexpected. I may keep you guessing - so don't ever think I am predictable. I have a healthy libido, and would expect that exploring our sexual nature and creative sides would be an important part of any long term relationship. I am a plus-size lady, 5'5", and have a nicely rounded figure. I have a healthy imagination and, with the right per will try ALMOST anything (within rea). I am multi-orgasmic, I LOVE GIVING and receiving ORAL, and haven't found a sexual position I don't like. I am particularly fond of anal. I have dabbled in some sexual elements that some people might define as "kinky", but that is a relative term, isn't it? Whether I explore that again will depend entirely on the guy and the kind of relationship we have and want. My life will be just fine if I never swing again - and since my long-term goal would be to find my soulmate, lover and best friend - that may be something I have no desire for in the future. But then, who knows what the future holds, right???

My Ideal Person Looking for a SINGLE (separated with no chance of reconciliation is okay, though) AVAILABLE, happy, well-adjusted man, aged from late-30's to mid-50's or so, who realizes that maturity has nothing to do with chronological age. It has more to do with attitude, open-ness and acceptance. An open-minded man who is willing to try new experiences (eating a new kind of cuisine, listening to a new kind of music, checking out a theatrical production you wouldn't normally attend, or trying a new sexual position). A man who is not threatened by someone who expresses their own opinion - and celebrates the differences between 2 people as well as the similarities. Someone who is interested in the heart, mind and soul, and understands that body type does not determine the worth of a person. (I'm changing my lifestyle, but give me a break, the excess weight is not going to come off overnight).

You should have a well-rounded life, balanced between gainful employment and time for play and relaxation. You should know where you've been, grown from your experiences, and have a clear vision of where you are going (and how to get there). You should have a healthy sense of humour, and be able to carry on an intelligent conversation, when required. But you should also be comfortable with silence. If you have a healthy relationship with parents, siblings, children, family, friends and co-workers, you get bonus points.

Since you are not dead yet, you should have a strong libido and an interest in exploring all aspects of the sexual side of a relationship, an adventurous spirit, and a willingness to try new things.

Don't be telling me you have a huge appendage if you don't - I know how to use a measuring tape. Honesty is always the best policy. Do you now how to use it?? If you have a talented mind, an imagination, a tongue and 10 fingers, I will forgive any "shortcomings".

Do you agree with me, that you are as young as you want to be? Do you also agree that having a healthy, active and imaginative sex life is important to your physical and mental well-being? Let's explore this big, wide world together.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
1. A bunch of like-minded consensual adults enjoying sex in the same place. Who knows what could happen - other than total sexual satisfaction for everyone involved?

2. Me, being totally satisfied by a bunch of healthy, well-hung guys doing anything I want, and having every orifice filled, whie a couple of studs wait in reserve to take over when needed.

3. A hot summer night. You and I wearing only the bare essentials. We are so hot for each other that you slam me up against the wall in a glass elevator high above the city. We have a hot and furious quicky (you name the position) and then tidy our hair and clothes. When the elevator opens at the roof-top restaurant, we are met with looks of disapproval (and some envy) from those who have been waiting (not too patiently) for the elevator to finally get there. We nonchalantly proceed to our intimate candlelight dinner in a cozy booth for 2.

4. You, taking me and ravaging my body, just because you can't hold off any longer - You name the location, a public park, the parking lot at the theater. Just go for it.

5. Ditto, only me doing the above to you.

6. You and me starring in our own porno.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, You

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each, Openness to finding pleasure in new experiences.

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Who do I need a celebrity when I have you?

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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